please help for a good cause

unebra • 6 January 2012 at 6:57 PM

im seeing bullieng everywhere like in my school even i get bullied all the time i have to admit im even a bully i heard this story on facebook a girl killed herself because she was bullied so much she couldnt take it anymore i just think it needs to stop
i just had a big fight with my sister i bully her every day shes 2 years younger than me i kick her until she crys i just feel so bad now because shse was crying saying how she will never hold back against me agian after all these years iv bullied her i feel like total trash i should be bullied by her im always mean and everything to everybody ☹️ iv said im sorry to her but that wont change anything she will still be scarred from the names iv called her and told her i didnt care about her when deep down inside i really did and so will the person that u bully so please stop people kill themselvs all thre time over things like this so please dont do bully

olimpt • 6 January 2012 at 6:59 PM

@unebra
You said at the end to please do bullly

unebra • 6 January 2012 at 6:59 PM

@olimpt omg ill fix it 😊

doll • 6 January 2012 at 7:29 PM

I'm just happy you realized it's not a good thing to do and all bullies do is make people's lives miserable-
for no reason at all. Only for making themselves feel better, or if they apparently dislike something about someone that's not hurtful to anybody but them.

Ex. If they are interested in the same gender(gay) if they dress differently, listen to different music, have different opinions. etc.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with liking the same gender or having different opinions, or simply liking different things that the people around you might not be interested in.
Bullies can't accept the fact that other people have opinions, ideas and interests, and they need to respect that.

The average bully is someone who is insecure with themselves, they have no self esteem, or they just think they're better than anyone else for a silly reason.

Ex. They could be rich, but that does not make you any better than the ones who are poor.
If they're thin and bash on people who aren't, eventually giving them an eating disorder.
If they consider themselves "pretty" on the OUTSIDE.
But really, they're losers who only accept someone for their looks, not their personality

When you're abusing someone with words, you're not hurting them physically, but you're emotionally killing them, because eventually, they will commit suicide.

faeriefennec • 6 January 2012 at 9:47 PM

@unebra

Bullying isn't acceptable in any situation, however even though the scars are there you should think about what you can do to mend the relationship you have now. Apologize, do nice things for one another. Try anything you can to make a relationship work between your younger sister.

She may be annoying but thats what kid sisters do. They want to BE like you, and they find it hard to show their affection any other way BUT to be annoying.

I have a kid sister myself, we are 8 years apart, and its been a tough transition with her being 11 and me being 19. But we are slowly mending the bad behaviour we both had around each other... It will take awhile but it will work.

I also doubt your sister will want to kill herself because of sibling bullying. It's what kids do, and in the end, it take ALOT more then just what you are doing to influence such a drastic choice.

unebra • 6 January 2012 at 11:03 PM

@faeiefennec thanks 😸


im just mostly making this topic because i want it to spop !!! people are rude mean bullys !!! i mean every body should have the right to go to school and not be afraid of going to be bullied it happens to me every day ! some kid is trying to act cool they r like hey stupid and worse names i dont really care but some people can get really offended so be careful what you say