Do I have friends....at all??

seaangel • 12 April 2012 at 8:15 PM

This is not, like or not like thing.

I'm just wondering if I have friends at all. My best friend says that I hurt her physically by giving her burns (that's where you twist the arm in oppisite directions and give a burn. Just in case you didn't know.) and other things that she doesn't like.

I NEVER did anything like that. I swear, although she's GUILTY of ALL THINGS MENTIONED. Also, she keeps blabbing about how I tell her to do stuff and that she doesn't get the "rules" of dating. I don't, in fact the only "rules" she is breaking is NOT to BRAG about BOYFRIEND.

Speaking of which, her supposed "boyfriend" is siding with me. Could that be part of that?? I'm just wondering. Now before you say don't worry it'll be over within days, it won't. She has been arguing with me for weeks now and I'm now to the point where I'm bursting into tears everyday.

What hurts the most, I found a friendship charm. She gave it to me and now it just brings me to tears. I want to throw it away. All it's bringing is pain. Do I have friends on here???

april__ • 12 April 2012 at 8:19 PM

It's rough. And all that 'friends are forever' stuff. You find out isn't so true as you get older.

I don't have one friend left from Primary school, middle or high school. In fact, had some major falling outs.

I think you're awesome, and if she's going to be like that, move on.

I think relationships are stupid before you're 18 any ways. XD (BF/GF ones) They're pointless, full of drama because everyone is still finding themselves.

hay7199 • 12 April 2012 at 8:19 PM

Im your freind,you dont seem like how she discribes you.Everyone on EC loves you (Freind love) We all care about you! 😊

stellalunagirl • 12 April 2012 at 8:20 PM

@seaangel

You probably have friends, just not ones that you'd think you'd have.

@april__
I'd beg to differ, my friend has been going out with her boyfriend for almost 2 years, when they broke up, they did it with mutual respect and decided to just be friends. My boyfriend and I have been going steady for 8 months, we still have issues to work out but we know not to give up on each other.

seaangel • 12 April 2012 at 8:23 PM

@april__
Thanks, I know we all are middle school age and we all are going around, bragging about there, boyfriends or girlfriends.

@hay7199
Thanks! It's people like you why I'm still on eggcave.

april__ • 12 April 2012 at 8:26 PM

@stellalunagirl

All teenagers beg to differ about relationship stuff. And the fact is, some can pull it off. But MOST can't. I'd say over 90 percent can't.

There's 'he said/she said.'
There's jealous friends.
There's people that are still growing up and maturing.

And it usually ends badly.

james-bond • 12 April 2012 at 8:27 PM

Yes, I'm your friend. And So is Nutty, my pet acorn.

crescentfeather • 12 April 2012 at 8:29 PM

I just don't get this boyfriend/girlfriend stuff. 0_o

To all those 12 year olds who are interested in these kinds of things:

YOU

ARE

NOT

GETTING

MARRIED

TOMORROW

seaangel • 12 April 2012 at 8:29 PM

@james-bond

I love the people with comedy on this site. Give your pet acorn a hug from me!!! How is Nutty??

stellalunagirl • 12 April 2012 at 8:30 PM

@april__

"All teenagers beg to differ about relationship stuff."
Just because I'm a teen doesn't mean I conform to stereotypes. Yes, what you have said is true, there are a lot of failed relationships when it comes to teens, because they lack the emotional maturity and willingness to commit, HOWEVER, some do, take relationships seriously, and some do gain emotional maturity.

I don't think it's my place to say what is right and what is wrong, I don't think it is anyone's place really.

However, I may be wrong, you may be wrong. I'm still growing, and what you have said is true, I am still finding myself, and I haven't fully matured yet, but I don't think teenage relationships should be written off that easily.

hay7199 • 12 April 2012 at 8:30 PM

@Seaangel just remeber,if your sad and lonley,everyone on Eggcave will be here for you! 😊 LYNH!

james-bond • 12 April 2012 at 8:31 PM

@seaangel
*Nutty and I tackel hugs back* He is fine thank you. Although he doesn't voice the fact. 😊 How is seaangel?

cupcake-neko • 12 April 2012 at 8:32 PM

@seaangel

Darlin' you'll always have friends on here. I'm here for you and most likely is the next person!

april__ • 12 April 2012 at 8:34 PM

@stellalunagirl

I don't write them off completely. And I apologize, for saying that all teens say that. It's not really a stereo type that any teen in a relationship will defend it. And I'm sorry, I'm in an extremely bad mood and apologize if I offended you.

I find it hard to word things in a respectful way when my mood is like this. I really do mean no offence. I've just grown up in a place where relationships = trouble. And I've never lived elsewhere. XD

And I am a hypocrite. I had a relationship for four years, lived with him for two, until after I was 18. But it broke up because my best friend tried to get with him. And like I say below, this may be because I live in a small town.

It may be different for me, because I live in a SMALL town.

So basically if you go out with someone, and break up... Everyone blames everyone and it gets nasty here.

Nothing is ever forgotten, and friendships snap really easily because of how everyone is connected.

If things are different for you, great. And they are different for some people. And like I said, it's most teens, not all. My grandparents have been together since they were 13, my parents since grade 12. It is possible.

seaangel • 12 April 2012 at 8:36 PM

@cupcake-neko
Oh yay, I was so hoping you would see this. I'm happy your coming on more often.

@james-bond
Much better now. Thanks!!

@hay7199
Thanks, I'm glad your always there for me.

stellalunagirl • 12 April 2012 at 8:37 PM

@april__

You haven't offended me, I was just stating my opinion, I agree, circumstances will differ from person to person, yes I do agree, we will defend our choices, just like adults will defend theirs. xD

And again, no harm done, I do get snappy and word things wrong when I'm in a bad mood as well.

cupcake-neko • 12 April 2012 at 8:37 PM

@seaangel 😸 Hehe.. Well, I was grounded for a while. 😊 I'm surprised almost none of my creatures died! 😃
And I meant what I said. You have friends here, even if you don't know it. You have people here to help you and be here to support you. On EggCave, we may have disputes once in a while, but we're all like a big giant family. 😊 Just remember that.

hay7199 • 12 April 2012 at 8:38 PM

@Seaangel im always there for my freinds! 😊 (FYI LYNH means love you no homo) 😉

april__ • 12 April 2012 at 8:38 PM

@stellalunagirl

I'm glad. 😊

Just wanted to be sure. As I said, I am a complete hypocrite, and am still technically a 'teen'. Turning 18 does not turn that off, lol!

I defend the silliest choices. I'm serious. Earlier today I got in a huge defensive rant about why I put peanut butter on my oreos, lol! And why everyone should. XD

stellalunagirl • 12 April 2012 at 8:39 PM

@april__
I think we should take this conversation off this topic, we are off topic after all lol.