boy troubles, need some help.....please?

in Chit-Chat

Deleted • 10 December 2011 at 11:41 PM

okay, theres this guy, hes my best friend, and i really like him, but don't know if i should ask him if he likes me or just hold it in. i mean, im not sure if i should risk it, but ive known him for 14 years, and i really love him. i just need some advice please.

Female
4,232 posts

     

meixiaotian • 10 December 2011 at 11:44 PM

I wouldn't ask him, I would just start to approach slowly. Act closer than usual. But I have no really experienced advice. Never really felt like that.

Deleted • 10 December 2011 at 11:46 PM

@meixiatian yeah....im just scared ill ruin our friendship, thats all D:

Female
6 posts

     

ariana275 • 10 December 2011 at 11:48 PM

I agree with meixiaotan. Get closer and be a little obvious about it. If he does the same then keep going with it.

29 posts

     

anonymously_me • 10 December 2011 at 11:50 PM

@deannablanco3

I experienced that, and I think you shouldn't ask him...

Try making him feel that you like him and at the right moment just pretend to joke around and tell him you like him... or try talking to him about love then ask advice from him, and wait until you have the guts to confess the only problem is your friendship...

Deleted • 10 December 2011 at 11:53 PM

@anonymously_me yeah....thats great advice 😸 im just not sure im his 'type' he ussaly goes for shortish girls, and im almost as tall as him D: im just being a wuss..... ;.; im pathetic, arent i?

29 posts

     

anonymously_me • 10 December 2011 at 11:58 PM

@deannablanco3

My friends usually ran to me for advice and lots of them experienced that... All I can say is that try to spend as much time with him, make him feel that you are there for him and when he starts a topic about love(boys rarely do that), just make the conversation long without telling him that you like him (not just yet, timing is everything).

Then try to get conversations like that as many as possible, anyways its all up to you to find the right time. Just keep asking him what he likes in a girl ^-^

Female
2,485 posts

     

yogurt • 11 December 2011 at 12:44 AM

@deannablanco3
If you're real friends your friendship won't be ruined over a silly question. ;D Good luck.

Deleted • 11 December 2011 at 1:17 PM

@yogurt yeah...im going to try and work up the courage to ask him....;.;

Male
2,324 posts

     

zafeyry • 11 December 2011 at 3:25 PM

@deannablanco3
I tried that over the summer with my best friend for 7 years. I played it off like I was saying I love her as a friend.

Deleted • 11 December 2011 at 3:27 PM

@zafeyry XD im just a mega wuss in rl XD

Male
2,324 posts

     

zafeyry • 11 December 2011 at 3:28 PM

@deannablanco3
But then she started hanging out with this stuck-up girl and we don't see each other in school anymore so we're not as good of friends. And in that post, I forgot to say she didn't like me.

Male
2,935 posts

     

miomar • 11 December 2011 at 3:33 PM

Haha, this is so funny to read. Since i'm a boy, and... I WANNA FALL IN LOVE! NOW! =^(

Deleted • 11 December 2011 at 3:34 PM

@Miomar Why do you wanna fall in love~?

Deleted • 11 December 2011 at 3:36 PM

@miomar XD

Female
8,989 posts

     

lola622f • 11 December 2011 at 3:37 PM

@deannablanco3 well...I don't think it'll be good to like, confess. You should hang out with him more often, but don't tell him that you like him. Maybe you could try to give hints, and see if he likes you.

Deleted • 11 December 2011 at 3:39 PM

@Miomar No, you don't. xD

*Runs away*

Male
2,935 posts

     

miomar • 11 December 2011 at 3:41 PM

@Dawnie
Idk, i just want to. I sometimes have crushes, but mostly they are gone in no time and seeing all those lucky and loving people just makes me sad and lonely. A girl who loves me and i can love too is like my dream...

Deleted • 11 December 2011 at 3:43 PM

@Miomar You'll find someone. (:

@_Batman Hey, shut up. xD

Male
2,935 posts

     

miomar • 11 December 2011 at 3:44 PM

@Dawnie
I will, in my dreams...

Deleted • 11 December 2011 at 3:48 PM

O_o ... ? I had this one friend and when people made fun of us he said he liked me as a friend

Deleted • 11 December 2011 at 3:50 PM

@Miomar ..The worst part is the wait. Sometimes it can take years before you even realize you love someone. But it will be well worth the wait, trust me. Just take your time, you won't find the right person immediately. But you'll know when you've found them, and you'll wonder why you didn't realize sooner. It may have taken 5 years, but I found the love of my life. You'll fine yours too, in time. Don't give up. Good luck. 😊

Deleted • 11 December 2011 at 3:52 PM

@_Batman . . . . . ❤️


@Miomar It may FEEL like a dream, but you'll find her. 😊

Male
2,935 posts

     

miomar • 11 December 2011 at 3:59 PM

@Dawnie
@_batman
You guys make me smile =^)

Female
16 posts

     

amitynoble • 12 December 2011 at 12:36 AM

@miomar
My friend always had boyfriends when I didn't, and she used to say to me, stop worrying and it will happen when you least expect it... she was right (:
Hang in there sunshine, there's someone out there for everyone ^^

Reply