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han • 14 December 2011 at 8:19 AM
I need sympathy ☹️ There are some really annoying boys at my school and they for some random reason call me Gregory. Ouch- I'm a girl. After reading @sky's post (I feel really bad for you, @sky ) I decided I should write my problems down here. Once, 2 other guys were behind me in line, and during the prayer they spent the whole time stepping on my feet and punching my back and laughing at themselves. Can someone tell me why in the world that would be funny? Also, a guy that sits right next to me in class calls my drawings weird, me weird, and all day everyday I hear "Hannah you are so weird". Can anyone make me feel better?PS: @sky hope you are feeling better. Your situation is worse than mine
cqpkytty • 14 December 2011 at 9:24 AM
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mightyeglantine • 14 December 2011 at 9:38 AM
@snowball888111Some People can be Heartless Irritable irritating and just plain stupid which the boys in your case are all of those... I have been bullied since like Ummmm 2nd grade I dont let them get to me.... To express my weirdness Whenever they say something they think is gonna hurt me I just say to them Soy Como Soy (meaning I am I in spanish) If they dont leave me alone I just ignore their approach and avoid them at all costs even if it means walking all the way around the school to lose them... XD But I know Im weird I know Im different I know Im not normal Im happy to be weird and my saying is "They can have the World; We'll make our own!" <=Is from me and my friends Lauren and Katie (I know I only need like two)One funny thing is I could be in like any category at my school I could be friends with the Populars or be blood buddies with the Emos or a ST0N3R with the Smokers..But I don't choose any I stay in my Cliche...P.S. When they wont leave me alone (like every two weeks) I spend a whole week dedicated to growing my nails out so If anyone tries to touch me I claw/scratch them (Only claw the boys though).
thursdays_dove • 14 December 2011 at 10:28 PM
@snowball888111 - I was picked on every day in school, especially when I was in 7th and 8th grade. It is very hurtful to be called names and be picked on. These girls would pick on me all the time in middle school. They even threw rocks at me one day. The teachers never did anything about it, and when I finally stood up for myself and went to the principal about it, the teasing only got worse.BUT. You would never know that about me now. I am more confident in myself. I know who I am and who my friends are, and I'm not about to change any of that for anyone, especially not some jerk who probably has low self-esteem his/herself. These kids just don't have the capacity to understand what it's like on your end. It's a sad thing.I guess what I'm getting at is yes, this sort of thing really sucks when it's happening, but you have to be the stronger one. Try to ignore it as much as you can and only listen to the people who care about you and who you care about. Why should you measure your own worth on what some piece of trash thinks of you? No one else's opinion of you matters. When you get older, things get better. Hang in there. 😊
Deleted • 14 December 2011 at 10:30 PM
all my solutions are violent XD (dont ask for my motto) soo....good luck!
Deleted • 14 December 2011 at 10:35 PM
@snowball888111Some people are just awful and you have to deal with them.Not to be cliche, but most things get better once you get out of high school. And I used to be called Jonathan. Although I knew it was being used jokingly. What so bad about being called Greg? I think it's a nice name. 😉All I'm saying is try to take it lightly. Aside for the guys who were beating on you, which is totally unacceptable and you should have kicked them where it counts, being called weird and 'Greg' isn't so bad as much as annoying and rude. If I were you, I would probably be wondering what compels these kids to say what they do and would more than likely find their peculiar behavior amusing.But, like @deannablanco3 said, most of the fun solutions are violent, so I wouldn't take anger therapy advice from me. XD
han • 15 December 2011 at 3:12 AM
@mightyeglantineThanks for the sympathy, and I'll try to ignore them from now on 😃@thursdays_doveI'll try to be more confident, only I am one of the most quietest and shyest person in my class...@deannablanco3I would never be too violent, after all, it is at school!@qwerty732797Thanks for the advice, though like I said before, I would never be too violent!
clockworkjowls • 15 December 2011 at 3:26 AM
@snowball888111I am really sorry to hear that this is happening to you. To be honest, this probably isn't happening to you because of anything you have done, but instead because these boys are insecure (and your shyness might make you an easy mark).My solution would be to call them on it; however, your shyness would probably make that difficult. I have typically found that demonstrating how dumb the other person is generally makes them disinclined to continue their bullying (something simple like a dramatic eye-roll and condescending "okay" typically does it), especially if they're doing it out of low self esteem. Another option you have is just directly asking them "and why was THAT a necessary comment?" will throw them off (depending on their age).However, the most important thing, in my opinion, is that you don't take their actions personally (which is ridiculously difficult). Maybe you decide that being "weird" is your niche (what in god's name does it mean to be "weird" anyway?). Or maybe you decide that they're all actin' a fool, and so you should just do your own thing.I apologize if anything I have said offends, and I wish you the best of luck in this.
