I just received the biggest disapointment in my whole life

Deleted • 9 March 2013 at 10:39 AM

Title says all. I'm heartbroken.

Me and my friend Jillian (who joined and hasn't yet made a topic. @angelcake101) Have known each other since pre-school and we've been besties since grade 2. I was supposed to go see her today but my mom says "for the benefit of everyone's help we aren't going today." None of us are even sick!!!!! My mom either has no idea or doesn't care how much this hurts our friendship.

*cries*

pebblestar-nightclan • 9 March 2013 at 10:47 AM

@izzfred
Explain how it hurts your friendship.

Don't worry, I don't mean that in a rude way even if it comes off as rude. I'm just curious to hear how you feel about it and why.

bluebelle • 9 March 2013 at 11:32 AM

@izzfred
Maybe it's not as bad as you think, your mother could be doing you a *huge* favor, maybe your friend is sick, or maybe her parents are sick, either way your mom is just trying to protect you, and I would like to know how this hurts your friendship, if she was a real friend then she would understand. Also[sorry if this sounds rude] You should talk trash about your mother, by the way you said this she is just trying to protect you! She loves you very much, she wants you not to be hurt, sick, sad, or angry. She only wants the best for you. I think you should apologize to her. Also, the older you get, the worse life is gonna get, so don't count on this being the "worst day ever" Ok kiddo? Hope this helped, bluebelle.

metaphor • 9 March 2013 at 12:12 PM

I agree that it sounds like there's more to this story than simply your mom wanting to keep you from your friend.

oranberry100 • 9 March 2013 at 12:20 PM

Have you've seen eachother in a while? Im confused. I agree with @metaphor

Deleted • 9 March 2013 at 12:24 PM

@bluebelle I'm not talking trash about her. She's not trying to help me feel betteer. It hurts our friendship because pretty soon we'll lose connection, i'll stop phoning, we'll stop seeing each other and we'll lose connection.

@pebblestar-nightclan above.

Deleted • 9 March 2013 at 12:31 PM

@izzfred I sort of know how you feel. When one of my friends was living on Guam, we were losing connection. Even before Guam we barely saw each other. We were childhood friends. Now I just talk to his little sister only(she's great😊) and my brother is the only one who is now close to him (use to be the both of us)

Edit: We barely see each other because my mom dislikes their mom now

Deleted • 9 March 2013 at 12:34 PM

@izzfred
Well, that must mean there isn't a lot of disappointments in your life
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I'm not trying to be rude.
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It doesn't hurt your friendship that much.
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I have a friend that I have since PreK too. We have no classes with each other anymore. My mother also didn't let me go over to her house one day. I was sad but I knew it wasn't gonna ruin our friendship. We still talk to each other whenever as possible. We're still great friends. You may be overreacting a bit.
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You probably are gonna think what I am saying is mean.
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But it's just good advice.

balletninja • 9 March 2013 at 12:38 PM

@colette Seriously though.

There are a lot worse things to have happened friendship wise. It isn't your fault.

A lot of parents don't mind if you make them the bad guy so you can just tell your friend it is your mom's idea. She should be disappointed but not heartbroken @izzfred

periwinkle • 9 March 2013 at 12:46 PM

@izzfred
First off, I'm not trying to sound rude, and I'm really sorry if you take it the wrong way.

If she really were a true friend, she wouldn't mind a canceled plan. Once you get older, you won't have as much time to hang out with certain people anymore, and you'll probably have to cancel a lot of plans. Your friends will understand. 😸
Trust me. This won't ruin your friendship. ❤️

kelch100 • 9 March 2013 at 12:56 PM

@izzfred

You could try talking it out with ur mom why she is doing wat she is because I really don't have any suggestions. Me and my "friends" are going through a hard time right now but it has nothing to do with my mom. I hope you can work something out with ur mom. 😊

Deleted • 9 March 2013 at 2:47 PM

@skyhealeroftheskies Thanks 😊

@colette I haven't seen her once in the last 6 months. And You know the way it hurts our friendship is because, When I call There's never anything to talk about. I've literally forgotten what she looks like.

@periwinkle she doesn't mind. But we're both so heartbroken that the only that makes me laugh right now is we fake swear at each other by pressing buttons over the phone.

@kelch100 I did. She said because My Bro is sick. He isn't sick in the least and I should be able to tell. My mom isn't sick, I'm not sick jillie's family isn't sick.

xxxmahiruxxx • 9 March 2013 at 11:43 PM

I don't really understand what's going on...