is this normal?D8

sanibel_18 • 18 September 2012 at 9:43 AM

Me and my sister was in our car, then my sister started playing with a parking thing, she had 2 so she gave one to me and said "you can have this ugly one, I still don't like it".
then I became mad and said "why do you always try to be best?" then she ignored me when I said that. Then when I told her that our class could start school later she got mad and said "if you are going to school later then I am too! And we are going to do something fun tomorrow and you need to run all the time." then I asked what she would do and she said she was going to lek & bus (it's a really fun place!). Then I got really mad. Just because she said that. So I said "I HATE YOU! I WISH YOU WHERE DEAD!" so she started crying.

my mom says that I can't control my anger, does this happen to many people? I don't want to be different.D8 I get really mad easily.

Deleted • 18 September 2012 at 10:55 AM

@sanibel_18 I can't control my anger sometimes. Try taking a deep breath and walking away.

solaris • 18 September 2012 at 10:55 AM

@sanibel_18

Sometimes I get angry. Usually for no reason. But I know that my anger is hormone related.

But, I have known people who get over the top angry with their siblings. I can't really help you there since I don't have any and don't know what it's like.

Perhaps you should keep an 'anger journal'. Write down every time you feel or act this way and what the trigger was. Maybe you'll be able to find a pattern.

sanibel_18 • 18 September 2012 at 12:34 PM

@izzfred

okay, i will try to stay away from my sister.😊

@solaris

okay, i will try that.😊

Deleted • 18 September 2012 at 12:36 PM

@sanibel_18 When you're angry maybe just isolate yourself from everyone else for 10-15 minutes.

sanibel_18 • 18 September 2012 at 12:41 PM

@izzfred

i can't really do that because when i take my phone so i can listen to music alone in my room then suddenly my sister comes to my room and annoys me, my mom comes and asks me why i am mad and sometimes even my birds fly in to the walls.xD

Deleted • 18 September 2012 at 12:50 PM

@snaibel_18 oh

dragonkat • 19 September 2012 at 7:27 AM

@snaibel_18
Oh, yeah. That's pretty normal when it comes to siblings. I have two XD You will normally fight at a younger age. Just, do what the others say when it comes to controlling your anger. I do about the same thing with my brother. If it was someone else, I would be a bit worried, but siblings fight. You're normal ^-^

eggs • 19 September 2012 at 7:30 AM

@sanibel_18

When I get angry I just write about it -a paragraph or something- and i actually feel better 😸

fakeworld • 19 September 2012 at 7:41 AM

@sanibel_18 It's normal to argue with your siblings, saying things like "I wish you were dead, I hate you, etc.". You're just saying it to be saying it, although you don't mean it.

sanibel_18 • 19 September 2012 at 11:00 AM

@eggs

Okay, i Can try that.😊

@fakeworld

That's not the problem, if she says 2 words that annoy me then i scream at her and kicks her or i just slap her if i get really mad.xD

fakeworld • 19 September 2012 at 12:49 PM

@sanibel_18 That's considered abuse, you really need to stop that because I know a friend that was constantly slapping and punching her brother over simple things. She received jail time, she had to stay behind bars for 9 months. You may need anger management classes so you can learn how to control your anger.