I need to talk.

phoenixfox • 9 March 2012 at 1:23 PM

@cafe Bravo!! Your mom would be so proud of you if she ever read that post!!! 😃 I am proud of you for her!!

@rawrcookies08 I concur. Very well said.

@dreamer Boys will be boys. They will always succumb to peer pressure so as not to seem "weak" to their friends. Guys are jerks PERIOD. It gets much worse in the teenage years.

Unfortunately, it will take years to move through all this. Enjoy life and your friends. They will be the ones that stick by you through the toughest of times.

@balletninja If your crush hasn't been given the opportunity to dance with you, why would he not dance with someone who has offered? Perhaps if you would ask him for a Sadie Hawkins dance he would join you?

Personal note:
I asked my crush to dance in middle school, he scowled at me and dropped the F-bomb. I got really shy after that but had much better luck in high school.

dreamer • 9 March 2012 at 1:33 PM

@Pheonixfox
Peer pressure is one thing, which is why I was trying to talk to my crush when his friends were away. For most of the time, he was on his own, which surprised me.
Something about me... I'd consider a weakness... Is believing that everyone is a good person. Knowing myself, and how sensitve and straight-forward I can be, I can't imagine a person being a jerk and not sitting back later on hating themselves. I've been overwhelmed by my emotions before and been mean to others without giving a care in the world. Later on I'd be crying: Not because of the result, but because of how big of an 'a' I can be.
I'm so sensitive when it comes to this. I've only ever liked two different people. It's hard for me to get over a crush unless they move and I'll never see them again (which happened to my first one 3 or 4 years ago). I take it all too seriously, and people look down on me for it.
Even through this d rama, I like sticking with friends. Sometimes I feel like I mistreat them when I'm in a bad mood, but I'll always be there, and I'll always be making my way. ^^

phoenixfox • 9 March 2012 at 1:40 PM

@dreamer

You are so kind-hearted. Please, don't ever change. There needs to be more people like you in this would. Friends will forgive you, they may snap back, but they will always forgive you.

Most everyone is a good person, some just do bad things. I think being straight forward and honest is better than being disagreeable behind someone's back. Everyone makes mistakes, that's what makes us human. 😊

Deleted • 9 March 2012 at 3:34 PM

Y'know what? Forget guys.


Forever Alone Club.


That's the one club I'm staying in.

omeletteater5 • 9 March 2012 at 3:53 PM

@dawnie
Agreed.
I've kinda given up on crushing on guys. Its kinda been a waste of time and tears for me. I mean, I like boys a lot, but I've decided that at this point in my life its not worth my time to try and win the affections of some hormonal boy in the middle of puberty. Its not like I'm gonna find someone at my school who I'm going to end up marrying...I'm just going to wait till college, then MAYBE I'll find the boy of my dreams. But hey, if that doesn't work out, the life of a cat-lady librarian with at least one PhD doesn't sound to bad, eh?

But remember, everyone, don't let that boy change who you are. Don't mold your ways to fit for him. Just as long as you love and respect yourself, thats all that matters. And the right boy, who respects you for who you are, will come eventually. And if not, then none of them are worth your time.

cynt5100 • 9 March 2012 at 3:58 PM

Awwwww