What to do...

katrinafugs • 16 November 2011 at 5:02 PM

Hello pplz first you might want know me before I go into the really problem: I'm a very quite and strange girl in school. I never talk ( I just moved here so I only have two friends ) and I never ever ever did anything to offend anyone. I really don't fit in.




The problem: I sit behind this girl in math class who is always giving me attitude when she passes the papers back (. She's in front of me ) she is always whispering to her little freind and they look at me after so that I know that there talking about me. It doesn't make me sad nor helpless its just SUPER annoying it makes me really angry I want to wipe the walls
With her face. It all start one morning the teacher always gives use time to do our homework at te the of the period and I am very lazy and I didnt want to do it that period so in stead I was drawing pictures ( its my passion although I'm really bad at it lol ) then she said : " why aren't you doing your homework" I said : " cause u don't want to...." she said: " well your sopossed to do it" then finally I said " I don't care I want to draw" (note I didn't say it with attitude or nothin. I've tryed everything in the book to stop her harassment like: ignoring her, looking confident and I'm up too my last resorert if she says one more word to me ima ask her whats her problem and if I don't like her responds well let's say she won't be able to speak one more word to me again ( i know that violence isn't the answer but what can I do? Any suggestions)

Deleted • 16 November 2011 at 5:17 PM

@Katrinafugs

Aw, you're not using violence☹️

Wait, what grade are you in? XD I need to know so I use the right words xD

katrinafugs • 16 November 2011 at 5:21 PM

@chloekins I'm in 7th grade I took a class in karate 😸

Deleted • 16 November 2011 at 5:26 PM

@Katrinafugs

Karate! Beat the crap out of her! ^^

Nuu, that would be to nice:/

Try to say something offending😊

It is the circle of life ^.^

katrinafugs • 16 November 2011 at 5:30 PM

* is already getting brown belt and karate costume* ok I'll try thanks ^__^ @chloekins

Deleted • 16 November 2011 at 5:36 PM

@katrinafugs tell her "you know, last time i checked, your opinions wernt asked for, or wanted. so go crawl back to your little friends and everything will be fine, okay?" in a sweet vioce and a smile on your face. if she says something rude back, beat her up.

pegasasu • 16 November 2011 at 5:41 PM

@katrinafugs

Acid combacks are always a good way to deal with people like that. You're in the same grade as me, and this strategy has worked very well for me. For instance, if she's talking about you, you may want to try one of the following:

"I suppose you and your friend are reenacting your mother and father's actions at your dinner table last night, aren't ya? Well, I 'll be glad to fill in the part of the dim-witted daughter!"

"Ah, I remember the last time people started doing that to me. It's too bad Alicia doesn't know how to speak Portuguese, or calm very angry tribal warriors."

Or something of the sort. Or perhaps you can make her sound stupid by using big words--

(In a British accent, for effect) "You ignoramus (Idiot), your belief in your supposedly pulchritude (beauty), which, in all sorts may be considered at the most diminutive (small). In fact, in this case allure would do you no good, only perspicacity (wisdom) would help you in this situation. Truly though, I believe it is true of you to be a direct descendant of Neanderthals (cavemen) , and in the case I am correct, you would be incapable of either beauty or insight."

sky • 16 November 2011 at 5:49 PM

In my opinion insulting and violence leads to much more anger - and war.

Which brings me to what had happened today, nothing bad, just a conversation, my friend had told me and my friends a story about how she was little and her neighbor shot her dog (on purpose) and buried the dog on his lawn, he killed the dog only because the dog would chase around his rabbits, I thought,
"Oh, well what I would've done (not really) for revenge was shoot his rabbits and line them up in front of his lawn!"
I have no intentions on doing that, rabbits are too cute, and I love all animals.

But, seriously - It makes things worse.

She's obviously just trying to make herself seem as if she were the bigger person just because you're new.

gvantsa • 16 November 2011 at 7:13 PM

Do the same thing she's doing to you. Have someone near you play along and you can pretend you are talking about her, look in her direction, etc. See how she likes it 😋

katrinafugs • 17 November 2011 at 3:05 PM

T-T just in case your thinkin about what happen i kinda got OSS for a month

anna914 • 17 November 2011 at 3:15 PM

ask her what her problem we all have something we don't like
you never tried known me ...... just might help no like me too i only have 1 friend your lucky to have two but i have best friend on spp so i guess 2 @ katrinafugs