I need some girl advice.

whispers • 29 August 2012 at 7:35 PM

What are some good small chat topics with boys? Especially if they are new to the school.
Cause I am no good at this kind of stuff, but there is somebody in my Science and Gym class that I really want to talk to. But I'm normally the shy girl... so erk o.o
Help?

#Connor

rileytibbles_side • 29 August 2012 at 7:42 PM

@whispers
Talk to him about guy stuff😊 Most guys tend to like it when girls can act like a girl, but also have a rough side. Talk about video games, or sports, or even school. Yeah, I'd start with school. It's easy to talk about. Like, ask him what he got on the last math test or something and build a convo from there.

Deleted • 29 August 2012 at 7:44 PM

@whispers

I know this is VERY cheesy but be yourself. Act how you wanna act. *Note- This does not mean to go around acting like a crazy person.

But if you really wanna make conversation. Ask one simple question that works ALL the time for me:

So.......do you play any sports? Just keep the conversation going from there. 😉

whispers • 29 August 2012 at 7:47 PM

@rileytibbles_side
So ask him what are his other classes/electives? I can do that. Thanks for advice, and at this point, I'm gonna need it x3

piucca • 29 August 2012 at 7:55 PM

@whispers
I didn't read the other posts 😋
Ask him about him self and listen.
Then shoot him a compliment about his clothing.
Always smile and keep looking him in the eyes ^^;

If all fails, be your self. ❤️

Good luck!

balletninja • 29 August 2012 at 7:56 PM

Talk about homework and class assignments. Even the most shy of people will respond when talking about that. It is a good starting point to get to deeper conversations and friendships.

metaphor • 30 August 2012 at 2:02 AM

Is there something about him that you find fascinating (his interests, something he's worn, etc.)?
try asking him some questions about such things or complimenting him on his tastes or something. I remember one time I commented on a guy's a Einstein shirt and we ended up talking awhile.
This often helps you be yourself because you're starting up a convo based on something that genuinely fascinates you.