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isablah • 6 November 2011 at 9:56 PM

Are you troubled? Share your troubles here! Some of us can definitely need to be able to have people listen to us!
MY CAT ALMOST DIED!!!

Deleted • 6 November 2011 at 10:05 PM

YAY, THIS IS AN AWESOME THREAD

Is it okay? D: And how?

NOW FOR MY PROBLEMS!
I feel like a loser because I think I have a crush on someone who is 7 years older than me, lives 500 miles away, is of a completely different sexual orientation and has never met me in real life. (Internet relationship, 3 years)
Advice?

plookle • 6 November 2011 at 10:12 PM

@ijilleh
Wow. That's a whole laundry list of bad luck. The only advice I feel I can give is to forget him/her. In a romantic way at least. I feel like you could potentially work around the age and distance gap, but contradicting sexual orientation is a doozie of an obstacle. I would just accept the person as a friend and try to put your other feelings aside. Don't feel like a loser though, everyone has hopeless crushes. I've had more than my fair share. 😉

Now for some venting....
Basically, I'm just beyond stressed. My life is insane, my workload is out of control, and my grade in AP Bio is slipping. Rowing is starting to drive me crazy with indecision, and I'm getting into one of those 'what's wrong with you, you boyfriend-less Junior?' moods. hehe. It'll all pass though. The only thing I'm really worried about are the grades.

Deleted • 6 November 2011 at 10:16 PM

@plookle
That is good advice. But she is my best friend, and eh. Yeah, I think I'll try to do that. 😱 Thank you. ^^

Lol, pay off a nerd to do it all for you. xD
I'm kidding. Talk to a couple teachers. Try to get them to lighten your load a bit. I find that talking to teachers if you can't do something helps a bunch.
Try to get into something like dogsitting. Go over there, don't bring anything to distract you, and do your work there. I find that that works really well. 😃

anathema • 6 November 2011 at 11:01 PM

Bump.

gvantsa • 7 November 2011 at 12:06 AM

I.Shall.Now.Vent.

I forgot to bring an important binder back home with me. I live on campus so every few weeks I go home and bring my homework with me.

Let's just say this binder contained important notes. I have four essays due tomorrow, the prompts for them are also in this binder. The notes were to help me write them.

Because of my mistake I now have to return to campus tonight instead of early tomorrow morning, stay up all night working on those essays, and get no sleep. Also I have to meet with my adviser 8am about registration for next semester.

So yeah. No sleep tonight. Yay me. Procrastination ftw. I wouldn't have to deal with these essays if I had taken advantage of no classes last week (because of the snowstorm) and did them all! 😱

End Rant.
Lesson learned: Procrastination will have its consequences...

james-bond • 7 November 2011 at 12:10 AM

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Deleted • 7 November 2011 at 1:41 AM

@gvantsa
Everyone procrastinates. I rarely do my homework before Midnight. xD And I have a Science project that was due last week that I haven't even started, so. 😱

Write yourself a note as a reminder. 😃

bumblebee13_7 • 7 November 2011 at 1:49 AM

omg I have waaayyy too much assessment right now!!!!!

I'm in the middle of assessment week, I haven't studied for anything! I have to give a 10 minute speech in 2 days and I haven't written anything, or practiced or even thought of anything I could talk about.

I have a science test, maths test and history essays too! And sports and community service commitments

arghhhh *collapse*

ayuzawa • 7 November 2011 at 2:01 AM

... Ventation... right...

I WANNA ONNY 😃

No, I'm kidding.

=_=

My class, is crazy. Like super. 3 girls, they play basketball, leave the 9 other girls out, flirt with the guys non-stop, talk, and then say they haven't done anything. =-=

celeste • 7 November 2011 at 2:43 AM

@ayuzawa
I think I know who you're talking about...

I'll only do the first letters of their names: A, C, D, right?

Deleted • 7 November 2011 at 2:47 AM

@celeste

ya. =_=

*HAS UFT NAMES HERE 😋*

Btw, this was what I was talking about in class- this is my NEW MAIN 😃😃😃😃*

celeste • 7 November 2011 at 3:05 AM

@bubbling_pot
I understand. Oh! How they just... LOVE the boys... =_=

New main? Cool! 8D

dionaea • 7 November 2011 at 3:32 AM

Fought with my parents...

AGAIN...

I hate this....

I should go live on my own, but I can't get a job which combines well with my studies =.=

Life sucks...

On a happier note: Eggcave is still fun 😸

angel_star • 7 November 2011 at 5:11 AM

@dionaea

O_o.....

why...? *If you don't want to answer that, you don't have to*

dionaea • 7 November 2011 at 5:21 AM

Why...? o.o You mean the fight right?

That's the thing... We fight over nothing these days, they're just so darn intolerant =.= The subject this time around was that I took a shower on sunday, while I'd also taken one on friday. I mean geez, they don't have to EXPLODE over that, it's pretty normal to shower & wash your hair every other day @.@

Stupid icky parents >.<

angel_star • 7 November 2011 at 5:28 AM

@dionaea

oh.... ☹️

I hope the situation gets better 😊

gvantsa • 7 November 2011 at 5:31 AM

Yeah I should make a note to myself to do important papers... leaving them last minute is just horrid. It's now almost 5: 30am and I'm on essay number 3 out of 4 so I've made a lot of progress at this point. Hopefully I can finish before 8am... that's when I'm meeting my Adviser. Feels so odd to skip sleeping for one night.. it's not something I've done for educational purposes really. I've done it when i'm really into some game but even then it's usually at a time when i could sleep late, get up late.. 😋 Unlike today.

