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Deleted • 3 February 2012 at 8:09 PM

i wanna know whats up with all the drama going on? i mean, the last bit just died down and new stuff pops up. i mean....i know its a kids game, but ive seen a play with less drama going on. it upsets me that people could say, much less think these things then you ask them for a shred of proof and they ignore you (not everyone who says things, just most of em.). it frustrates me and makes me want to cry sometimes after reading it. is it so hard to wait and get a lot of proof, THEN post stuff? i mean, there would be a lot less drama if they showed there proof with the first post, that way people could really know it happened. i mean, if i ever suspected things where going on, i would investgate alot first so i know its really going on.

Deleted • 3 February 2012 at 8:10 PM

@Bettafish
This is the first drama i have seen in a while.
Yeah, your topic is drama.

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whispers • 3 February 2012 at 8:11 PM

@bettafish
I agree. There is too much drama for a game. We're supposed to be having fun, not having a bunch of drama. It just gets annoying seeing all of the fuss.

Deleted • 3 February 2012 at 8:12 PM

@chloekins dramas been going on since i joined. how am i supposed to know whether or not its just been going on for a month or not, as i just joined? all im asking is for a little proof of the claims before people start stuff. thats all i want.
@whispers i know, right?! all im asking for is that they post there proof, so that people can not have to tear themselves up over who to belive.

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metaphor • 3 February 2012 at 8:12 PM

Uh, what drama? o_0

Deleted • 3 February 2012 at 8:14 PM

@metaphor well, first iot was when deannablanco3 died and raffled off some stuff, then when i wanted to trade something i won, and now with people accusing a friend of mine of doing lots of stuff, and i dont know who to belive because im not seeing any proof.

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dreamer • 3 February 2012 at 8:14 PM

Well then. Say what you want. I was almost certain that this drama had died down; Some of the arguments that used to happen on here were *really* intense. But I guess newer players aren't used to it, so what sounds like an EggCave disaster can be shrugged off like an oldie such as myself.

But then again, I don't know. I haven't been very active on the forums lately. I really just log on and leave my computer on, then go on with my life. But from cruising through and reading through some topics, everyone gets along perfectly fine. It's always a few users joking around and having fun, but occasionally some users will start harrassing people; Users that already have that reputation.

Whatever you say must be true, because you're more active on the forums than I am now. But it's really not as bad as it used to be.

Deleted • 3 February 2012 at 8:14 PM

@Bettafish
Drama because you got a Macbot.
It stopped, why the heck bring it up again if it freaking stopped >.<

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metaphor • 3 February 2012 at 8:16 PM

@bettafish

oic. o_0
Just ignore people.
I wish people could just have a good time and not jump down people's throats all the time...

Deleted • 3 February 2012 at 8:16 PM

@dreamer some more started just a few days ago, when someone said some things to warrior13, then warrior13 and some more people quit, and im not seeing any proof, at all. it just frustrates me that people have to bring the stuff up in the forums instead of quietly dealing with it between users.
@chloekins because that died down really only about 2 weeks ago on my end, an di still get messages about it from certain people. and then this starts and i see no proof. all i want is for the people who do this to give us some proof, those that do i have no problem with whatso ever.

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balletninja • 3 February 2012 at 8:18 PM

@bettafish I don't understand why you brought this back up if it died down.

Or didn't concern you...

Next time just let it die?

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Cyber Bullying is the worst and most growing.
Drama is drama.
We don't even know each other in RL, but yet we act like we know each other so well and start stuff we can't back up.

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dreamer • 3 February 2012 at 8:19 PM

@Bettafish Hmm... I guess that isk inda easy to believe. xD *is smakced*

If anything, it might just be that users are only picking on YOU because you got the macbot, AND because you traded it. But I thought people would be over that by now...

I'm not gonna complain. I don't think it was the right thing to do, considering the trouble you were already in with the drama. But let us not dwell on it; That happened a while back. Some people, no matter their age, are just too immature to move on and stop tormenting the newbies.

But then again, YOU need have some getting over to do as well; Can't we all move on, forget the past, and leave eachother alone?