han • 15 December 2011 at 3:29 AM
@clockworkjowlsNo, you haven't offended me a bit. I guess your right, but when I'm really angry all I can really do is cry. And I shall never do it in front of THEM, even though I have before. ☹️ That was embarrassing, I tell you!
crescentfeather • 15 December 2011 at 3:40 AM
If all the people in the world were weird, then weird would be the new normal.
clockworkjowls • 15 December 2011 at 4:25 AM
@snowball888111I apologize for the redundancy, but I am really sorry to hear that this is happening to you! It's probably a good thing not to cry in front of them, though. Recently when I've been upset, I've tried to practice my guitar or draw, which I find really relaxing (it doesn't hurt that it means I'm improving a skill that I can later showcase).Do you have anything like that that helps?
han • 15 December 2011 at 5:51 AM
@crescentfeather 😃@clockworkjowlsYeah.. sometimes I draw, sometimes I sing/hum and sometimes I just think positive thoughts 😉
Deleted • 15 December 2011 at 5:58 AM
i always punch them in stomache or in a face. I dont care for teacher and that stuff am weird too 😸 P.S. they cant tell me to someone cuz they started 😸
Deleted • 15 December 2011 at 10:54 AM
XD yeah, i really didnt care if i got in trouble, and i ussaly didnt, because i had good grades, witnesses, and alot of patience. XD
miomar • 15 December 2011 at 11:06 AM
There was a guy who made everyone call me names and avoid me, one day he made me extremely angry so when he accidently tripped in pressed my shoe in his face (pressed, not kicked!) he started to cry like a baby "Oh no my face hurts, does it bleeds? Wheee!" I don't feel bad for it, he never ever did anything to me after that =^|
han • 16 December 2011 at 12:03 AM
@petraandlanaTeehee 😃@deannablanco3Witnesses, huh? After Mandarin class, its just my best friend, that boy and me. Soo... my only witness would be my BFF who also gets irritated by that boy.@miomarHehee! I'd do that, but I wouldn't I'm only in 4th Grade. Last year I told on 2 other boys to the teacher and she said if they keep torturing me they won't have recess. But now those boys are gone and 2 new boys are annoying me. I will not go through crying again. (I cried when I told the teacher)
Deleted • 16 December 2011 at 12:21 AM
@snowball888111 or you could just give me there address. *creepy doom grin*
rainbowen • 16 December 2011 at 12:33 AM
@snowball888111I hope things get better for you ❤️ It's sad that there are people like that in the world, who take their problems out on other people. Don't let them get to you! It seems hard, but eventually you'll learn to overcome them. Unfortunately, there's bullies through every stage in life, even when you're an adult, but just remember that you're a wonderful person, and they're not near as amazing as you! 😊
han • 16 December 2011 at 12:33 AM
@deannablanco3I don't even know where they live...@rainbowenThank you, you are a wonderful person too!
Deleted • 16 December 2011 at 12:46 AM
@snowball888111*^* well if you ever do, im here and ready to beat them up for you! XD
mightyeglantine • 16 December 2011 at 12:47 AM
@snowball888111If a person is bullying to feel good about themselves what I do is just roll my eyes and directly say "Ok I'll be praying for you tonight." that usually irritates them into leaving me alone....
han • 16 December 2011 at 12:47 AM
@deannablanco3😈 Yhey! 😈@mightyeglantineMaybe I'll try that...
Deleted • 16 December 2011 at 12:48 AM
@snowball888111im serious. i hate hate HATE bullys. ive been know to fling cats at them. (before you ask, i am completly and utterly crazy. XD)
han • 16 December 2011 at 12:51 AM
@deannablanco3😃
Deleted • 16 December 2011 at 12:52 AM
@snowball888111*runs around laughing crazaly.*
han • 16 December 2011 at 12:55 AM
@deannablanco3*joins laughing and rolls on the floor*
Deleted • 16 December 2011 at 12:57 AM
@snowball888111*accedently steps on banana* "ewwww! it got betwwen my toes!" *wipes off foot* *runs around again*
han • 16 December 2011 at 1:04 AM
@deannablanco3*accidentally rolls on a pile of dung ;o* *eww!!!* *washes and rolls on the floor again*Okay lets stop being weird. 😃
Deleted • 16 December 2011 at 11:49 AM
@snowball888111^~^ okay. XD
Deleted • 16 December 2011 at 12:11 PM
@snowball888111 Tell 'em to back their sorry butts off! They've got no right! I have real jerks in my class this year,I've seen them bully 2 people (the 3rd I did not witness but my friend told me and trust me, I got a clear picture of what happened😋) I've never been like bullied real bad, but the boys in my class gotta learn to back off on some things. If they become threatening and torturous, tell a teacher ASAP. And if they corner you, and start getting down to "business" where they start calling you out, deal with it with sarcasm, and defend your self with words. Remember:When a bully says "I won't hit a girl"It really just means:"I won't hit you 'cause I'll get the crap beat out of me." Only hit if they start to beat you up. They'll get creamed by adults with punishments.