Help I'm being bullied by 8th graders :(

stellie • 6 October 2011 at 2:43 PM

I need help, These 2 girls are calling me names and insulting me and my family, it was this bad that I had to Stick my finger at them, this made it worse and now there calling me Lice Head and I want to tell, but My friends won't think I'm cool and M mom overeacts I thinking the next tie they cuse at me I should take action and physiccally hurt them!? WHAT DO I DO?!

lily- • 6 October 2011 at 2:51 PM

@stellie

I don't think you should hit them back or it's going to get worse. That's how it is with bullies, they just want you to react back, so the situation gets even worse. I think you should tell someone about those girls, preferably a parent or teacher, because this has to stop and a adult you trust would be better at handling such a situation. In my opinion if your friends think you're not cool just because you're going to take action against bullying, then I don't think they deserve to be your friend, as you deserve better.
Anyway it's your choice what you do in the end and I hope my advice helped. I also hope this situation is solved quickly. Good Luck😊

qwaszx • 6 October 2011 at 2:57 PM

Don't hurt them. Think of a witty come back like Right back atchya or something like that. Don't be afraid to ask for help. Tell them to stop. Last year I was bullied to the point of being afraid of going to school. I would fake sick and injuries. Then I told my mom and they got in HUGE trouble.

Deleted • 6 October 2011 at 3:02 PM

@stellie your best bet for now, is to take action through words, not fists. yeah, they start cussin your family out, or make a move on you with violence, defend yourself. If your friends won't thinK your cool, or won't stick up for you, honey, they ain't worth your time. I mean, you need a friend through thick and thin. I understand not wanting to get others involved too though, and that's your choice;) Smart mouth the girls back. don't curse, just when they say like
Oh look, it's HER.
Just say:
Yeah, and it's you. Please go away, you're blinding me with your disgusting looks.
Or they say:
Yoump should just go die in a hole!
Just say:
I could say the same thing about you. Go rot in......(fill in word)....!

Sass and Backtalk can get you very far. But say it like you mean it. they should leave you alone eventually. I think telling a teacher or principal would be good to, but detention and stuff doesn't mean bull to most 8th graders, Athe boys in my school don't gpcare if they get suspensions. detentions to them are nothing, which is the problem =\

creaturlord • 6 October 2011 at 3:06 PM

@stellie I think you should tell some like their parents or the principal,with me it doesn't work so I just punch(not so hardly)

Deleted • 6 October 2011 at 3:19 PM

The problem is that My father has taught me to take physical action as soon as they start "getting into it"
but I'm a 56 lb 6th grader whos against 2 110 lb 8th graders, its getting to out of hand, but Its hard to tell, O'm even crying as I wrote this,

@creaturlord

@icicle_9510

@quaszx

(its stellie)

qwaszx • 6 October 2011 at 3:30 PM

@nirvana It qwaszx 😉 I know how you feel.☹️

sky • 6 October 2011 at 3:35 PM

Violence isn't always the answer to things, just ignore them, they're just trolls looking for attention, they're trying to make themselves look big but what they're really doing is making themselves look immature.

If it comes to a point where you no longer can take them, talk to an adult, hitting them back will only cause a riot, or worse.
I know exactly what you've been through, I've seen this happen a lot to my best friend, but she's the kind of person that's able to rub it off and to erase their existence from her mind that way she wouldn't have to deal with them.

In my school everyone knows me as a goodie-goodie but I just hide all my anger and violence, I basically no longer care what people have to say to me, it's not gonna make them look any better then me.

No need to stoop to their level, it won't make you any better then they are.

I'm now a freshman in high school, the people who once bullied me have matured - not really.
But they no longer hate me and my friend.
So, just ignore them, after a while they'll get bored and tired and move on to someone else.

Deleted • 6 October 2011 at 3:36 PM

@stellie yowaza, that difference is kinda A BIG DIFFERENCE @_____@ Know what my teacher said she did? Became friends with the biggest person in her grade. The girls that were bullying her never gave her trouble again, and when they did, she told her friend, and he took care of it.
I suggest you maybe ask your dad if you can take a self defense class, like tae Kwon do, or karate😊 Start getting stronger and stronger unti, your muscles do the talking for you, for now,, sass and back talk. If you can't a self defense class, try looking stuff up on YouTube. Jogging will make your legs muscular, and stretching will make you lean and flexible. The jogging fits especially will be helpful, it'll mean more force. The stretching On the other hand will make you flexible and quick to dodge anything before you solve the problem. I'm not saying go beat them up, I'm just saying if it leads to like a showdown, and it has gotten disgustingly horrid, then you'll unfortunately have to resort to dreaded violence. I take tae Kwon do, so If you ever need references to look something up on YouTube, I can tell you. But remember, for now, only strike if stricken, and if you know you can't win, fleeing isn't cowardly. It takes real courage to admit your beat. I know the boys in my lass would never admit their in pain,but sometime es that's the best option.

qwaszx • 6 October 2011 at 3:46 PM

@icicle_9510 TaeKuanDo! Hiya! *breaks face* Oops sorry. xD What belt?
@stellie Stay far away from them! Ignore them!

Deleted • 6 October 2011 at 3:49 PM

At my old school,telling a teacher isn't good.


I was taught to defend myself. By my words, or if they hit me first,force. But only if they put their hands on you //first//.

