Rant on my life ;~;

whispers • 23 March 2012 at 6:19 PM

For my whole school life, this one girl has freaking hated me. For a reason I don't know. So one of my friend who that chic will talk to told me that that girl wanted her to mean to somebody. She asked her who, the chic said me. Then she asked why. The chic said because she doesn't like me.
Last year, the chic was worse. So me and @pegasasu and my friend were walking to a fro yo place after school. And the evil chic kept telling pegasasu not to walk with me because I'm weird. That made me mad and sad. But pegasasu stayed with me. Then when my friend I usually sit with wasn't there, I sat with pegasasu's group. Then I got up because I had just won a gift card, and I come back and the chic dumped my lunchbox on the floor and let some guy she HATES sit there. I almost started crying and walked away. Then pegasasu called me back. Then she offers everybody else a piece a candy except me. Then she kept calling me mean things behind my back. It was so frustrating. I would go home and cry.
I have really bad bright red acne, so this dude in my class last year asked me if I got stitches, pointing to my freaking acne. I wanted to freaking cry.
I hate bullies. They just ruin my life ;~;
I'm done ranting. Say what you want.
Most of this happened last year.
I'm pinging people to talk to about it.
@dreamer
@twilight_raptor
@zac
@cqpkytty

viola • 23 March 2012 at 6:27 PM

Somebody help me? ☹️
@kitty19cat
@ian
@asi
@swimforlife

cqpkytty • 23 March 2012 at 6:29 PM

@whispers
My best advice? Ignore her. OR diss her back. Or acted like you didn't take it seriously. (Example: When she told pegasasu to not walk with you b/c you're weird, you could have said, "but not as much as you!" Or you could have said, "Why, yes I am, thank you. You're weird, too," in a polite tone of voice)
Or you could act like you don't take it (or her) seriously.

Also, that dude who you thought was making fun of your acne, might actually have thought you got stitches. It's hard to tell, unless he made it clear by laughing at you.

Deleted • 23 March 2012 at 6:29 PM

@viola @whispers aw i am so sorry to hear that!! i hope everything gets better.. some advice- Ignore her and just keep telling your self in the mirror, "I am better than her and all I need are my friends which I have" Or if you are in a snotty mood 😋 Tell her off and make her scared of you xP Hope this helped

whispers • 23 March 2012 at 6:30 PM

@cqpkytty
I wan't there when it happened. Sasu told me afterwards >_<
Then the guy, he's known for being a freaking jerk, so I swear he was trying to be mean ;~;

Deleted • 23 March 2012 at 6:32 PM

@viola
@whispers

You have pinged the right person! I will listen to your rants, no matter how strange they are. I DO NOT JUDGE!

Here's my advise (comming from someone with experince of loosing friends and bullies)

I know its what everyone says, but try to ignore that 'chic'. If she says something about you, tell her to 'Call It What You Want' because every one is entiled to live thier own life freely, with out bullies. As for your friend, consult her. Its not fair of her to give into the Chic for popualrity. I hold grudes for along time, but it helps to get your mind off the situation. PM me if you need to talk in private...

whispers • 23 March 2012 at 6:34 PM

@swimforlife
My friend doesn't really talk to her. She is loyal to me, and she said what the chic told her to do. And she told the meanie that she wouldn't be mean to a friend >_<
I just need to get my feelings out to the world, I don't need to PM >_<

asi • 23 March 2012 at 6:34 PM

@Whispers Darn it! D: I can't really say I have any experience here, so yeah ._.
I'd just act unaffected, and if they keep at it, outskill her at smart retorts like @cqpkytty said ._.

cqpkytty • 23 March 2012 at 6:35 PM

@whispers
oh ok xP
Good luck dealing with her, I gots no more advice 😋

@swimforlife
I don't think the friend was giving into the chic's demands. It didn't sound like it to me.

Deleted • 23 March 2012 at 6:37 PM

@whispers
I'm glad sasu stood up for you. I wish I was that lucky...

Anyways, I hope I have helped you. Live your life to your standards, no-one elses. I learned that the hard way. Now I don't take any crap from anyone. Just ask yourself 'In 5 years will this matter?'

whispers • 23 March 2012 at 6:38 PM

@swimforlife
My friend didn't give in to the girl's demands, she told her she wouldn't be mean to a friend and walked away.

Deleted • 23 March 2012 at 6:42 PM

@whispers

I understand, its confusing cuz both are she's.
Still, ignore the Chic

whispers • 23 March 2012 at 6:44 PM

@swimforlife
Yeah, I didn't want to say their names, so I tried to make it as unconfusing as possible xD

I have, but it ticks me off and hurts my feelings. I don't show her how it does, I come home and cry at night >_>

Deleted • 23 March 2012 at 6:46 PM

@whispers

I cry my self to sleep alot too. Glad you can keep a good face at school. Anyways, I hope things get better. As for now, put it out of your mind. Listen to music, exersice or chat on EggCave... You're alrady doing that so..

whispers • 23 March 2012 at 6:48 PM

@swimforlife
Yeah. My best friend in the RL keeps bugging me about my "addiction" to EggCave xD
I start talking to her about EC stuffy stuff, and she looks up from her lunch and says. " I have no clue what your talking about Katie, and I don't care" xD

