Am I approachable?

april__ • 9 April 2012 at 4:58 PM

This isn't one of those 'do you like me' topics.

I'm just honestly wanting to know, due to the fact I struggle to be social in real life and on the internet if you know me if you think I'm approachable as a person.

Or if I'm too closed off to talk to. I'd just like to know just to make sure I either keep doing what I'm doing, or try to be more friendly.

So basically, what I mean, is am I easy to talk to? And I mean in general. Or do you find me to closed off?

It's hard for me to tell, and I'm really trying to get out of my anti social thing, even if it is just for the internet. XD

hay7199 • 9 April 2012 at 5:01 PM

But your fun to talk to!I dont understand why people dont talk to you in real life...YOU ARE EASY TO TALK TO!-my opinon

Deleted • 9 April 2012 at 5:02 PM

@april__ - I think you seem perfectly normal, when I see you around, you seem perfectly comfortable with who you are.
If you would have told me you were antisocial when I first met you I would've been like WHaaaa??

Does that help/

april__ • 9 April 2012 at 5:04 PM

@fluffy

Thanks! That does help. I just wanted to be sure. The thing with being anti social, online or in real life is people can take it as that I'm a rude or stuck up person. Just wanted to be sure!


@hay7199

It's not people choosing not to talk to me. It's me choosing not to talk to people.





But thank you for answering. I was worried I seemed rude or off to people. If I do, it's not anything personal. It's just how I am! XD

cotton • 9 April 2012 at 5:05 PM

PSHH YEAH. You are all nice and friendly and everything! One of our best old newbies! 😃😃 You don't seem antisocial AT ALL!

(Best old newbie as in you say you're a newbie but you really aren't). 😉

Deleted • 9 April 2012 at 5:06 PM

@april__ - read through how people reply, almost everyone on eggcave is willing to give anyone a chance and you shouldn't have to be worried in a community like this. Most of the older users are the nicer ones. @flashbunny - {Sorry to wake you if you're still on} is a fabulous older user 😃

Yeah, so don't worry, everyone loves you 😉 Or will, if you just chat more often, people will know you and walldropping {eggcave equivalent of eavesdropping} users like me will know that you're fun to chat with.

april__ • 9 April 2012 at 5:08 PM

@cotton

Lol! That made me smile. Thanks. XD

@fluffy

Thanks. It's just hard for me to tell myself whether I'm being 'normal' or not. XD So I wanted to ask to make sure.

I don't want tos eem like the grouchy, stuck up teenager. Pffft. I'm over that, lol!

cotton • 9 April 2012 at 5:08 PM

@april__ XDD You're welcome!

Deleted • 9 April 2012 at 5:12 PM

@april__ - Ha! What's actually gotten me through life is the two words
"Screw Normal"

ieatburgers • 9 April 2012 at 6:51 PM

@april__ O.O
Really? You're one of the friendlier eggcavers that I've met in my short life time 😃

april__ • 9 April 2012 at 6:52 PM

@ieatburgers

Thank you! You have no idea how relieved this topic has made me. I was so nervous, lol!

1992firebirdgirl • 9 April 2012 at 6:53 PM

i relate to you . i too am very anti social in real life

april__ • 9 April 2012 at 6:55 PM

@1992firebirdgirl

It's not fun. *le sigh*

duchess • 9 April 2012 at 6:59 PM

@april__ You're very approachable and friendly 😃

april__ • 9 April 2012 at 6:59 PM

@duchess

Thank you! *feels better*

I think enough people have said so now that I believe it and feel better! ^.^

duchess • 9 April 2012 at 7:00 PM

@april__ Aw, I'm glad to hear that 😃

seaangel • 9 April 2012 at 7:02 PM

@april__ I think that your perfectly find. Only once in a great while you do feel close off though.

april__ • 9 April 2012 at 7:03 PM

@seaangel

Thanks for the honesty!

balletninja • 9 April 2012 at 7:04 PM

@april__ I don't know you well, but you seemed normal to me. If that is much help xD

flashbunny • 10 April 2012 at 12:14 AM

@fluffy
na hun, i was already at sleep.
But i'm with Dluddy on this one, you just have to make people know and remember your name at first 😊

it's probably one of the first things you need to do when going for something new in any kind of situation. Be it irl or virtual.

whitefall • 10 April 2012 at 12:19 AM

I haven't really talked to you, but whenever I talk to my friends, your posts are on their wall, so indirect contact ;]

To answer your question; yesh. 😃

dv55555 • 10 April 2012 at 12:19 AM

u r a nice person to talk to

celeste • 10 April 2012 at 1:20 AM

@april__

You're a very nice person! ❤️3 I'm sure you helped many people with your helpful topic, and that should mean a lot to you! ^^ I even sent you a friend request! ^^ (not something I do often 😋)

snowrosehell • 10 April 2012 at 10:13 PM

!april - You don't. >.> Lol. Kidding! 😃 You are the MOST nicest person to ever talk to. 😃 I actually felt the same way as you do. But, I am not really anti-social in life. Well, *shrugs* just a little maybe. >.> It's really hard to cope up with everybody. But, still AM trying DD:
I enjoy talking with you and other things. Actually, it's hard to believe you're anti-social. 😃~