Stress.... :(

chowchow2012 • 25 October 2012 at 4:16 AM

From what I know I. AM. WAY. TOO. STRESSED


I honestly don't know why half of the time I feel fine but I get really anxious at times or stress over homework

I'm only like 13 D8 and yesterday my friends where like looking through my hair and they found like 10 white hairs... I'm really concerned now. Like I was saying I feel just fine but I can't really tell what stress is doing to me. *sigh*

Can anyone help me feel less stressed?

dionaea • 25 October 2012 at 4:39 AM

What I usually do these days is just do my best, I look at what other people invest into an assignment and make sure I put in at least the same amount of effort or a bit more. This makes me a lot more calm, because if I invest more then the average person, I should get at least a decent grade.

About the white hair, it also comes naturally to some people, when I just started middle school/junior high/whatever it's supposed to be called at your age I thought I also found some grey to white hairs, back then my mom said no way that was possible, but now I think they were probably really there. I didn't check for a looooong time, but at the end of high school (when I first got glasses XD) I noticed I had some white hairs, I'm 24 and those few have multiplied to become substantial number. For me going grey early runs in the family, my gran was grey at 30, maybe you should ask around in your family?

Edit: By grey at 30 I mean no colour left at all.

chowchow2012 • 25 October 2012 at 4:55 AM

@dionaea
No i don't grey runs in my family I have an older sibling and he has no white hair for some weird reason this is how I always feel before an assignment/ presentation.

1 day before..

Me-I'm totally going to ace this. (confidence high not anxious at all)

5 Mins before

Me- Oh.. shoot.. oh.. shoot.. WHAT... DID.... I do????!!!! *panic attack*


White hair is getting to be a problem they actually plucked it out which i heard isn't good so 5 more ill grow back in it's place... I'm not sure if i believe in that or not. :/

Deleted • 25 October 2012 at 7:05 PM

@chowchow2012 - Oh my goodness... THIS IS JUST LIKE ME! I know exactly how you feel...

I'm only thirteen as well and I've got a whole bunch of white hairs. I don't really know how your stress management abilities are, but I normally just go and eat some icecream, that always helps me with my problems. Frozen yogurt serves the same purpose.

Normally before a test I don't allow myself to think about it. That always helps 😃

But I would love to chat with you some more and talk about our hair problems 😉

chowchow2012 • 25 October 2012 at 7:29 PM

@fluffy
Lol we had this art thingy where we had to draw the back of the person's head (not your own) my friend was drawing mine. She was teasing me ,she was all like "hey maybe I should add the white hair after i'm done?"

Me- D8 then gives her the evil eye