Other than that, just ignore them. It does make them irritated when you don't react, and they get fed up and leave.

stellie • 6 October 2011 at 3:52 PM

@iciclie_9510

"Only hit if got hit" My father had taught me those words, I wish I could tell him my prob, but I don't live with him, and when my dad will do sometin about it my mom will find out, and when my mom finds out that I didn't tell her and told my dad only she gets wicked.... Its just that, my mom isn't the best one to talk too.... The problem is that they're saying very discusting things that are "sexually related" to me and my family, I did tell her that she is a b word and then she beat me again with words, Its usually the one who bullies me the most, She also called me Lice head (because I can have messy hair after gym) and she called me an anarexic, brace faced sl word (youd probably would know what that word is if your a girl)

Deleted • 6 October 2011 at 3:58 PM

kseriously

Get their numbers.
I will chew.them.out.

I saw someone doing that to my friends,theyd lose some teeth. >_> //Aggressive//

Deleted • 6 October 2011 at 4:12 PM

Well, iv shared my words of wisdom...oh and I agree, get their numbers and keep calling them, asking why do you keep bullying me? It's not nice!
Embarrassing THEM is always good too;)

@qwaszx Green, I'd be blue by now, but I didn't go to class over the summer, and when I first began, I missed the promotion, and missed the make-up one as well XP

qwaszx • 6 October 2011 at 4:21 PM

@icicle_9510 Green!😃 Same!😸

nkiay • 6 October 2011 at 4:26 PM

Just ignore them hun.

Comebacks are going to make it worse. If you make it physical that gives them the green light to beat the crap out of you. DON'T DO THAT! Just keep your friends around you. And ignore them. Really, I know.

pegasasu • 6 October 2011 at 4:29 PM

@stellie

Whatever you do, don't hit them til they hit you back. Good comebacks help, for instance...

Mean 8th Grade Chick 1: Hey Licehead!

You: I'm sorry, you must be mistaking me for a mirror.

Deleted • 6 October 2011 at 4:40 PM

Mean 8th chick #2: Hey! Anorexic Brace face SL word!
You: I could say the same thing about you. Except I'd have to say UGLY Brace Faced SL word, because you're not anorexic....definitely not anorexic( Not to be offensive to anybody a little overweight! I myself am overweight by a smidge, because I'm so tall, and I'm just a little little bit pudgy so...yeah, not trying to be offensive! XP)

creaturlord • 6 October 2011 at 4:46 PM

Ignoring doesn't work,when they call you swears all the tiome and steal you're stuff

rawrcookies08 • 6 October 2011 at 4:49 PM

@stellie
That's horrible. ☹️ You're not telling, you're reporting, and no one will think you are stupid. Tell your teacher, or write him/her a note. Bullying is illegal! 😱 ☹️ And DON'T hit them and DON'T backtalk, just walk away, without saying anything. But tell your teacher ASAP! Also, if it helps, tell the teacher not to tell the bullies that you told on them.
And plus, you probably are nice and pretty and they are just doing that because they're jealous of you.

stellie • 6 October 2011 at 4:54 PM

@rawrcookies08

Well, I may not be the prettiest or the Nicest but I do have drawing talent and singing talent, Maybe I could be pretty, Because they're always saying that I'm the ugliest kid they've ever seen ☹️

*Anounces to the world that I might be nominated for a pretty girl award*

Deleted • 6 October 2011 at 4:56 PM

@Stellie Well its not being a *Tatle-Tale* You have every right to be in that school and hose people just might be kind of jealous or just mean. Telling is fine. It means Your helping so more people wont be bullied. ;D

rawrcookies08 • 6 October 2011 at 4:57 PM

@stellie You aren't the ugliest kid they've ever seen, I seriously doubt that, and all girls think the have look probs, but u still need 2 tell.

stellie • 6 October 2011 at 4:59 PM

@bluegirl80

you gotta piont, but snitchin might ruin my reputation of the "hardcore chick" as what the boys call me O.O I might ask them for help tommorow, dem ghetto boys, they'll do downright anything to make me happy for some reason O)3)O

Deleted • 6 October 2011 at 5:00 PM

@Stellie Rofl I dont really care. Its just like "SO what I did something to help other people so they wont get bullied. Meh a hero!" XDD

stellie • 6 October 2011 at 5:04 PM

ooh yeah, @bluegirl80 and I just came up with awesome insults (some are too inapropriate, so I'll post my favs that aren't too bad) THESE HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH ANY EGGCAVERS:

*May I borrow your face while my butt is on vacation?

*Stop acting that way, You'll never be the man your mother is

*Hey I know you! You were the winner of the Ugliest Person Awards!

AGAIN, NO OFFENSE TO ANYONE, THESE ARE ALSO FOR PEOPLE WHO NEED TO INSULT PEOPLE.

wing • 6 October 2011 at 5:04 PM

@stellie it's always good to stay with friends too you know 😸 They only really attack when there's no one around ☹️

cafe • 6 October 2011 at 5:12 PM

@stellie

Those come backs are a little childish. It's makes me think of the "Na Na Na Na Na" things.

Deleted • 6 October 2011 at 5:12 PM

@stellie aww im soo sorry ☹️ if teachers are around, sream leave me alone. 😊

stellie • 6 October 2011 at 6:14 PM

@cafe The thing thats makes me, me is my imaturaty