What hurts the most...

bad • 30 April 2013 at 5:56 AM

Listening to Rascal Flats - What hurts the most. I'm looking at her picture on my computer desk wondering what happen. Shes gone that is what is going through my head. I seen her at the grocery store today and I walked away and she said my name "Aiko. Come back!" I didn't turn back I couldn't do it, I didn't get what I needed I walked out tears running down my face. I stood against the building for a few minutes looked up at the sky, clinched my fist and punched the wall, people staring at me wondering what was going on. Yeah I bleed my hand hurt but I drove off. I went to my best friends house told him what happen he told me "Forget her, it's over now." I couldn't believe he said that to me. I walked out on him too of course he didn't stop me he called me later that day apologizing I can't loose my best friend. It still hurts that I broke up with her for what she did to me, I flipped out. I wish I could turn back and comfort her, but it's too late. So now I'm trying to be strong its not working to well. I don't know what else to do, 3 years in that relationship is now... Gone.

I'm glad I vented out I still need some advice so I'm asking you should I go back to her? Or just forget her and move on?

shelby • 30 April 2013 at 9:06 AM

@bad
You should move on. I wouldn't say forget her. Remembering the past can help you build a better future.
I was in a relationship for 3 years and left it, went back and left again. Trust me it's harder to do that again, and it will most likely happen again. There's a reason it's over, it's over because it didn't work.

You can 'mourn' the loss of the relationship, but you should also move on. It's better to move on rather than go back.
If a tiger bit your hand off, you wouldn't go pet it with your other hand, now would you? 😋 You'd say goodbye to that tiger and go find a nice little cuddly kitty cat.
I hope that made sense. I often do that and then people don't understand.

But yes, I'd move on. But don't forget. Remember why you left. Then move on.
I hope this helps you, even if it's just a little.

Deleted • 30 April 2013 at 9:27 AM

Gosh that sounds awful 😱 Just move on seriously.Just remember her and like you know try to be happy. 😊

bad • 30 April 2013 at 4:57 PM

@Shelby: Thanks that helped a lot. I threw her picture away everything that she has gave me, two things she owned she left here - I'm ready to forget her.

@rosamund: Thanks.

shelby • 1 May 2013 at 3:31 PM

@bad
I'm glad I could help with my past experience.
I think if it ended, it ended for a reason, and you should move on.