Guy Problems Again! Help? D:

orange • 20 January 2012 at 5:44 PM

For all of you who helped me the FIRST time, or who want to know the story....:
http://eggcave.com/forums/topic/10814

And Guess what? I like him again☹️ Its sad actually....I started liking him again like A MONTH after I forced myself into not thinking about him☹️
But it went uphill from there😋
The girl that was flirting with him? She was just fake flirting...

Her: I am REALLY digging someone right now...
Me: Who?
Someone else: (Guy who I like)?
Her: No😋 He is just adorable, when I say adorable, I mean NICE.
Me: (silently) Yes!

So.....I started flirting with him....and he is flirting back😋 I am PRETTY sure he likes me but..
This one guy ALMOST asked me out...but I turned away so I couldn't hear him...and the guy I like was sitting RIGHT THERE

Help? What should I do? I miss him ALREADY...and its only been like an HOUR.

@olimpt

olimpt • 20 January 2012 at 5:51 PM

@orange
If you like him, And if you miss him ALREADY ask him out. ;3

orange • 20 January 2012 at 5:52 PM

@olimpt
BUT I don't know if he likes me or not☹️ I am afraid he will turn me down and I will be HEART BROKEN </3

olimpt • 20 January 2012 at 5:54 PM

@orange
You never know until you ask

univea • 20 January 2012 at 5:55 PM

@orange just go for it! If he says no, he says no. asking him later wouldn't change that.

orange • 20 January 2012 at 5:56 PM

@olimpt
@univia
0.0 I am scared...

olimpt • 20 January 2012 at 5:58 PM

@orange
You will feel better after : d

lavender • 20 January 2012 at 6:02 PM

@orange go for it! Ask him..
I LOVE a guy, and he is in 8th grade, and I am in 7th, but I don't know him, and he does not know me..!! I can't even say Hi to him! You are lucky, atleast you have the courage to do something..!

balletninja • 20 January 2012 at 6:04 PM

Ouch.
I really feel for the guy that you
turned away from.
That must really hurt D:
And if you do ask out the other guy,
the guy who was going to ask you out would be more heartbroken than anything.

orange • 20 January 2012 at 6:05 PM

@olimpt
0.0 I am SUPER scared like shivering scared.....☹️ I REALLY like him though...

olimpt • 20 January 2012 at 6:07 PM

@orange
Its okay
Just relax
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zafeyry • 20 January 2012 at 6:08 PM

@orange
Asa guy, I'm saying go for it! My now girlfriend told me she liked me and it was amazing!

orange • 20 January 2012 at 6:10 PM

@balletninja
Ya he was like:
Him: Soo *my name* I really li---
Me: *turns away...nervous*
Guy I like: *OMG face that was weird*
Him: --------- (I tuned him out)

Well i can't really tell the guy I like's face😋

@lavender
I don't think I have the courage☹️ If he says No....I don't know WHAT I will do. And I have a feeling I am WAY out of his league☹️

@olimpt
Ok😋

balletninja • 20 January 2012 at 6:12 PM

@orange That is still really awful.
Put yourself in his shoes.

orange • 20 January 2012 at 6:14 PM

@balletninja
I know☹️ I felt AWFUL right after...but I saw him ask like a BUNCH of girls. And they all turned him down☹️ I felt really bad...and I didn't really want to say anything so I just turned around.☹️

I like WHO exactly likes me right now....and they all flirt with me. RIGHT in front of they guy I like☹️

lavender • 20 January 2012 at 6:20 PM

@orange
I understand EXACTLY what you mean! IT is like you really want to tell, but you do not have the courage to.., and then you try again, but you cannot do it.. I have spent soooooo many weeks tring to think what I will say.., and you don't want to say it , becuase you will know, you will be heart-broken, if he says, No, or I don't like you.., so what I decided is to tell the person I like the last day of the year, becuase that will be the last-time I will see him(since he is in 8th grade), unless he goes to the same high-school, I will just say "I love you" and run away!😃
And, I think you will have much better luck with the person you like becuase:
1)he knows you
2)You know him
3)He atleast sat next to you
4)He talked to you before
5)I just have a feeling, you will do much better
6) From everything you have said soo far, it sounds like he likes you, and mayne he was with your neighbor, becuase he wanted to see YOU!😃

dreamer • 20 January 2012 at 6:21 PM

@Orange I'm having that problem too with someone I like. I've liked him since last year, but I never really admitted to it until last October... I tried to ask him to dance with me for our last two dances, but I was extremely nervous. Just when I gained up the courage to do it, the dance was over. -_- And the night afterwards I stayed up crying. I guess love is that powerful... I'm GOING TO ask him to our next dance. On Martch 8. Last dance of the year, I have to do it. And I'm going to.

