Nerghhhh. D: Don't click here unless you want to hear my boy troubles. :P

trish • 22 March 2012 at 12:56 AM

Okay so you clicked. .-.

Ever since I moved on from my ex, not totally, still just 5% of my heart clinging on, I found comfort from another guy friend.
Whenever we pass each other, we say "Hai friend."

He used to put his arm around my waist twice. 4 months ago. ._.

We've had hour-long conversations on Facebook on multiple nights.

He's not afraid to be touching his arm with mine.

He used to jump behind me infront of everyone during P.E.

He made it super obvious when he was jumping up and down waving at me.

He always ended his conversations with 'Sweet Dreams.'

We used to be together alot.
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Now? I mean, TODAY....

He ignored me. Avoided me.
I suspect someone must've told him I liked him.
Because we had eye contact for one second then he looked away and walked right pass me to his friends.
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My plan is, should I let it slide and do what he's doing? Ignoring me, avoiding me? I miss his company. </3 But he directly told me on our conversations when we were talking about crushes that "I don't like anyone so far right now, but I'm pretty sure someone will come around!!!"

NERGHHHHH. D';

soothebelle • 22 March 2012 at 1:10 AM

@trish

Oh man, that's rough! x_x I usually experience all these weird awkward things with guys too... Ugh. I hate when things like this happen xP especially since you guys had been pretty close friends.

So you do have feelings for him? Maybe, if he heard that you liked him, he was afraid that he was giving you the wrong signals (spending so much time with you, etc) or like he was leading you on, and now he's trying to distance himself to try and stop you from liking him.

You could always just do what he's doing, but if you value your friendship with him over your feelings, then you should probably try and talk to him about it. He might be the one feeling uncomfortable here, not knowing what to do if he doesn't like you back and doesn't want you to get hurt... ;P

trish • 22 March 2012 at 1:15 AM

@soothebelle The farthest I went was saying he was cute. Otherwise, no big hints directly at him. I do have feelings for him, especially now. They're not solid, he's just a pretty great guy.

He probably doesn't like me back. This girl claimed that he said that he liked her. I've been trolled. .-.

soothebelle • 22 March 2012 at 1:20 AM

@trish Ahh xD see, I'm always shy around guys. I rarely even tell them they're cute or anything like that, unless it's in a joking manner xP

Girls say a lot of stuff. Most of it isn't true. DON'T TRUST GIRLS. Trust me... >.> but lol, like I said, I would talk to him and that would probably clear everything up xP

bunnyshadow • 22 March 2012 at 1:20 AM

@trish Poor you ☹️

At lest you have guy-friends... That are nice... And not preverted.... @wolvania and @pikachushadow WILL explain if they visit eggcave xD

trish • 22 March 2012 at 1:38 AM

@soothebelle He did kinda speak to me today when I asked him a simple question. But his answer sounded as if he didn't want to talk to me. Last time we were in the same place, he pressed his arm up to me and we chatted until he left for his class.


@bunnyshadow I don't like being given mixed signals nor being toyed with. ;"(

bunnyshadow • 22 March 2012 at 1:40 AM

@trish Im sorry ☹️ Hope everything works out

stellalunagirl • 22 March 2012 at 2:33 AM

@trish

He probably is confused himself.
I had a roughly similar problem a couple years ago..

A guy starting being nice to me, and talking to me and teasing me. Of course I revelled in the attention and developed a crush. Then he started a relationship with someone else. :L

Guys are VERY HARD to decipher. Trust me, I know.
There really isn't any point asking any of us girls here on EC cuz we probably won't have a clue. I mean, we'd have the best intentions but probably give sketchy, at best, advice.

My advice is to let it settle for a while. I don't know much about guys, (even now when i have a boyfriend) but he might be feeling uncomfortable with something or has issues to deal with on his own. Or he may just be busy and hasn't had the time to talk to you much.

I think us girls analyse things WAY TOO MUCH, so MAYBE it's just a big misunderstanding.

zafeyry • 22 March 2012 at 5:20 AM

@stellalunagirl
xD

@trish
He's probably tired or something was wrong NOT relating to you. My girlfriend freaked out because I didn't wait for her at the end of the day, and that was because I went home sick 😋 Goood luck 😊

trish • 22 March 2012 at 11:45 AM

@stellalunagirl Lol. XD True~.

@zafeyry I should not freak out 'cause we're not anything solid together. .-. /remains hopefully untouchable.

qwaszx • 22 March 2012 at 11:56 AM

I'm kinda doing that to a guy right now. ._. I don't want to be mean but I probably couldn't talk to him without crying. V.V He told me his crush the other day. </3

stellalunagirl • 23 March 2012 at 12:16 AM

@zafeyry

Girls ARE too analytical.. sometimes I wish I wasn't one, I'd get upset over the smallest things...

@trish
If you guys aren't solid he probably doesn't know you like him or anything? Guys can also be STUPID, when it comes to understanding girls..

trish • 23 March 2012 at 12:44 AM

@stellalunagirl I like your rants. XD Yeah today, we made eye contact for one second and we both looked away. When the bell rang to signify that passing period ended, I was still walking to my class. He was too. He walked next to me, but not as close as usual. I was fixing my glasses so then he said "Hai friend." Like a super duper lame greeting. So in that same tone, I said "Hi."

stellalunagirl • 23 March 2012 at 12:48 AM

@trish

My rants... do I rant? xD
Well, if you like him then tell him, don't just stay in this spot in your relationship because it isn't very good. It can get confusing and conflicting. Let him know, I know it wont be easy, but it'll be better than just drifting.. if you get my drift. HAHA bad pun 😋

linpug • 23 March 2012 at 12:57 AM

Maybe he thinks that you are ignoring him, so he is ignoring you?

trish • 23 March 2012 at 1:33 AM

@linpug He started it. 😋

pendulum • 23 March 2012 at 2:15 AM

@trish

Let me tell you a story. A story that used to hurt to think about but now I guess it's /okay/ to talk about. I am engaged to a guy named Zack. He was/is my best friend since I was 12+. I had a crush but then it grew as I matured and I didn't muster up the courage to EVER tell him because we were strictly best friends in my head. I didn't want to ruin anything we had as friends because of my awkwardness and my very strong feelings. I acted on it (not even telling him I was completely in love with him) when I was 17. Unfortunately yet fortunately, he felt the same way all his life. I didn't even know BECAUSE I was ignorant and stupid and denied my feelings and put them in this bottle which grew into multiple personal problems and loneliness for years because I did dwell on the fear of losing everything. Eventually, I couldn't take it anymore. I realized /you only live once/, as cliche as it seems.

ethereal • 23 March 2012 at 2:16 AM

@trish
(this is pendulum ^^^)

The moral of the story is that even if that may not be the case with your situation, you don't want to end up just not knowing and even losing a friend because of all of this, or just growing apart. It makes you uneasy and you can't do that to yourself. You are torturing yourself or just making it uncomfortable to be around him. The same for him. He's in the same boat, not approaching you and telling you what's going on if something's off.

No matter if the situation turns out good, bad, there's heartbreak, or if this grows, you have to be sincere with him and most importantly yourself because you will hurt more and more if he just fades away and you have no idea what really was the case. D;

trish • 23 March 2012 at 11:05 PM

@pendulum Thanks for that.(: But there was a slight improvement today, he called me by my nickname he gave him, and that's all. I feel so stupid, since I won't see him for another week. But I'll promise myself I'll bring it up why we're just like that next time I see him.

kawaiihime • 24 March 2012 at 8:38 PM

Onestly honney if you like him as a friend or a BF you would try harder to get his attion.SO TRY HARDER.Love is coming your way