DeadToMe the Whenuahe

If they want to ______, let them.
If they don't want to ______, let them.

"Most people cannot comprehend how powerful this really is, because many people are conditioned to act out of emotions regarding other people's actions in a vain attempt to 'control' them (which usually doesn't happen). When you let others do what they do, it deprives them of any possible desired reaction from you, and they are often left puzzled instead of satisfied they got a reaction from you. This is the way to deal with negative and confusing behavior."



I was singled out and bullied on this website. Other users have said similar / the same things that I had said (before I did and they still do to this day), and yet, I was the one that was singled out.

I decided to take a monthlong break from the site. When I returned, I chose to not speak to anyone because I don't feel comfortable talking on this website. And yet, I know that some people must have thought I was deliberately ignoring them specifically and personally. No, it was everyone that I was not speaking to, and I thought that was so clear to see. How could one not see that when I share my opinion and show more personality on this website, I get in trouble? So why the heck would I want to say anything to anyone.

This is a general statement. But if the shoe fits, wear it.

Thank you to those that reached out to me via Discord (where it's private and separate from Egg Cave):
@okami
@lexicon

Thank you to those that defended me by name:
@okami


If they want to misunderstand you, let them.

"You will finally stop caring if people understand you because you understand yourself. And that's enough."