Help!?

whispers • 27 January 2012 at 6:16 PM

Okay, this is ALL in RL:
1. Okay, I'm in love with 3 guys.
2. One knows I like him, and says we're friends...the other two are the prob
3. How do I tell the other guys without making our friendships "AWKWARD"

Please help. If you want more explaining: just ask.

philomena • 27 January 2012 at 6:30 PM

How is it that you're in love with three different boys at the same time?

Just pick one. If none of them know, picking one won't do them any harm. If you've been flirting with all of them, then they'll probably be off-put if you choose one over the others. But what do I know about dating? I'm 17 and I've never dated before.

whispers • 27 January 2012 at 10:29 PM

@philomena
Oh. lol 😋
I'm just 13 so yeah..
and idk how i am at the same time. i just have a cursh on 'em all

sky • 27 January 2012 at 10:36 PM

@Whispers

Well, I'm fifteen and started dating two years ago and I've dated seven different guys, not at the same time (that'd be gross). All ended up being complete jerks, but on the other hand. Stick with one guy, otherwise you're just looking for trouble, trust me.

I liked two boys at the same time, in this situation it had caused a problem, imagine this being with the three guys?

I had this major crush on this boy and one other boy, one of them had asked me out, throughout our relationship I never had realized that I've been continuing on flirting with the other guy, eventually something went wrong and the guy I had been with claimed that I was using him and he broke up with me.

Just choose the one you spend time with the most and the one you know the most, if you hardly know'em just try getting to know ONE of the guys, you can always wait for the others another time when something goes wrong with the other guy.

trish • 27 January 2012 at 10:38 PM

@whispers It's totally normal to devote your love for more than one guy. But let's just say, you may not love them all, you could just think they're 'cute' and that makes your heart flutter. (Sometimes like me too. X) ) I mean, I could name like 5 guys off the top of my head that I think are really cute. But I'm in a relationship, and I devote myself to him, but it's normal to just crush in a cutely matter towards others.

But, keep the 3 guys low and in your mind only. Don't tell anybody, and one game is the key to keeping things alrite. Popular people play it all the time. We call it 'Zap' and I hear ALOT of other people at other schools play it.

For you, write the name of the guy you want to ask on your hand, and go up to the guy/friend and ask. If he rejects you, say 'Oh, thanks. I've been zapped by my friend into doing this. So let's just be how we were 5 minutes ago.' And show him your palm which has his name on it.

Deleted • 27 January 2012 at 10:45 PM

@Trish

Haha, Zap xD I hate Zap.

trish • 27 January 2012 at 10:46 PM

@chloekins I get LISTS of guys when I play Zap. ._. Even though I have my Richie-poo. 😋

I also see plenty of CALIFORNIANS PLAY IT. ;D

Deleted • 27 January 2012 at 10:48 PM

@Trish
Asian ones;)

whispers • 29 January 2012 at 8:57 PM

@trish
@sky
Thanks 😊