Obviously you like this boy for a reason. I judge boys on personality, so I wouldn't have a crush on a boy if I thought he was rotten.

A little motivation helps too. Sometimes if you don't admit to him for a while, you'll feel horrible. And because I didn't ask the boy I liek to dance with me, it's killing me on the inside.

Try giving yourself a goal or a dare. My friend dared me to admit that I had a crush on the boy, but she told him for me, so it wasn't very convincing. Whoever you like, go right up to him and say it. Remember, confidence is key!

Tell yourself, I won't do ___(whatever you won't do or say) until I ask ____(insert name here) out!" Or some other sort of pressure. That's what works for me.

lavender • 20 January 2012 at 6:54 PM

@orange, I made up a song for blueberry(blueberry=the guy I like, pineaaple =love, ham=like), I Pineapple blueberry!
Anyway, here is part of the song:
Love is unfaithful
But lonely is a loveless life
Beware, never give your heart,
yet your heart you will lose
And you will awake in pleasure,
your sleepless nights
You pain, your pleasure,
belongs to someoneelse
No use promises,
no matter how much you will try
Oh, but for love , this world
would become a world of ascetics

orange • 20 January 2012 at 7:42 PM

@dreamer
Ok😋 I hope that works though...😊
It would make me feel better if a FREIND told him....maybe.....😋

@lavender
Aww!😊 I love it! ❤️

@jazzyleia
@chloekins

jazzyleia • 20 January 2012 at 7:43 PM

@orange

Well i can't really help as i haven't had any boy problems yet but i will say that you just need to tell this girl about your love for him and then tell him! 😃 *or not, no probably don't do that*

lavender • 20 January 2012 at 7:48 PM

@orange,
thanks!😃

Deleted • 20 January 2012 at 7:49 PM

@orange so lucky, so so lucky. *quote from LooneyToons* I have no heart for boys since 10 or so like me =.= got advice to keep them away?
If he likes, hug. ❤️ Ask, chat and maybe date~

Deleted • 20 January 2012 at 7:56 PM

@orange If you don't try, you'll never know. I liked ONE guy for the longest time. It was bout... 5 years. I tried like lots of times but I either chickened out, or there was too many people with him. Or he already had a girlfriend. Don't try to just forget about him, I tried, It doesn't really work out.. :x

I'm just going to say ask him out before someone else does.
It hurts to seem them with someone else, it really does.

Deleted • 20 January 2012 at 7:59 PM

i dont like boys 'that way'. i get hated on alot because of that. *sweatdrop* but im proud of myself, so it doesnt matter what they think. ive been crushin on this one girl for awhile, but shes likes guys. *sigh* what i would do is just flat out ask them.

orange • 20 January 2012 at 9:43 PM

@dawnie
I JUST saw a show where the guy she REALLY likes was kissing another person. Then I imagined me if that happened....I almost cried.☹️
But ya...I have the same problem. I am always too nervous to ask him....>.<
And whats with the guys logic of "friend zone"? Its like not even true😋

@bettafish
Aww! Its ok, it dosen't matter what gender you like😊 (read your status while answering)

@enigzima
I wish😋 I like him, if he asks me out....I would be SCREAMING with joy inside😊

Deleted • 20 January 2012 at 9:44 PM

@Orange OMG, I'd cry too. D:

Unless you're lucky like me and HE asks YOU? 😃

orange • 20 January 2012 at 9:46 PM

@dawnie
Ya😋 But....he is probably WAY out of my league☹️ I don't think there will be a chance that he will ask me☹️ Its sad actually......
If I asked him, and he says no....I don't know what I would do.☹️☹️☹️

Deleted • 20 January 2012 at 9:48 PM

@orange just start a friendshiop, then be straight up about your feelings once you guys are close. C:

orange • 20 January 2012 at 9:48 PM

@bettafish
We are friends😋 But....not that close....☹️

Deleted • 20 January 2012 at 9:49 PM

@Orange What so he's too popular? Good looking?

If you went to school with me you'd wonder for years how we're together, and you'd never find the answer.

It doesn't matter, there's still a chance 😊