Ranting. Don't need to read. Just letting it out.

karamel • 18 February 2012 at 2:09 PM

My life sucks. My sibling (not cfmtfm) has a type of cancer (for privacy, I'm not saying it. Mind your own business). I have to serve him all the time (eg lunch - I have to miss school just to serve). If he gets angry, he has the right to HIT ME. I tell my parents, but they ignore. I know it's child abuse and I should call ChildLine or whatever the thing is, but I don't feel they help.

During the holidays, my parents and most times, my sibling go on holiday without me. They say they don't take me because they don't have enough money, but why go on holiday then? And it's every holiday like bank holiday, Valentine's, or whatever. I am just thankful to my step-sister, who sometimes GIVES UP a holiday to be with me.

As for school life, I am what they call a perfectionist, but I'm only like that because of the punishments. I have gone from a village school (not the stupid straw huts kind) to a school 50 miles from home. Now I have to move away from the only home, I could really be relaxed. I'm moving away from my step-sister, the community I could get away from my life's stress. Currently we're renting a flat so it's near me and my brother's school, going there every Sunday night and back every Friday afternoon. I don't even get the chance to relax.

I am put to chores every day. I do almost-impossible jobs daily and have a scar that my brother gave me as a punishment.

I'm just letting it out, you don't need to react. If you want to comment do so.
-Kara
#raging
#kara

Deleted • 18 February 2012 at 2:15 PM

... .A. In my opinion... Your brother is conceited. Even if he has cancer doesn't mean he can do what he wants. Especially to a sibling.
>_> Honestly! he needs to be taught a lesson.
._. I feel sorry though. Someone like you shouldn't be in this kind of situation.

lily- • 18 February 2012 at 2:16 PM

@karamel
😱
I hope you're alright.

karamel • 18 February 2012 at 2:17 PM

@lily- Ha ha.
That's the thing.
I'm not DX
I just really needed to rage but I'd get punished for shouting as well... I don't dare talk anymore.

@belilalas_25 You get used to it... bruises are what you live for in my life.

lily- • 18 February 2012 at 2:20 PM

@karamel
😱 Aww. I hope you do get alright soon then.
If you want you can rage here. I won't mind listening ^.^

leafpelt • 18 February 2012 at 2:21 PM

@karamel
You're brother's a really mean person. As my mom always says, just because you're sick doesn't make you special/a queen. I need to rant. (sister has a cold, and is ordering me around. I.E. Get a florn! Get me water!I want food!)She doesn't truly mean it though, she's only 8.

cafe • 18 February 2012 at 2:24 PM

Just because your brother has cancer, doesn't give him the right to be a jerk. He's abusive, end of story.

Yes, people should be lenient with people who have a serious disease, but that doesn't give them a pass to do whatever the heck they want.

Abuse is abuse.


Next time, get some proof. Like a tape recorder that records him yelling at you, a popping sound [It's obviously a hit, and it makes a sound] and the after affect. Then you have proof, and you can show it to social services. No one deserves to be hit. That's like saying a rapist could get away with raping someone, because they have cancer. It's bull crap.

Deleted • 18 February 2012 at 2:24 PM

@karamel
*_* STILLL your brother needs to be taught a lesson. He can't be so conceited and think that he is a king.
In china, THIS is what we call a prince-disease. He thinks that people are in his control. >_>

karamel • 18 February 2012 at 2:24 PM

@lily- I'm scared to offend someone. I don't want to hurt anyone, so I decided to just whinge in this topic and see how it went.

@leafpelt Thanks for the support. I appreciate it... I would like a mum like yours. 😊

@cafe I will try 😊

@belilalas_25 My family is actually half-Chinese, I'm surprised my parents aren't saying that... then again...

leafpelt • 18 February 2012 at 2:30 PM

@karamel
Yeah, that's why I'm helping her(my) out today. Too many ancient sayings though...

Why don't youStay at your step-sister's place? I think you should really get evidence. If talking with your parents don't work, you need to find someone else. This is abuse.

lily- • 18 February 2012 at 2:33 PM

@karamel
Well, I won't be offended so you can whinge on me all you like I won'y mind listening, as long as you feel better afterwords ^.^

bunnyshadow • 18 February 2012 at 2:36 PM

@karamel JUST READING THAT MAKES ME ANGRY. -smashes laptop onto wall- OMFG. HIT HIM BACK! dont be weak! Tell him he's being stupid and to get s life! Tell him you want him to die! If i were with you! I could help! omg. I HATE SEEING HELPLESS PEOPLE. TELL HIM TO GO DIE IN A HOLE. and om the vacations, just go with a friend!

karamel • 18 February 2012 at 2:40 PM

@leafpelt Yes, I do stay with her for as long as possible, but my parents always come round and pick me up if I stay too much... once they threatened to permanently ban me from her house...

