I'm doomed.

dreamer • 11 February 2012 at 10:15 AM

Yeah. Okay. I just gotta talk about this.

Sooo. I'm sure a few people know about my "Boy issues" *if not, it should be pretty obvious*.

There are these two boys who are in a lot of my classes with me, and a week or two ago they finally got me to tell them who I like.

I trust them, and they're friendly, and they swore to God they'd never tell anyone. So that's not the problem. Actually, there isn't any problem at all, I'm just worried. Because:

On Friday, they came up to me at Social Studies, both of them saying they could try to get in touch with the boy I like this weekend to up-talk me.

One of them is going to communicate through Xbox or something, the other boy... He should be talking to him right now.

I trust them to have this worked out without being too obvious, and I know they're determined to help me out, so I'm letting them. I really hope they don't ruin my chances *or* my dignity. >.<

I'm just hoping for good luck, and I know even if there's a bad result, they were only trying to help.

But I'm nervous, and I either need ways to get this off my mind, or ways to think positive towards the situation, because I won't know what happened until Monday.

Help? (People I know IRL might understand this more)

@Scarlettsong
@Kagirl21
@Spenser_dog_123
@Pizza5pizza5

bunnyshadow • 11 February 2012 at 10:19 AM

@dreamer 😱 Is he hot? XD jk 😋
Good luck' ❤️

dreamer • 11 February 2012 at 10:22 AM

@Bunnyshadow ...Well I'm not even sure how to answer that. XD

@Scarlettsong would tell you he's repulsive. Isnt that right, Caitlin? XD

Haters gonna hate~


But, thanks for the good luck. ❤️

bunnyshadow • 11 February 2012 at 10:25 AM

@dreamer 😋 Lolz, is he nice? 0-0

leafpelt • 11 February 2012 at 10:33 AM

@dreamer
Are you decided one one?

dreamer • 11 February 2012 at 10:34 AM

@Bunnyshadow I think so. *annoying at times* But you know. He looks right me in the eyes when I'm talking too him, if I look upset he'll ask me if I'm okay. He wouldn't try to humiliate me and he doesn't spread secrets around either. So he listens.

That's how I see it. But you know some people don't.

leafpelt • 11 February 2012 at 10:38 AM

@dreamer
*rants*You SKIPPED MY POST! joking 😋

So you have chosen one and rejected the other?

dreamer • 11 February 2012 at 10:41 AM

@Leafpelt I've actually been waiting for someone to post here so I could reply to you and ping you XD

What do you mean? 😱 It's not about rejecting. There's one boy I like. Two boys who are friendly to me are trying to get in touch with my crush this weekend to up-talk me. X3

leafpelt • 11 February 2012 at 10:43 AM

@dreamer
Sorry...screwed up. So, why are you so worried?

dreamer • 11 February 2012 at 10:44 AM

@Leafpelt I don't want them to make it too obvious that they're up-talking me on purpouse. He might be suspicious that I like him or something. Which I don't want. 😱 I don't know. It's just me.

leafpelt • 11 February 2012 at 10:47 AM

@dreamer
You know, the best thing is to talk to him yourself. Yeah, its nerve-wracking or heart stopping, but sometimes doing it yourself is the best guarantee.

@bunnyshadow

dreamer • 11 February 2012 at 10:57 AM

@Leafpelt I know, I know. I've heard all that before. I'm just thinking if I talk to him face-to-face, he wouldn't know what to say. If people tell good stories about me and he has time to think about it, maybe that would give me a better chance before I do confess. I've made a goal to ask him to dance with me at our last dance in March, no matter what the reaction is. I'm so nervous!

No matter what people say, there's no way I can be straight-forward on my own and get a good reaction. I'm taking it slow.

leafpelt • 11 February 2012 at 11:00 AM

@dreamer
I don't know then...trust those two boys? They're being really nice if they are willing to do this for you.....no one at my school will.

briseis • 11 February 2012 at 11:20 AM

Why didn't you talk to him yourself? That's the best way and the easiest way to prevent any kind of confusion.

dreamer • 11 February 2012 at 11:26 AM

*headdesk*

Every time I post something like this I always have a ton of people saying "Talk to him on your own."

It's easier said than done. What more do I have to say to get the message through? I'm trying to work something out without having to go through all the trouble of gaining up my courage or humiliating myself.

briseis • 11 February 2012 at 12:16 PM

If you don't do it yourself, you'll most likely find that it was a mistake not to do so. He may think you're too cowardly to talk to him yourself, which is never a good thing. He may also not believe your two friends, especially if he doesn't really know the two boys talking to him for you. It's always better to do things yourself rather than rely on others to do it for you, because oftentimes you cannot 100% convey exactly what you want to someone else, and they may interpret what you're saying differently from what you intentionally wanted. Even if you're afraid he'll reject you, you should still do it on your own. It's the most sure-fire way of seeing how he feels.

By the way, there is no need to be so abrasive towards me. I have never read a thread by you before (at least, I do not think so) and I would appreciate being treated a little more respectfully, as my advice as as genuine as anyone else's.

leafpelt • 11 February 2012 at 1:40 PM

@dreamer
Telling your two friends what to tell the boy that you like?

kagirl21 • 11 February 2012 at 7:12 PM

@dreamer
I think its easier to say it through a message from personal experiance.. xD

scarlettsong • 11 February 2012 at 7:56 PM

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@bunnyshadow


Haha... I would tell you that XD
Dani and I don't exactly agree on that subject...


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@dreamer

I'd trust them to handle it for you 😊
Andrew's loyal to you, and, when you sit next to Joe for 2 weeks, it's hard to imagine him lying, or making you look bad. (He's so darn innocent). I'd trust them, Joe told me he shall speak of the "DANI!" language we speak, and Andrew talked to you about his idea while I spaced out in techno art, dreaming of my successful carrier in computers and how I will change the industry... 😉

...plus, they're in your fan club!

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dreamer • 11 February 2012 at 8:04 PM

@Scarlettsong Andrew's basketball game was this morning, so I hope he said the right things. XD As for Joe... I have no idea when he's gonna talk. 😋

It's not that I don't trust them, because I do. (And yeah, Joe's pretty innocent; Andrew is a different story). It's just my normal worrying. I know they'll do the best they can.

scarlettsong • 11 February 2012 at 8:07 PM

@dreamer

If that's the case...

Slow down, keep it cool, listen to music, and eat something minty 😊

pizza5pizza5 • 11 February 2012 at 10:05 PM

@dreamer

...wow. Whats his name again?? Ben...?