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cat • 26 November 2012 at 8:37 PM
You guys... I really need help. My best friend recently committed suicide, and I don't know what to do.My whole life is in shambles. I cry every night, and I miss her so, so, much. Help me.She was an amazing person... She was sweet, funny, lovely... She was just a fun person to be around. Every day she'd smile and laugh and we'd have fun, but she told me a few years ago that she liked people of the same gender. A year ago, people started bullying her because of this and her weight, and... She killed herself.Help me.
april__ • 26 November 2012 at 8:40 PM
@cat I'm so sorry to hear that.I know what you'r egoing through. My brother killed himself a few years ago and it's hard. It's so hard. *hugs* I don't know how to help but if you need to talk, you can send me a message and I'm always here to listen.❤️ ❤️ ❤️ Sending you all my love.
whispers • 26 November 2012 at 8:47 PM
@cat I'm sorry to hear about that. I send you all my condolences. I don't exactly know what you're going through, as this has never happened to myself. But, I can do my best to help you cope through it. You can always shoot me a PM, whatever the topic; whether you need to let out some steam, need a shoulder to cry on, or just want to engage in a fun convo -- I'm always there for ya'.I send you all my love, and I hope things shall improve ❤️
cat • 26 November 2012 at 8:54 PM
@april__ @whispers Thanks, you guys... I'll miss her a lot. But I'm really glad that I have people to talk to on EggCave. You guys are the best.
Deleted • 26 November 2012 at 8:55 PM
@catI'm very sorry, you had to go through that. I had a friend in Softball who just broke down crying because her friend had also committed suicide, and it was terrible to see her like that. She just gave up talking for 3 days. But if you need someone to talk to, then you can always talk to me. Anytime. 😊❤️ ❤️ <-----(At first I didn't know what the greater than sign and the 3 was, until someone had to explain it to me.)I hope you get better.
cat • 26 November 2012 at 8:57 PM
@skibunny9 Thanks. It truly is terrible to have your friends die.I just feel like it's my fault. If only I had been there more, to talk to her and help her through it.
april__ • 26 November 2012 at 9:19 PM
@cat *hugs* It wasn't your fault. I know how it can feel that way but when someone's mind is like that... ❤️ ❤️ *hugs*
cat • 26 November 2012 at 9:28 PM
@april__ Thank you.
Deleted • 26 November 2012 at 9:32 PM
I know how she felt. In middle school I was bullied for my weight and apearence. It got so bad I planned to kill myself. I had everything planned out and had finished the letter to my parents. Then I moved my backback that was on the floor and saw a note sticking out of the side poket. It was a note from my friend saying how much she appriciated me. She will never know it, but she saved my life that night.I am so sorry for what has happened to you. None of this is your fault and sometimes there is nothing you can do. If you ever need someone to talk to or a hug I'm here.@cat
cat • 26 November 2012 at 9:39 PM
@leafpoolz Thank you so much. I just wish that I had done the same to her. If I had done something differently, I bet she would still be here with me right now... But, oh well. She's in a better place now.
Deleted • 26 November 2012 at 9:50 PM
There is a very good chance that she still would have taken her life. Don't feel bad, its really not your fault. @cat
cat • 26 November 2012 at 9:51 PM
@leafpoolz Thank you.I really try, but... God, I miss her so much. People are just plain cruel.
pebblestar-nightclan • 26 November 2012 at 9:57 PM
That's terrible... I wish I'd known about this earlier. ☹️ @cat If you need to talk to me, you know you can. ❤️
cat • 26 November 2012 at 10:01 PM
@pebblestar-nightclan Thanks, Pebble ;A;
Deleted • 26 November 2012 at 10:01 PM
Yes, I find it shocking how mean people can be. They hurt others so much and think thats its all fun. They don't think about the damage they are doing to people. The two girls who bullied me in middle school will get they deserve though. They dropped out of high school saying its pointless. They will spend the rest of their lives as jobless loosers.@cat
pebblestar-nightclan • 26 November 2012 at 10:02 PM
@catHey, don't mention it... 😊 I've had friends move away, and I've had one kill themself as well... It's a terrible feeling, and you can never fully recover from it, but... Things will get better.
cat • 26 November 2012 at 10:03 PM
@leafpoolz Definitely.The bullies all strut around school and act like they're better than everyone else. Instead, they are the disgusting ones. I can't believe that anyone would do that. It's just... Terrible.EDIT: @pebblestar-nightclan Yeah, it's terrible, isn't it? And we were both so young! It's just... Horrible.