Boy Troubles @.@

cat • 17 October 2012 at 9:32 PM

So... I really need help D:

There's this guy that I know,and I really don't "like like" him. But he has a MAJOR crush on me. He never said it, but he's been hinting at it. A LOT. This is literally what he said in a chat (he wrote it while I was gone);



Him: *Shows a picture that says "I have a major crush on someone I have no chance with."

The dreary of life

Sorry about making that thumbtack in your life
I will not painfully but gently take out that tack. And give you a bandaid. For that bandaid look across from where you sit in our main teachers room. I mean this seriously and sincerely.
-___ ___ ____

Thank you for reading.
I may soon close my Facebook account and possibly my life account. Have a good life. x_x
By the way, heres _____'s Youtube account. Dont tell him I told you about it please! Account: _______
Goodbye.. until tomorrow...but you wont be hearing from me



End of chat message.

I'm 100% sure that he was kidding about "end my life account" part 😋

He's also been hinting at it in other ways. I'm too lazy to show them.

Anyways, I think he might ask me to the dance that is coming up. But I don't know what to say to him to reject him. I don't wanna seem rude, but I don't wanna go a guy 😋

What should I do?

EDIT: We were chatting about something and he showed me a picture of me when I was like, 7, and I said; EWW. NO. I look terrible in that picture @.@ And he replied "You look good in any picture 😉"

lonewolf • 17 October 2012 at 9:41 PM

@cat


Ahh, okay. So you for sure don't like him, correct? Are you friends with him at all? Like just friends or good friends-?

And just be completely honest. Tell him you just are planning to go with friends and not a guy. If he takes it badly, that shows he isn't the kind of guy you want to be with. Don't like,"I HATE YOU GO AWAY YOU FREAK." But just- be honest and tell him the truth. If he respects you, he'll be fine with it. 😊

If it's really bugging you that he's giving you all these hints then ask him about it. Ask him if he likes you or something and if he says yes, then tell him nicely that you're not really interested.

Sometimes, it's also best to just give them the hint that you just want to stay friends and only friends and then they'll see that and hopefully understand. Hope this helped somewhat. :]

cat • 17 October 2012 at 9:44 PM

@lonewolf Okay ^^ Thank you so much.

magenta • 17 October 2012 at 10:03 PM

@Cat I've been through worse a couple of years ago ;; Some boy while I was in my kindergarden school told me he loved me ;^; AND IT WAS CREEPPPYY !!!!!! Anyways I just ignored what he said and went on wif life lol X3

The way to solve this problem is well , eat a cookie and stay calm <-- FAKE

So,first , welll hint hint that you like someone else (if u don't have a crush then hint hint that u don't like him the same way as he does to u . )

And like @Lonewolf said Be Honest like AppleJack from My little pony : Friendship is magic 😊

snowrosehell • 19 October 2012 at 9:53 AM

@cat - Hey dearest! 😊 Well, I have a question, how sure are you that you were the one being referred by the guy? 😊

himaja • 19 October 2012 at 10:03 AM

@cat Just go to the dance with him? You MIGHT start liking him. If you really don't like him that much, then tell him you have plans or someone aready asked you and you said yes. Is he your friend? If he is, he might understand that you aren't interested in him.

This one boy tried to ask me out and I just said "Uuuummmm...well...I'm like you know-Oh look there's Sydney and Lexie." I run over to them and pretend I'm deeply engaged in a conversation. I know it's pathetic but it's kinda scary when someone asks you out. Especially if they're 2 inches shorter than you.