Deleted • 23 March 2012 at 6:49 PM

@whispers
Aww. I am addicted too, but I don't tell anyone 😊

twilight_raptor • 23 March 2012 at 6:50 PM

@viola @whispers
my personal opinion: U should ignore her. she'd get bored eventually if u show her that what she does doesnt bother U and that U enjoy life no matter what she does 😊 If she goes too far U can always count on the support of adults, so if she has any sense she wouldnt go too far ;]
so dont let her gain any advantage from this, make her actions seem fruitless. Hey, two people can play a game ;]

bluszczyk • 23 March 2012 at 7:06 PM

@whispers
I dunno from where those mean people come from O_o I have situation a bit like yours, have this freakin' girl in my group that hates me without no reason, but she isn't mean right in front of me, she has lots of money, a good car ant other things, and she tries to steal all of my friends, trying to get me lonely, doing weird faces when I talk in my group (something like "blah blah blah" or "I don't care") and always talking about me behind my back. She made 2 years of studying a horror to me, I was always alone, sitting somewhere, talking on the phone with friends... And I find out that she said then to others that she will not give a ride home or some cool stuff she bought to those, who will talk to me O_o
So.... yeah, some people are strange, some love to pick somebody and make him their enemy, just without no reason. All you can do is ignore her, make your own group of friends and don't care.
These people never change....

whispers • 23 March 2012 at 7:09 PM

@bluszxzyk
Yeah! It's so annoying. Ever since I met her in first grade she's hated me..
I've tried to be nice.
I don't know if she targets me because she thinks I'm weird because of Diabetes. I don't know.

bluszczyk • 23 March 2012 at 7:16 PM

@whispers
Don't be nice to her, just ignore her. Don't waste your time on that kind of person.
I'm different from others because I'm not an entertaining person or a group clownish person and most of people in my group are.
Well I think it not depends on nothing, that a person like her hates you, she just pick you and she likes to have an enemy.
Some people are just mean and they like to show their power, that when she does not like you than your life is miserable.
Just don't let her! Show her that you have frends you can rely on and your happy with that! 😊

hayz • 23 March 2012 at 7:20 PM

@whispers

Best thing to do,

GET PERVERTED 8D

And loose, like really.

Me and my friend always joke around, and once a really annoying girl went up to me and asked:

"Are you lesbian?"

So I was like:

"How about we answer that with this?"

And I leaned in to 'kiss' her.

Fortunately, she ran away screaming, "Ew!"

So if she calls you weird, just tell her that her upper chest is too small to be female.

Deleted • 23 March 2012 at 7:22 PM

@hayz
??
Interesting...

dreamer • 23 March 2012 at 8:30 PM

@Hayz X'DDDDDD That made me laugh so hard.

@Whispers I hate bullies. They think they're better than everyone else. :/

All I can say is try to avoid her, maybe get your good friends away from her too. A bully always goes for the friends first. Trust me, I know.

I have a little group of friends (boys and girls) and we're pretty much considered misfits. People used to try to bully us a bit but they don't bother us anymore, because we don't give a crap about it, and they know that. 😸

seaangel • 23 March 2012 at 8:33 PM

I'm so sorry. I know how you feel though.

Deleted • 23 March 2012 at 8:35 PM

@hayz LOOL XD

@whispers
... If i were you, her face would be bloodily scratched up on the floor.

:[ i hate that girl. If she hates you then hate you. She doesn't have to do that just cause she hates you, it's like she wants YOU to hate her more. She is trying to shun you.

-_- stitches? SERIOUSLY? >:T

univea • 23 March 2012 at 8:38 PM

I know a girl just like that. She stole all my friends >.> <.< I can't get over the fact that any time now she'll steal my crush too, because she knows about it and will problably use it against me.
She hates me and there's not reason to. She's hated me since 2ND GRADE, when I met her. I tried to talk to her, and she said "Shut up I don't care" before I could say anything. -.-

Also, I got bit by a LADYBUG and watched a bee tunnel into the GROUND. Seriously, I do nothing to deserve evil man-eating ladybugs.


Or bees bent on world domination.

twilight_raptor • 23 March 2012 at 8:39 PM

@Hayz LOL xD mean and snobby people like these, need to know the meaning of embarrassment!

oranberry100 • 23 March 2012 at 8:43 PM

@whispers Almost the same thing happened to me. I stuck with my friends, and it all turned out better in the end. Just remember, everyone on eggcave is here for ya. ❤️

whispers • 23 March 2012 at 9:01 PM

@hayz
Okay xD Like my mind isn't already perverted 83

@dreamer
Kinda hard to avoid her .__. She's in all my classes <_<

@belilalas_25
Okay 😊

@univea
Evil ladybugs will dominate over human kind 83

@oranberry1
Thanks! ❤️

Deleted • 23 March 2012 at 9:12 PM

@whispers xD do what hayz does, i guarantee you. The bullies will be creeped out and run away from you. But they are gonna call you a creeper.... >3>