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celeste • 4 February 2012 at 2:16 AM
Hey guys,So, every week, I have this Chinese class out of school; it's a good way to keep in touch with the weirdos at my old school. Well, I always have this seat next to one of my friends, but, today, it was seated by another person. My friend simply said that it was a new person, but I'm very, well, I suppose you can say 'suspicious'. First of all, my friend always arrives very early, and there's possibly no reason that she couldn't explain this wasn't my seat. Secondly, even if the other person was there, I really don't think a simple "Excuse me, but my friend sits there," would be too much to ask. Well, incidents like these aren't rare, and it definitely isn't the first time a simple statement could have solved many things. I ended up sitting alone today. Now, I'm too, well, nice to let such a thing happen, really. I only don't talk to her if she doesn't talk to me. And it hurts. I take much offence. And as much as I'm polite(?) enough to imply what she's doing, she never understands. Narrowness of thinking or denial, I will never know. Crying on the inside, smiling on the outside. Let's face it, anybody can lie.So, I was wondering, do you think there is any reasoning behind this? Am I just plain boring? Did I go wrong somewhere? Am I not god**** nice enough? Hey, I work hard to be perky everyday!EDIT: She knew that girl was new. So I definitely think something's going on.Pings:@catherineprettty@inhabitant@plushie@dawnie@toy
nightmare • 4 February 2012 at 2:19 AM
@celeste Your like me❤️Except I Dont Try.Im Depressed.At School.People Are Scared Of Me.When They See The Marks On My Arm.And The Blood On My Clothes Like Today.But An Accident.People Dont Know Me.
plushie • 4 February 2012 at 2:20 AM
@Celeste *Confused*
celeste • 4 February 2012 at 2:25 AM
@nightmareI try too hard to be nice, and, for what? This really irritates me, since I'm giving them all that I've got, and then they still try to break me mentally. Who do they think I am, anyway?@plushieBasically, my friend, for some reason, decided that she won't even bother trying to sit with me, and sat with somebody else, and treated it like some kind of joke. Well, she treats many things like jokes, but it gets on my nerves.
plushie • 4 February 2012 at 2:29 AM
@Celeste OH!
celeste • 4 February 2012 at 2:30 AM
@plushieAny advice? I'm really lost, since we (at least were) really close. I did a lot to get her a birthday present on Egg Cave, too.
passion • 4 February 2012 at 2:33 AM
@celeste You just have to let her know. If you and her are really close, I don't think she would deliberately do that to you. If the person who took your seat was new, do you think maybe your friend was trying to welcome them, somehow? Don't be afraid to ask her, if something she is doing is bothering you, you need to let her know because that's what friends are for, right?
celeste • 4 February 2012 at 2:43 AM
@passion We've actually been pretty close, and I've always made some implications, so I think she she had at least some idea. Even the person with the worst judgement I can tell I'm upset.
plushie • 4 February 2012 at 2:49 AM
@Celeste no ☹️ @Fujibaka?
celeste • 4 February 2012 at 2:50 AM
@plushieI can't comment on that. :c
passion • 4 February 2012 at 2:51 AM
@celeste I changed my post a little, I'm not sure if you read my post before I edited it or not.So you're irritated that this person takes your seat and your friend doesn't do anything about it and doesn't tell you, right? Hmm, if you're pretty close, I don't think there's going to be any harm in asking her what's wrong. If the situation is solved with no problem, it means you are true friends. ^.^
celeste • 4 February 2012 at 2:53 AM
@passionI'm not too annoyed by that fact, it's really more being annoyed by the fact that this happens too often, and not just with new girls - other friends, stuff like that. Also, the new girl seemed to have pretended that she didn't notice me, which particularly irked me (I'm actually very sensitive in that direction)
passion • 4 February 2012 at 3:00 AM
@celeste I understand how you feel, I am ignored a lot at school -- even when I'm talking to someone, because I don't have a very loud voice. It happened frequently at primary school, but not so much in high school anymore. I think you should talk to the new girl for a bit, and see how she reacts. You can tell how people think of you by their expression, most of the time. ;]
celeste • 4 February 2012 at 3:03 AM
@passionI think I'll try, but it's only a weekly class ^^ Normally, I make threats whenever she ignores me, but I never carry them out. I really made this because I want to show that I'm being serious now, and I can't be taken lightly anymore. I even mailed it to her, just to prove it.
