Welllllll. That was awkward

cafe • 9 January 2012 at 7:56 AM

I'm about to lay back down, but I wanted to inform my friends.

I came out on here a few days ago, it was kinda like a little test for me. Taking it one step at a time.

I finally told my parents [Well, more my dad. I've been somewhat talking to my mom about it. She's bi herself, so that's why] I'm pansexual, and prefer, as my dad calls it "Beautiful men, m2w; but still have their you-know-whats, to women.

It went different that what I expected.

All he said was "I know"

My jaw literally hit the floor.
He stated how I never say "That buff guy is hot" without thinking, like most girls,
If you hand my a pink/purple skirt [Frilly or not] verses jean shorts/ black skirt/ something not..flashy I'd choose the latter.
Or a girly shirt like, say a band shirt with hearts on it that a lot of girls wear now-a-days with boy bands on them. Never wear them.

It's not that I'm like, all butch about my clothes, I have some girly. I'm just more tomboyish.

I just never though he knew.
So, I'm back to bed to be still a little shocked and sore [Just dance kicked my butt with my friend]
Just wanted to thank you guys
Without you as a stepping stone, I could never have the courage to tell them.

goku • 9 January 2012 at 7:58 AM

wow! 0.0

cafe • 9 January 2012 at 8:05 AM

@Goku

My dad is a psychic.

He laughed when I said "So I look like a biker chick?!" With a horrified face, and had to explain what I said above.

goku • 9 January 2012 at 8:07 AM

lol
@cafe

Half the girls at my school are tomboys.

cafe • 9 January 2012 at 8:13 AM

@Goku

Tomboy doesn't mean you're pansexual or bi, but it's kinda like... an indicator for some people. Me being one of them. My friend is a tomboy but, like, is freaked out by other women's lady parts [Breast, down there] and changes in the bathroom stall. [When I was still in high school, don't know about now]

Another one was how - this is where my Dad's ninja skills come in - he notices I get more into movies where there is a feminine man, like Edward Scissor hands, than one with a buff guy. [Can't think right now, so tired] Like, I'll stare at the person in the movie, even if he's not the main character [Like Reid from Criminal minds]


But. I am attracted to Morgan in the same show. So I have some stuff outside my preference.

goku • 9 January 2012 at 8:16 AM

@cafe wuts pansexual???

cafe • 9 January 2012 at 8:21 AM

@Goku

LMFAO
Sorry, the way you acted was funny

Like, nodding to the conversation, and then going "Yeah, I have one question, what's-"
xD


Pansexual means you have no.. boundaries. You don't see gender, religion, race, etc. Though you can have preferences. Like, I prefer, as my dad said, between women and beautiful [Feminine] men, though sometimes I fall out of that and find someone out of my preference attractive, like the case with Morgan from criminal minds..

And. I like pale people. But... I couldn't date someone white as mayo [Like Shaymus from WWE] or reeeaallllyyyy dark.

I like pale, not pasty, to light brown people.

goku • 9 January 2012 at 8:23 AM

@cafe oooooh 😃.
Thnx