@lily- Thanks... maybe some other time... I'm slightly cooling down...

@bunnyshadow Uh, sorry, I really don't mean you to abuse your laptop... And I don't have any friends (apart from my step-sister, but that doesn't help). I did try hitting him back, but that made him get an operation and made things worse.
Eh heh heh... back operation. ;D

balletninja • 18 February 2012 at 2:41 PM

@karamel No.
Don't hit back.
It won't make you the bigger person and won't change anything.

You, you need to work it out with words.
Offer him friendship, it has to be hard.
Having your life shrink.
He is taking it out on you physically, but maybe he really needs to let it out verbally.
It works, just let him rant.
And support him, don't combat his words.
Sometimes we just need someone to listen.

bunnyshadow • 18 February 2012 at 2:42 PM

@karamel -breathes heavily- Dont worry about my laptop, its my abuse-top what i call it. When im mad i throw it against a corner of my room which i call the abuse-corner 😸 Anywayz, make him get another operation! I really want to help! Do you have a fake FB where we can talk? Mine is Bunnyshadow Snoloegg.

cafe • 18 February 2012 at 2:44 PM

@Bunnyshadow

Do you mean all helpless people should die o_O

karamel • 18 February 2012 at 2:45 PM

@balletninja Thanks... hopefully he will manage to keep back his fingers when I talk with him... ❤️

@bunnyshadow Uh... it costs money... and I think I'll go with balletninja's suggestion instead of punching him in the shin this time...
And no, no fake FB. No fake anything XD I like to "keep it real". But I chuckled at your "surname".

bunnyshadow • 18 February 2012 at 2:46 PM

@cafe No o.o I mean my laptop dies whenever i read about something sad. Helpless people should stsnd up for themselves, and i just want to help them. I know im hsrd to understand ☹️

karamel • 18 February 2012 at 2:47 PM

@bunnyshadow You're not hard to understand, and I can understand why you want to help. I'm not saying you're NOT helping (I think you've boosted my confidence... by, like, the tiniest amount ❤️). 😊

lily- • 18 February 2012 at 2:48 PM

@karamel
okay ^.^
Though I don't think you should stand for this, maybe go with @balletninja said. People don't do things like this for no reason. Just like you're letting it out here, maybe he needs to let it out too, but doesn't know how and well is going the wrong way with it.

karamel • 18 February 2012 at 2:49 PM

@lily- Thanks... only I guess it's his only option...
He can do some amazing stuff. He's disabled, but...
He even has a wheelchair but he can really... o.0

scarlettsong • 18 February 2012 at 2:50 PM

@karamel

OMSC... That's terrible. My bro is bad, but I mean, I can live with him... YOUR'S HITS YOU??? You have to tell someone who actually cares and can do something about it.

And, for the holidays, that's insane. Your family shouldn't go on vacation if they can't take you. That's rotten.

Karma will happen soon.

bunnyshadow • 18 February 2012 at 2:51 PM

@karamel Ok😊 Can you PM me? Im sorry for being violent, i stand up for others, when i see a friend bullied i dont sit around and watch i walk up to the guy and tell him to stop and get a life, if he can find one. And no one even THINKS about hitting me at the school.

leafpelt • 18 February 2012 at 2:51 PM

@karamel
Those aren't parents if they LET SIBLINGS ABUSE EACH OTHER. *rants and takes deep breaths*

karamel • 18 February 2012 at 2:52 PM

@scarlettsong I've been waiting for karma to happen for 4 years... in a few months, hey presto, 5 year anniversary. 😉

@bunnyshadow It's okay, I felt like being violent myself, but of course I wasn't. And I admire your... verbal strength.

@leafpelt Well, one of them is my step-parent, so...

lily- • 18 February 2012 at 2:53 PM

@karamel
Yeah...though he doesn't really have the right to hit. But yeah try talking to him about it and see if it works.

balletninja • 18 February 2012 at 2:55 PM

@karamel
I have seen a new perspective on these things recently.
I used to be the one to hit,
but now I try to spread the love and not the hate.

caremelsunshine • 18 February 2012 at 2:55 PM

soz let me post this on my main account

karamel • 18 February 2012 at 2:55 PM

@lily- Wait, he's just finished dinner. /prepares bulletproof vest
I'm actually going to prepare a little speech overnight and talk to him tomorrow.

@caramelsunshine Hey, caramel 😋 And... he seems lucky, yes.

scarlettsong • 18 February 2012 at 2:55 PM

@karamel Then... ohh... HURRY UP KARMA!!!