I'm in a bit of a crisis here...

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dreamer • 23 November 2011 at 1:08 PM

I've had issues lately with someone that I like.

And today, I told @Scarlettsong to tell the boy I liked that I liked him. So I told her to tell the boy that I liked him.

Apparently, all he said was "Yeah, I'm pretty sure of that too" and walked away.

So I'm *kinda* freaking out here. With large exagerration in the 'kinda'.

Okay, so maybe I'm *seriously* freaking out.

I'm not clear on if he's happy about it, if he's saying "of course she does," if he's saying I'm a freak, if he's surprised, if he's happy or sad, or even angry. I still have no clue how he feels towards me whatsoever, and "I'm pretty sure of that too" doesn't really give me a very clear response.

Can I get some help here? Maybe it'll ease my nervousness. X3

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balletninja • 23 November 2011 at 1:11 PM

Guys are just silly. It is probably no big deal to him, but he will come around.

Plus there are tons of fish in the sea 😃

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gvantsa • 23 November 2011 at 1:11 PM

It sounds like he already knew about it? He did not really say if he felt the same... if you're shy have your friend ask his feelings about them or try yourself.

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dreamer • 23 November 2011 at 1:17 PM

@Balletninja Yeah, guys are usually hard to figure out like that. X3

I'll just have to wait till Monday to talk to him again...

@Gvansta He probably did know already. I made it pretty obvious for 'im. X3

The problem was, I wanted to tell him how I felt, but I was way too nervous, so Scarlettsong agreed that she would tell him for me.

I told her to tell him about it, then ask how he felt about me. So basically, she was our little messanger. x3

She went up to the boy and said "Hey Ben, I think Danielle *insert last name here* likes you."

She was gonna keep talking, but he replied with "I'm pretty sure of that too" and walked away before she had the chance to reply.

So I'm kinda in a pickle. Those 6 words he said are really playing around with my thoughts, it could mean so many different things...

So I'll try to talk to him on Monday. But waiting 4 whole days is pretty hard when you feel like this...

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whitefall • 23 November 2011 at 1:20 PM

Urg, reminds me of the time everyone though I liked Chand last year =_= But I didn't. xD Well I liked him at the beginning of the year, then I didn't, and now I like him again. The boys pestered me about him when I didn't like him.

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isablah • 23 November 2011 at 1:36 PM

Yes, I had started out with a crush last year in fifth grade and then I didn't when he asked me about it but at that time he had a crush on me and now I have a crush on him again, but I don't know if he still has a crush on me.... and I am so confused and I feel hopeless and... omg what if he sees this.... omg... he goes on this site..... eeeeeek.

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whitefall • 23 November 2011 at 1:44 PM

@isablah
If you like him that much, find out. xD
Though dating in 6th grade isn't really anything. o_0

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isablah • 23 November 2011 at 1:52 PM

I tried and I told him already I DO NOT want to date. And neither does he.

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dreamer • 23 November 2011 at 5:05 PM

Ugg, I'm getting more and more panicked by the second.

The more I think about the boy, the more I remember that I'm in the real world here.

Whenever I'd get extremely close to confessing to him, I'd lose sight of everything. Then later on, I'd be relaxing, thinking it over, and now I'm saying: What have I done?

The words he said are too hard to decipher how he feels.

Then again, if he already knew I liked him, that means he was thinking about me...

And if he knew I liked him, he would've said something... Unless he was nervous...

Bingo. ;D

It's still too close to tell, but I think I have a bit of a chance here. Ad I always had this strange feeling that confessig to the boy would bring something good.

I don't know... Only time will tell, I guess...

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glados • 23 November 2011 at 5:10 PM

I don't deal with boys. (:
Except famous ones
who I will never meet.

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scarlettsong • 23 November 2011 at 5:59 PM

Boy... Wow your, like, freakIng out over this... I can't read my enimies mind, but he is probably just as confused as you are... @dreamer

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dreamer • 23 November 2011 at 6:25 PM

@Scarlettsong Deos this mean I still get to call you heartless? 8D

I hope he doesn't hate me or anything, not the way he hates you and you hate him, hehe. X3

I'm so impatient already... TIME ISN'T PASSING FAST ENOUGH. Omg. D:

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trish • 23 November 2011 at 6:43 PM

@dreamer Maybe Ben was too cautious or scared to admit anything?(:

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