Deleted • 4 February 2012 at 3:08 AM
I've been feeling pretty depressed lately.I don't know that you are.But I'm kind of confused on the whole situation right now.
passion • 4 February 2012 at 3:10 AM
@celeste Making threats... may not be the best option, but I see your point. ;] Last year, there were a few students in my class that have always looked at me as if I was 'weird'. This annoyed me to the extreme, because I never did anything to them. But soon enough, I decided that they didn't matter to me. I want to share with you one of my favourite quotes:"Be yourself because the people who mind, don't matter and the people who matter, don't mind."Tell me how it turns out, okay? ;]
plushie • 4 February 2012 at 3:20 AM
@Dawnie why?
Deleted • 4 February 2012 at 3:22 AM
@plushie I don't know.Probably low self esteem.But I've always had that problem.
plushie • 4 February 2012 at 3:23 AM
@Dawnie okay me too...
celeste • 4 February 2012 at 3:44 AM
@dawnieSee the explanation I gave to Plushie ^w^
cafe • 4 February 2012 at 3:53 AM
I think you should just tell her youre upset the new girl took your seat. If she's a real friend, she'll try to work something out. About the lying, everybody lies about on thing or another. You've lied to me about being Aries. Ive let it go You can't let what people say or do make you miserable. You'll never be happy then.
passion • 4 February 2012 at 3:55 AM
@dawnie Is there anything I can do to help you? c:
celeste • 4 February 2012 at 3:58 AM
@cafeI know, but when I said "Anyone can lie," I meant that I, myself, was actually lying to her about my mood. I pretended to be perky, but, I was just about crying inside. I would have tried to have talked to her, but she acted like I wasn't even there.
cafe • 4 February 2012 at 4:03 AM
@CelesteOhhhI'm half asleep, but saw you were upset so I tried to help xD
celeste • 4 February 2012 at 4:05 AM
@cafeIt's ok, lol 😋 When I'm upset, I think of a bunch of random phrases I generally use to describe what's happening. ^^ You did a nice job helping me, though 😸
cafe • 4 February 2012 at 4:06 AM
@celesteImma lay down, if you wanna talk in the morning I'll try and help c:
celeste • 4 February 2012 at 4:10 AM
@cafeOk, that will help ^^ I sent her a creepy mail that showed her this topic, 'cause I'm tried of being implying. I want to be direct this time, and if I can't do it in person, I'm going to do it here. Coward's way out, but I need one.
duchess • 4 February 2012 at 4:20 AM
@celeste, It's really sad to be left out (it happens to me all of the time), but if this person is truly your friend, I'm sure that she'll be able to understand you and your feelings 😃
squeakers • 4 February 2012 at 4:21 AM
@celesteBloop.Well, I feel bad creeping on this topic, but I noticed your beginning post and felt compelled to reply.Sweetie, don't ever force yourself to feel something you don't, I know how that feels and believe me, it begins to drain you fast once time goes on. ☹️As for your friend, well, I suppose sending her an email works, but I suggest speaking to her personally about this. I understand that you've implied your feelings on the matter to her many times, but sometimes people can be very...well...oblivious. She might not have realized how deeply you felt about this matter, especially if she's as flippant about things as it seems?As for the new girl ignoring you, well bah humbug to her. 😋Perhaps she's simply shy and didn't want to talk first? I agree with the others, try talking to her, if she outright rejects you then well...To be honest, she doesn't deserve to be friends with you!Opps, sorry this ended up kind of being a rant. ^^;