Can I get some advice? ALSO: Post your own stories. ;D

dreamer • 9 November 2011 at 8:30 PM

Well, what I could do is take up a bunch of posts explaining my whole problem, OR I could get right down to the point. And my hands are tired, so I think I'll get right to the point: I like someone. So much, in fact, that I'm going to confess it to him, whether he likes it or not. It's not even a question on if I feel for him or not, I know I'm going to tell him how I feel one way or another, and soon, too. I'm already thinking about what I'm gonna say...

anyways, I've never told anyone that I had a crush on them, so can anyone give me some *useful* advice? Also, feel free to share your stories or ask for your own advice about this stuff. I just need to know what I should do. ;D

meixiaotian • 9 November 2011 at 8:35 PM

Hmm, I'm a little too young for that, but I'd bring it on slowly, or on a good day. Yeah, I'm not very helpful.

toy • 9 November 2011 at 8:39 PM

@dreamer
Well, the other day this boy came over to my house and poured his heart out to me.
It sketched me out soo bad o.o
Yeah I liked the boy a little, but it still was way too...
I dunno. Forward.
And I have a boyfriend... ^^;
But it really all depends on the person.
I would, personally, finally tell this kid I liked him.
But don't pour your heart out to him. /shudders
It takes a lot of guts to do that.
And if he doesn't see that you have those guts, he isn't worth your time.

Or that's how I see it.

dreamer • 9 November 2011 at 8:43 PM

@Meixiaotian Well people in my grade are already dating, I don't wanna be THAT crazy, but I just wanan have this one boy who knows that I have feelings for him. Even if he thinks it's weird. ;D


@Toy That's funny, I typed up a huge letter pouring my heart out to him last night, and I thought it was kinda corny, so I think I'mma ditch it. I can imagine myslef telling him how I feel straight-forward a lot more than I see myself giving him a love letter. XD

toy • 9 November 2011 at 8:46 PM

@dreamer
It really depends on the guy...
For me, I dislike love letters.
I think that shows that your still a little kid.
But my boyfriend?
He absolutely ADORES them.
And he's pretty mature, haha(:

dreamer • 9 November 2011 at 8:57 PM

@Toy Yeah, my letter was really long, and pretty awkward...

So I'm just ditching it, I can't waitfor him to reply, I'll just forget it and tel lhim straight out how I feel. I just... Need him to know...

Deleted • 9 November 2011 at 8:57 PM

@dreamer I would NEVER be able to confess anything at all, never in my life. I'd have to know the boy likes me, and I like them. But I STILL wouldn't say anything, I'm just like that though, so don't like not say anything if you know the boy likes you xD I just like my solitary ways, and I HATE people touching me, like hugs, or putting a hand on my shoulder, it just irks me for some reason X3
Yeah, letters just sometimes sound so amazing in your head, but when you really look at it over and over again, you can realize how awkward it sounds sometimes X3 yeah, @toy you got the skills of writing letters I bet xD I suggest you wait until he's COMPLETELY alone, since everyone staring at you will make you nervous and freeze up, and it would be awkward moments R Us.☹️ I think you just just outright say it.


____________, You may not have ever known me, or even noticed me. But I've noticed you, and I, I'm just going to say it, I like you. Ignore me, whatever, but that doesn't change how I feel. If you like me back, great, but if not, I'm sorry I ever talked to you and told you.



Does that sound okay?

toy • 9 November 2011 at 9:00 PM

@dreamer
Your cute so whether you give him the letter or not,
it'll be all okay❤️
Good luck!(:

@icicle_9510
I don't think I do ._.
You just tell the boy things they wanna hear(;
But just don't let them think you have them wrapped around their finger by telling them weird things or telling them their hot and stuff, haha.

dreamer • 9 November 2011 at 9:03 PM

@Toy I think I'm gonna try to be near him a little more, because he was in my fifth grade class, but at that point hated him. But now I really like him, so much I don't even know where to begin. xD

So it would be an amazing feeling if I just, you know, straight-out told him. I don't think I'll be satisfied till the words "I like you Ben" come out of my mouth, or something like that. ;D

Deleted • 9 November 2011 at 9:05 PM

@toy haha, I'd say "Love ya, but I still think you're a jerk at times😊" lol, I really would just to tease him xD But yeah, you have awesome "Tell em' what they wanna hear" skills, lol;)

qwaszx • 9 November 2011 at 9:08 PM

@dreamer Well don't do it in front of his friend(s). I learned that lesson the hard way. Find a nice quiet place like a empty hallway or the "haunted" corner. XD

dreamer • 9 November 2011 at 9:10 PM

@Qwaszx That's another thing I'm planning. I need to find some time when he's near me and doesn't have anything to do, i'll pull him aside and talk quietly so no one hears... and it'll go from there. 😸

nkiay • 9 November 2011 at 9:15 PM

I agree on just telling him. 😊


Hmm I only had a crush once, in the sixth grade. I plucked up the courage to just talk to him and he completely blew me off. Had the "and why are you talking to me" tone and look. After that I decided crushes are dumb and I wasn't going to do that anymore. XD

lola622f • 9 November 2011 at 9:17 PM

@dreamer maybe you could talk to him on the bus or at school(like at lunch). Maybe when he gets to know you better it'll be easier. I'm not very experienced but people in my class date. All they do is ask" Wanna date". Awkward...XD

briseis • 10 November 2011 at 8:49 PM

@dreamer how old are you? And have you told him yet?

dreamer • 24 November 2011 at 12:01 AM

Looking at all my older forum topics again. X3

@Briseis, I am 11 (almost 12), the boy I like just turned 12 last Friday. I don't want to jump into dating or anything for that reason, I think I'm mature enough to say I'm sure as heck not ready for a boyfriend?

And, one of my friends told hm for me... I wanted her to tell him though. I still have no clue what happened...

It's all in this topic: http://www.eggcave.com/forums/topic/10324

Since I don't feel like typing up the whole story again. X3