Deleted • 3 February 2012 at 8:20 PM

@balletninja im trying to make people show us proof, before anyone (aka me) has to try to decide to belive on or the other. all i want is proof, and if im going to get attacked to get proof from people anyone who says things, then i will deal with it. and i did involve me, warrior13 was a friend of mine and i want to see proof if its true or not. if it is i will be really mad at her, if its not then it doesnt matter whatso ever and i will simply move on.

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balletninja • 3 February 2012 at 8:20 PM

Also,
don't slander me.
Don't use usernames in the forums that could arouse drama.
There are two sides to a story you know?

Deleted • 3 February 2012 at 8:22 PM

@balletninja i never said your name, all i said was i wanted people who started drama to state proof. i never slandered you in any way, because i never meantiomned you. if you feel i was talking about you, then just say so, but please dont acusse me of slandering you when i had no reason to.

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dreamer • 3 February 2012 at 8:26 PM

@Bettafish Actually, you DID mention Balletninja back there... o.o


I'm not choosing sides; they're aren't sides to choose in the first place. This isn't like a bsttle, just a normal squabble between users.

What you're going through is just miscommunication, if you must. People aren't directly trying to hurt you, only defending their opinion.

Try running into *real* cyberbullying. Bullying on purpouse. And it hurts. Trust me. I've experienced it.

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balletninja • 3 February 2012 at 8:27 PM

@bettafish Quote from you: @dreamer some more started just a few days ago, when balletninja said some things to warrior13, then warrior13 and some more people quit, and im not seeing any proof, at all. it just frustrates me that people have to bring the stuff up in the forums instead of quietly dealing with it between users.

Look, if you want to know,
just PM me.
You don't need to make a thread about it.

And yes, you did mention me.
Next time please do not.

Deleted • 3 February 2012 at 8:27 PM

@dreamer oh, ill go edit it out then, i was really trying to say that that was some more drama. ive delt my hand with cyber bullying too, so i know what real cyber bullying is.

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zombers • 3 February 2012 at 8:41 PM

Sometimes drama is fun.

... But I've seen like 0 drama on eggcave. You want drama? Go lurk the neopet forums hehe.

Deleted • 3 February 2012 at 8:42 PM

@zombers you need to be on the forums more then. there almost always drama in one form or another going on here.

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zombers • 3 February 2012 at 8:44 PM

@bettafish

Really? I guess I usually just go on the chatting and game boards. But still, this place is nothing compared to most. Try not to take things too seriously? Not trying to sound rude!!! Just... it honestly does help to just be like "lolwhatevs".

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dreamer • 3 February 2012 at 8:45 PM

Actually, no. From what I've seen, there isn't much drama anymore. If I can say this honestly, you seem to be the main source.

First off, if you're letting this offend you so much, then you aren't ready to handle forums. Every single website will have some sort of drama. Can't stand the heat? Get outta the kitchen, that's all I can say to you.

At this point, there's nothing possible to make you happy here. If you're just gonna waste our time complaining about one little argument, then EggCave must be a waste to you.

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balletninja • 3 February 2012 at 8:45 PM

@zombers YES.
Neopets will kill users on here if they think this is bad.

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whispers • 3 February 2012 at 8:46 PM

@bettafish
I don't get this. You dont want drama...but not trying to be mean, but this forum you started here IS drama. I think we should just stop this, cause this is just adding drama to EC that none of us want. ☹️

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dreamer • 3 February 2012 at 8:49 PM

@Chloekins Well at this point, I don't get a ton of education either. I teach my knowledge to myself. xD

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dreamer • 3 February 2012 at 8:51 PM

@Chloekins -_-

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whispers • 3 February 2012 at 8:52 PM

@zac
@annapashmina
@meteoroid
@ian
I beleive this topic should be locked. It's no use to EC except to add drama.

@bettafish
If you don't like something on here such as drama, keep it to yourself. *not trying to be rude* Talking about past drama just adds drama when it was peaceful.

Deleted • 3 February 2012 at 8:53 PM

just forget it. all i was asking was that people get some proof, not that i get attacked for the thrid time ive been here. this game was supposed to be fun, but the only fun thing ive done was make about 2 to 3 friends, most of whitch dont even talk to me barely ever. if this proves anything, its that the older a game gets the more people get mean over a game.

Deleted • 3 February 2012 at 8:53 PM

I teach that kind of knowledge to Dani.

She can't get the sizes right.


Kidding.

Of course you little perv/

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