boy friends

sportsgal18 • 11 May 2014 at 7:22 PM

Well in school every one makes such a big deal about people dating. What do u think do people in your school make a big deal about dating or are they cool with it. I hate when people make up stuff that your crush will ask you out. AND HE DOES NOt. Tell me what you think!

appleblizzard • 4 June 2014 at 4:57 PM

@sportsgal18 well I have a bf and whenever I metion him (which I do everyday) everyone goes oooooooooooohhhhhhhhhhhh! And I'm just like what?

Deleted • 4 June 2014 at 10:52 PM

@sportsgal18 In primary school if you had a boyfriend or girlfriend it was a big thing to everyone else, now in highschool no one really cares.
depending on what sort of friends you have though, they're most likely going to aw at you or something if you say you have a boyfriend...or even say you have a crush...I don't think that will ever change with some people.

mejary • 5 June 2014 at 11:56 PM

@sportsgal18 well when i was in primary school they used to overreact and make fun of it, now in highschool people try to get other people together and bother a lot, for example: i blush a lot, FOR EVERYTHING, so every time i talk to a guy and blush people think i like him and start to make fun of it and when they do i blush more and more, it's really frustrating i think people should mind their own business and let people be. BOYS AND GIRLS CAN BE FRIENDS TOO!

whitefire • 6 June 2014 at 6:24 PM

Personally, I just don't see the point in dating in middle school/elementary school at all. I mean, you date somebody to see if he/she is a possible husband/wife if you are mutually attracted, and in middle school your feelings of "attraction" aren't fully developed. I mean, how often do you see middle schoolers dating because they like each other for more than their looks? That's why middle schoolers leave each other so often, from what my past three middle school years have taught me; they get together because one's "hot"/handsome/cute and one's beautiful/"hot"/cute (and in some cases, because both fit at least one of those criteria for the same gender), but the second one says something that ticks the other off it's BAM! and they've separated and found other "good-looking" people to date. So I don't bother with it. If my friends start dating people I congratulate them and move on. I mean, I don't rail on them or anything for dating at "such a young age" and "you're too young to be sure you really like him," because I don't know; they really may have found love, as young as they are. And they probably didn't ask my opinion in the first place. I'm only divulging it here because it was asked for.
At my current school, people are a whole lot more sensible about the whole thing than they were at my old school. There's no "so who are you going out with now" drama, and actually, there's hardly any drama about it at all. Nobody cares if you're a girl dating another girl; heck, nobody cares if you don't get crushes or love other people at all! Then again I guess it helps to only have 14 boys in your entire grade, and about seventy girls... As I was saying, there isn't much "date-hopping" at my school because most of us don't really care about dating.
So yeah... That's my really long and rather pointless opinion. Then again aren't all opinions pointless--OKAY that's enough rambling, I should probably go do something productive. XD