@dionaea lol yeah parents can freak over the silliest things. My mom used to get really angry if we took late showers. Never though about how often we took them xD So that's odd.

dionaea • 7 November 2011 at 5:31 AM

@angel_star
Meh >.> I doubt it will get better, and if I change they'll just find something else to nag about ☹️ Better find a job of some sort soon...

@gvantsa
I know, I just don't think it's fair. ☹️

angel_star • 7 November 2011 at 6:03 AM

@dionaea

... =-= poor you..

@gvantsa

ikr? I think i have the same problem... O_o I NEED TO DO AN ESSAY AND BRAINSTRAINS RESEARCH AND SPELLING AND SOME OF THAT AND I'M GONNA DIE 😃 No, but seriously. =-=

Deleted • 7 November 2011 at 9:01 PM

@dionaea
What the heck? It's perfectly normal to shower every day, for crap's sake. >:|

spenser_dog_123 • 7 November 2011 at 9:12 PM

I've been wanting to get a chinchilla for 6 years. Can't get one.

I have A crush on a guy named ricky who has a crush on my sister.

My grades are slipping and I'm forgetting things to all my classes and sometimes even forgetting my homework ☹️

My family thinks im a loser.

My sports teams are losing.

My friends are injured (concussion, broken neck, broken finger, sprained finger)

My sisters guinea pig hates me.

I can't get a pet.

I miss my friends 200 miles away (only get to see them in summer)

I hate band but i can't quit.

My teeth are yellow and crooked and my acne won't go away.

☹️ I'm a loser and complete mess.

hayz • 7 November 2011 at 9:20 PM

Homework.
'Nuff said.

Deleted • 7 November 2011 at 9:21 PM

@spenser_dog_123
Aww, you'll get a chinchilla eventually. D:

Crushes suck. :| Try not to think about him like that, and chances are it'll get at least a bit better. D:

Try talking to the teachers and doing your homework right when you get home. I'm assuming you have planners or something to write assignments in?

I'm sure they don't really think that. Have they told you that directly? And which family members?

Hmm, that sucks. But these things tend to be followed by a really good season, so just hold out for that. ^^

That sucks. D: At least they'll get better, oui?

Well that's the guinea pig's problem. >_>

Once again, you'll get one eventually. c:

I have trouble sympathizing with the friends-200 miles away one because my best friend/crush lives 500 miles away and I haven't seen her in three years. Hope for the best is my advice, I guess.

Why can't you quit? Talk to the school counselor or something if it's for school. 😱

Get better toothpaste and a facial mask. 😱

That concludes Jilly's advice session. xD

spenser_dog_123 • 7 November 2011 at 9:25 PM

@ijilleh Thanks. I feel better now 😋 😊

And for the 4th one, my family (sister, mom, and dad) have said that to me in the past month because I used to be a really good student but now I'm getting B's and even a C on a quiz. I've been trying to get better but I have really never been a really great kid because I have my dad's anger problems. Trust me, I try.

nkiay • 7 November 2011 at 9:30 PM

Everyone I care about dies.




But hey I'm still alive. 😉

unebra • 7 November 2011 at 9:35 PM

im forgetting to turn in lots of assignments and i have really bad grades in school !!!

dreamer • 7 November 2011 at 9:52 PM

Ehh, I have a lotta things on my mind.

First off, there's this boy I used to hate, but I really like him now. REALLY like him. All my friends hate 'im. But I don't nessecarily listen. I know him more than they do. Lately I've caught him glancing at me. I'll be getting some binders out of my locker, and I look at him to find that he's looking right back. At Enrichment on Friday, he glanced at me, and I caught his stare and smiled at him. Ever since, he's been looking at me an awful lot. I want to confess to him, but I'm nervous. I need advice.

I had a difficult social studies test today, and a science test tomorrow. I do better on those things when I DON'T study.

My English grade keeps going down, and the final grades for this term are posted tomorrow. I'm hanging by a thread on my straight A grades.

I snap pretty easily, I'm going through tons of issues in my life, I'm getting dark roots (I put stuff in my hair in the summer to make it lighter, naturally it's beginning to grow out), I have a boatload of face acne/blackheads, I don't have a large amount of clothes, I procrastinate, I have trouble getting organized, plus a little extra weight.

So I'm just a huge fail even though everyone tells me I'm not. xD

My 12th birthday is in a month. That'll get my dad panicked... "She'll be a teenager in a year! My little girl is growing up! I don't want her to be influenced by the other kids..." Ahhh.

unebra • 7 November 2011 at 9:56 PM

@dreamer u should tell him ur feelings i was afraid at firt but i asked a boy out i had a crush on we r going out now

cqpkytty • 8 November 2011 at 12:16 AM

@dionaea
LOL my mom has to remind me to shower once a week xD
Not that I'm dirty or anything. I just don't feel like I need to shower that often yet 😋 I don't get very sweaty or dirty that fast 😋