Sorry I just had to get this out...

dreamer • 29 March 2012 at 6:13 PM

I honestly have no idea how guy's minds work whatsoever. xD They probably think of us girls the same way we think of them: Stereotypically.

Today at school, some guys were talking about video games. This is what happened:
Me: I'll never understand boys. Why do you play so many video games?
Boy: 'Cuz they're fun.
Me: How are they fun?
Boy: Well it's more fun than painting your nails!
Me: STEREOTYPE ALERT. MY CLAWS ARE LETHAL *WEAPONS*.
Boy: ...And you paint them.
Me: ._. So what?

Some boys are nice. But none of them are innocent. There are some boys in my grade who are downright immature, some are big nerds and geeks, some are actually really nice and funny, the others are... Just there. I even have a crush on a boy who is borderline immature, but he can be mature at the same time. He's a little geeky, but mostly the cracking dirty jokes, sporty, helpful guy. He's a combination of every type of boy, which is why I like him.

I'm friends with the nerdy and geeky boys, and they seem more interested in me than anyone else. But some of them are STILL drooling over the popular girls.

This is why I think boys are so low. >_< They follow the path of the stereotypical society instead of choosing who they *really* want to be with.

zafeyry • 29 March 2012 at 6:31 PM

@orange
Well today I tasered my girlfriend to get her attention, and it worked 😋 Guys are abusive around girls they like xD

@dreamer
And girls DON'T drool over the popular guys? And most girls date d-bags because they're popular 😋 I have a sister in high school -_-

dv55555 • 29 March 2012 at 6:36 PM

wow
this is insulting
well even i admit it
some of us r completes idiots
jerks
nerd
geeks
some r bland and to normal
most r shy around girls they like
some r complete whack
and a special few that r fun to hang out with
😊

dreamer • 29 March 2012 at 6:36 PM

@Zafeyry
Well I mean... I drool over guys. But the popular ones disgust me.
There are a few somewhat popular boys in my learning group, and they are total d-bags. They disrupt everyone, and there's nothing good in them. I don't understand how anyone could like them.
I feel bad for the truly good people who aren't popular and aren't like-liked by many. I have a few close friends, and I have some friends who are boys. But none of us are popular at all. I have a crush on someone, maybe he thinks he's a bit higher than some people, but he's still down to earth. I'm picky, and I'm really sensitive.
I'd like to believe that boys are amazing and sensitive on the inside, but I just can't find it.
I wouldn't say any boys are popular. I mean, you could put them around ANY other guy and they'd find a way to have friends. Where us girls are more split into populars, wannabes, and people who could care less about our "ranking".
These are the people I like better. The down to earth people who don't think too highly of themselves, and who don't have too big of an ego. ;D

trish • 29 March 2012 at 6:43 PM

Even I have to say, the popular guys ARE fun to date. X)
I mean sure, one day my ex's best friend had a conversation with me during class,

Him: "Hey Jyphenie. YOUR FLAT."
Me: "Why thank you."

But with popular people, YOUR.JUST.NEVER.ALONE.

But of course, there's the typical popular girl way of thinking:

6th grade girls: "Hmm. I should ask out a 7th grade guy. That way, I'm cool."

6th grade guys: "WHY WON'T ANY 7TH GRADE GIRLS ASK ME OUT." DX

^^^^^ That is what happens in my school.

zafeyry • 29 March 2012 at 6:45 PM

@dreamer
HAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHA we have social classes for guys at my school. Most of the popular guys are tools, and none of them are smart anyways, so I have no classes with them 😋 I just avoid them, unless I have to be near them. And I could care less what they say about me, I don't think it's possible for me to worry unless it's like the end of the world. Plus, I can turn any insult into a compliment without insulting the person back 😋

dreamer • 29 March 2012 at 6:57 PM

@Zafeyry Haha, I can too. xD
I'm not perfect, I've established that, and people appreciate me in that respect. The oly people who insult me are my friends when they're joking, and none of us are afraid of it. But I've never actually heard of anyone else insulting me.
Even a boy I'm friends with. He likes another girl that I'm friends with, and she knows it too. She was crying tears of joy! The boy knows that. But she wants them to be friends.
It would be cute for them to be a couple, especially since none of us are popular, but the girl insists ahse stays in the friend sone until they're older and a relationship would last longer.
I do agree with her, but I'll date at any age as long as they boy is real, and the relationship is too.
Even if people insult me. The only time I've ever been insulted was when a guy who's lovker is near mine said I'm annoying. I said, "And you don't think YOU'RE annoying?" He says, "Is that the best you could come up with?" And I just say:
"Well, could you come up with anything better?"
And he just walked away. X3

@Trish That happens here too, only a lot of people I know like EIGHTH grade boys. O_O Like, what......?

isablah • 29 March 2012 at 7:07 PM

Well, I have a crush on a dude who hangs out with nerds and geeks (me being on of them) and he is really not... A geek... Or a nerd... And he and I don't go to the same school anymore. We are really good friends, but I don't know if he likes me as more than a friend... He won't tell me.

hayz • 29 March 2012 at 7:09 PM

@dreamer

//legasps

NEVER DEFY VIDEO GAMESSSSSS D<

*shoots you*

trish • 29 March 2012 at 7:13 PM

@dreamer There's this 8th grader in our school, hes a serious weirdo. I dunno if he's actually special, but he's messed up with girls. He chases and always appears next to girls, including me, except he only goes for those popular and pretty girls.

