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redstar-fireclan • 30 December 2011 at 8:36 PM
@dawnieIkr...I DON'T WANNA GIVE AWAY MY KITTEH FIRE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Or Mase...
pebblestar-nightclan • 30 December 2011 at 8:37 PM
@redstar-fireclanI don't know... You'll either choose to forget or forget on your own time... 😊
Deleted • 30 December 2011 at 8:37 PM
@Redstar-Fireclan I know my step mom is allergic, so we don't have any. But considering a cat almost killed me once, It doesn't really bother me. x)
redstar-fireclan • 30 December 2011 at 8:39 PM
@dawnieBut my kitteh only playfights me with claws out and I love it :') I don't wanna lose my kittehhssss....@pebblestar-nightclanYea...
Deleted • 30 December 2011 at 8:41 PM
@Redstar-Fireclan Well, hopefully you don't... I'd die if I lost my dog D: </3
redstar-fireclan • 30 December 2011 at 8:43 PM
@dawnie;_;I lost my bulldog....;_;;_;;_;Yea, I hope I don't...I would guard my kitten even if he attacks me, if my dad tries to gove me away!
redstar-fireclan • 30 December 2011 at 8:53 PM
@avelaingiaYea, but I have no reletive nearby, i mean i do, but she lives near cyiotes, and they eat kits OwO
redstar-fireclan • 30 December 2011 at 9:02 PM
@avelaingiaHe loves being inside (remember the one who kept attacking me, and you said ypu didn't like him xD? Well, that's him.)except at night...
redstar-fireclan • 30 December 2011 at 9:08 PM
@avelaingiaYea...
smilies • 30 December 2011 at 9:14 PM
@redstar-fireclan I'm kinda jealous.... 😋
Deleted • 31 December 2011 at 7:00 AM
@redstar-fireclan I've been around forever, i'm just not very active on here. I'm older and such... but anyway. My brother is only my half brother, and he's 9 years younger than me, so i had some trouble adjusting to that being and only child for 9 years. We used to fight like cats and dogs. But now, i don't know what i'd do without him, and i'd do anything for him. Like they said, just ask them what they like.. or ask if they like things that you like. If they have never tried doing art or never heard Skillet (awesome band btw) introduce them to it and see if they like it. Oh and growing up.. my mom never did girly things with me like my hair and nails but i wish she had.. idk if your in to that but it can be fun to mess around with it. Try that with the girls. Let us know how things go too 😊::Edit:: Also, remember that they are probably scared. You're getting new siblings, but they are getting a whole new world.
redstar-fireclan • 3 January 2012 at 2:19 PM
Haha...I met them yesterday..and...well, hid behind my dad, with my cat (They aren't alleric 😃)
armageddondoll • 3 January 2012 at 2:35 PM
@redstar-fireclanOkay. After reading through all of this, most of your fears or concerns are ones that everyone has in a time like this. So far as them liking what you like, see what they like first. ask what they're hobbies are, what music they like, and favorite movie and such. Then tell them yours. If you don't have the same interests, that's fine. Maybe you could each spend a day getting to know each other and share interests. 😊 Lots of friendships (sibling or otherwise) are built on completely different tastes and interests. It's ok to be shy, but remember what they have been through. They may need someone to be nice to them, or a good friend to help them through it. And don't be upset if they seem shy or non talkative towards you, people deal with traumatic situations differently, and they may just want some time alone. So just be yourself, and be kind. They're your siblings now (blood or not) so make the best of it 😊
lily- • 3 January 2012 at 2:38 PM
@redstar-fireclanThe only advise I have is to accept them the way they are. People don't all have the same likes and dislikes and it's best that way, it keeps everything interesting. Imagine a world where people were the same and did the same things and liked the same things. It would be boring first of all and not much would get done in the world either.Anyway, how'd your first meeting with them go then?
Deleted • 3 January 2012 at 3:33 PM
@redstar-fireclan lol, how'd it go??? Did any of our advice help at all?😊
gvantsa • 3 January 2012 at 4:20 PM
Yeah I am also curious how you're all getting along 😋@redstar-fireclan
redstar-fireclan • 4 January 2012 at 2:23 PM
Guys!Guys!I did fine, except that I....hid...behind my dad...But we are great friends now, not shy. And your advise helped!Thankkk!
lily- • 4 January 2012 at 2:39 PM
@redstar-fireclanYour welcome, and I hope you have fun with your new siblings😊
unebra • 4 January 2012 at 2:42 PM
you should just think about what it would belike to be them walking into a new home for the first time they have no real dad alive. their mom probably wasnt a very good one... so what would u want if u were them@redstar-fireclan
gvantsa • 5 January 2012 at 11:22 PM
Well it's good you're getting along 😸 Congrats!
redstar-fireclan • 6 January 2012 at 2:23 PM
@gvantsaThanks!The 16 y old is named Sarah, and the 12 year old is Emily. The boy is Robbie.
faeriefennec • 6 January 2012 at 3:59 PM
@redstar-fireclanWell considering that their parents are negligent and one is dead I think even though you disagree you should be supportive of your parents decisions and respectful of your new siblings. It's always hard to accept someone new into the family. It's going to be very hard on everyone involved, and digging your heels in is just going to make things worse for you in the long run.Who knows maybe you'll grow to like them?