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whispers • 4 April 2012 at 4:44 PM

Maybe this is a rant. Maybe it isn't.
But it's just like one.

Inside jokes annoy me.
They make me feel left out in every single way.

To me, when I see "inside joke", I think "clique".
Cause to me, that what it is.

I've been bullied and bruised. Cliques are my worst fear.
To me, it seems like that on here.
Like certain users are super tight buddies, and I try to become friends, but it seems like it don't work.
I try and try, but am never talked to.

I hate it. Maybe quitting is a closer option to me. I don't know. I have 7 friends. No more. No less.
I'll probably stay just for the creatures and the better friends I have.
Maybe so.
=v=;

Rant over...

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bunnyshadow • 4 April 2012 at 4:45 PM

@whispers Sorry D: If I ever did that to you â˜šī¸

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whispers • 4 April 2012 at 4:46 PM

@bunnyshadow
It isn't you. 😊
You've always been nice, opened up, and very caring. You would never do such a thing.

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bunnyshadow • 4 April 2012 at 4:49 PM

@whispers
Thank you 😊 I wish my real life friends would say that though :c

Deleted • 4 April 2012 at 4:52 PM

@Whispers It wasn't me, was it?


I TRY to be friends with everyone, I really do, no haters, no drama, right? But it just doesn't work. -~-

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whispers • 4 April 2012 at 4:55 PM

@dawnie
No, not you 😊


It actually isn't anybody specific. I've just have seen it a lot lately, and it's been ticking me off. =v=;

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lily- • 4 April 2012 at 4:59 PM

@whispers
Yeah I'm not a fan of inside jokes either. But you can't really do much to know them, so I just forget about it.
When it comes to cliques, to tell you the truth, never been a part of one.

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whispers • 4 April 2012 at 5:01 PM

@lily-
I haven't either. But I've had to deal with 'em.

And I don't want an EggCave clique to start :[

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lily- • 4 April 2012 at 5:06 PM

@whispers
Yeah...But if it happens, you can't really stop it...I mean a close group is a close group...

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whispers • 4 April 2012 at 5:08 PM














I hate cliques. I freaking hate them.

Inside jokes leave people out, and so do cliques.

Clique = Inside Joke
=V=;

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lily- • 4 April 2012 at 5:16 PM

@whispers
Like I said I've never been a part of cliques, but quite a while back I made a decision not to care, because I knew that if I did I would only hurt myself. I've been left out on things, but I've stopped caring about that as well, if no-one wants to tell me about something, it's their choice, I've stopped bothering. I've figured out that if you bother too much about such things, you'll only hurt yourself, the person who's leaving you out, won't even notice - let alone care. It's just more trouble for you.

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twilight_raptor • 4 April 2012 at 5:31 PM

@whispers I dont have really close buddies here (usually just friendly chats with random users) but I hope I havent done anything like that? 😱

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whispers • 4 April 2012 at 5:32 PM

@twilight_raptor
Nu. You havn't

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twilight_raptor • 4 April 2012 at 5:34 PM

@whispers *phew ^^; havent figured out my name yet huh? xD you may let it go 😊

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whispers • 4 April 2012 at 5:36 PM

@twilight_raptor
Ayeen..
Adnin
Ajwan

My arabic friend told me that x3

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phoenixfox • 4 April 2012 at 5:36 PM

@whispers Don't worry about the inside jokes, I just write it off as others "special" thing, you can create your own. 😊

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twilight_raptor • 4 April 2012 at 5:38 PM

@whispers nope x3 who's your friend?

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akira • 4 April 2012 at 5:40 PM

It's not me I hope, we didn't talk much D: But I agree, I'm here from pretty much the same reasons.....and the roleplays ;3

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wispa • 4 April 2012 at 6:05 PM

@whispers

I am also sorry if I have ever done anything to upset you. I try to be nice to everyone I interact with here on egg cave and in life.

Yeah, the inside joke thing can get annoying. I always look at it like -- if it is such an "Inside" thing then why even post anything about it.

I hope the rest of your day is better.

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whispers • 4 April 2012 at 7:12 PM

@wispa
@akira
It ain't you guys.

*pokes my terrible grammar for some reason XDDD*

@twilight_raptor
Her name is Nooren â¤ī¸

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stellie • 4 April 2012 at 7:19 PM

@whispers

Isn't "inside joke" something ur suppose to say when you have a private joke inside your head?
I don't know..... 😋 I hope things get better for you though 😃

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snow_angel618 • 4 April 2012 at 7:23 PM

@whispers aw DX don't say quitting is a closer option, i only have like 2 really good friends on here but everyone is really nice and trading is fun 😊 don't let it get you down

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whispers • 4 April 2012 at 7:25 PM

@stellie
No. Inside jokes are jokes that only a few people are supposed to know 😋

@snow_angel618
Thanks â¤ī¸

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stellie • 4 April 2012 at 7:27 PM

@whispers

Oh... I hate those kinds of jokes, the way they work in my school if you want a say inapropiate joke and a teachers around you say "inside joke" but what ever your say is so obvious you dont even have to say the joke 😋

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whispers • 4 April 2012 at 7:33 PM

@stellie
I know =v=
They are soo annoying 😋

Deleted • 4 April 2012 at 8:12 PM

@whispers I hate it too. I do have lots of inside jokes, though. xD

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cqpkytty • 4 April 2012 at 8:21 PM

@whispers
In real life (but not on here), I'm kinda-sorta-ish in a clique. xP
As in, I have a very close circle of friends. Big, too. I'd say...maybe eight or nine of us? A lot. 😋
But then again, it's not exactly a "clique" clique because if someone starts hanging out with us, we welcome them in and then they become part of our group. It used to be just three of us, then more gradually joined, and more will probably join in the future.

So, I dunno if it's a clique or not. xP

....And this post doesn't really have anything to do with you or with Egg Cave, so I don't know why I posted it xP

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whispers • 4 April 2012 at 8:23 PM

XD

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balletninja • 4 April 2012 at 8:25 PM

@whispers
I don't mind them as long as they aren't like songs or quotes. It is awkward because all I can do is watch people sing it out and all I can do is stand there.

I know I have my inside jokes though. More memory recalling than jokes.

And sorry bout' the friends. I would love to be your friend, I just don't go out looking at every person and think "HEY THEY SHOULD BE MY BFF." It just kinda happens.

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whispers • 4 April 2012 at 8:28 PM

@balletninja
I don't go out and do that x)
They just happen to me also XD

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