This one time:

*At my locker*
Him: "Hey..... I won in a Math League, wanna go out?"
Me: ".... Hey Richard!" <- My ex when we were still dating.
Him: "But I'm betterrrrrrr."

ieatburgers • 29 March 2012 at 7:14 PM

O.o I've never really had problem with guys, the most I know are awesome XD that might be because Im in a girls school now though ouo

euro22 • 29 March 2012 at 7:21 PM

@orange
I know some boys that are nice. I have several friends that are boys (But not Boyfriends).

stellalunagirl • 30 March 2012 at 4:45 AM

@orange

Well we will probably never really know what goes on in a guys head.

ONE
Because we are girls.

And yeah, that's it.

We can try analyse them (something we do VERY WELL) and ask them and interrogate them (I don't really suggest you do this), but we will never really know.

Just like how guys never really know what's going on in our heads.

I mean, you see a lot of "perfect" "ideal" guys in movies and books and things, but they're IDEALS. Not necessary realities, in fact, in some cases, far from it.

evolutary • 30 March 2012 at 5:17 AM

Every time I walk past a group of boys, they're always 99% of the time talking about s**. I hate stereotypes. I've never worn make-up in my life, never had a crush and can't scream.

Most kids/teenagers are immature and I find both genders annoying because they both have their ups and downs.

duchess • 30 March 2012 at 5:20 AM

To be honest, I've never been in a school where there are 'popular' guys or girls. Everybody just has their own friendship group, and nobody is more popular than anyone else.

@orange, I'm sorry to say this, but I really don't relate ^^ I'm in Year 11, and the school I'm in is only for Year 11's and Year 12's, and all of the guys I know are really smart, nice and funny ^^ I've never really met any immature ones xD

stellalunagirl • 30 March 2012 at 5:30 AM

@duchess

I know what you mean, we don't really have a social hierarchy at our school either, just friend groups, though there are more "popular" or outgoing groups and those that are more nerdy, but the separation isn't as drastic.

@evolutary

I think stereotypes are just something we all have to live with. We naturally make judgements and "pigeon-hole" them into groups. I don't think anyone can NOT judge someone by their looks or from a stereotype.

I'll admit I do it too.

duchess • 30 March 2012 at 5:32 AM

@stellalunagirl I'm glad I'm not the only one from a school like that 😃 It's really nice that there isn't a strict social hierarchy 😊

stellalunagirl • 30 March 2012 at 5:38 AM

@duchess

Agreed. I think sometimes things like cliques are over exaggerated in movies and books.

I don't know what it's really like for teens in the USA but I don't think ALL schools are like that.

duchess • 30 March 2012 at 5:40 AM

@stellalunagirl, I think they are a bit over exaggerated in movies and books, but that's part of what makes them entertaining ^^

Yes, it seems to me that schools are quite different in the US 😊
Where are you from, if you don't mind me asking?

stellalunagirl • 30 March 2012 at 5:42 AM

@duchess

I live in NZ, but I'm not born here. xD

What about you?

duchess • 30 March 2012 at 5:43 AM

@stellalunagirl Australia 😊 I wasn't born here either xD

stellalunagirl • 30 March 2012 at 5:44 AM

@duchess

!!

Haha thats cool! You must be around 2 hours behind me then.

duchess • 30 March 2012 at 5:46 AM

@stellalunagirl, lol, probably, 😊 I'm not to sure of the time differences 😊 It's 8:45pm now xD

stellalunagirl • 30 March 2012 at 5:47 AM

@duchess

10:46 for me 😱

duchess • 30 March 2012 at 5:48 AM

@stellalunagirl hehe, I guess it is two hours then ^^

zafeyry • 30 March 2012 at 5:52 AM

@duchess
@stellalunagirl
You've never met American girls 😋 Almost all of the girls at my school are clicky xD

evolutary • 30 March 2012 at 5:53 AM

@stellalunagirl True, stereotypes were formed by what a majority of people did. We do have to live with it, I guess it's just the way it is. ^.^

stellalunagirl • 30 March 2012 at 5:54 AM

@zafeyry

Well who am I to judge? This is all subjective really. xD

duchess • 30 March 2012 at 5:54 AM

@zafeyry haha, I guess not xD Are they actually stereotypically clicky?

zafeyry • 30 March 2012 at 5:56 AM

@duchess
Yes, and it's annoying 😋

@stellalunagirl
Stupid New England suburbs -_-