rant. read at your own wish, and no argueing or screaming!

Deleted • 24 April 2012 at 8:14 PM

I think this is the exact opposite that Growler wanted. No drama, look what we have here! Drama over abortion!

SO, stick to the topic, please! This is not called 'Abortion Debate!'

takaedakumi • 24 April 2012 at 8:14 PM

@april__ I know, but I felt I should say something.

And I don't feel like debating right now anyway. xP



So those new creatures, they're in the cave, yes? :/

balletninja • 24 April 2012 at 8:15 PM

@april__ That about killed me as well.

@taffy789 I used to be really sad, I had a pessimistic outlook on life.
Then I realized I should live life to the fullest and stop being so ignorant to my chance at having a good life.

hai • 24 April 2012 at 8:15 PM

I think we should all steer clear of what we're talking about. Pretty sure this can't be disscussed.

april__ • 24 April 2012 at 8:15 PM

@blackdeathkitty

That's what I said. But you posted your opinion, too.

When I posted mine it was an EXAMPLE!

If I'd posted between Animal testing and against, would it have gotten this much attention?

I was making a point in my post, not trying to start a debate. If I wanted that, I'd have made that its own topic. XD And I have. On another site.

Deleted • 24 April 2012 at 8:15 PM

@takatheeducatedkid yeah.
OI! STOP THE DEBATE! please. XD im having to resist screaming at people.

zafeyry • 24 April 2012 at 8:15 PM

This isn't an abortion thread, can everyone stop bringing that up. It was an example.

balletninja • 24 April 2012 at 8:16 PM

OKAY WE AREN'T TALKING ABOUT ABORTION! GEEZ, we stopped like 5 minutes ago.

takaedakumi • 24 April 2012 at 8:17 PM

OKAAAAAY HOW IS EVERYONE? LET'S CHANGE DA SUBJECT ALREADAAAY!

taffy789 • 24 April 2012 at 8:21 PM

@Balletninja
I consider myself an optimist. 😊

Which is why I freak out when I start feeling depressed. O_o

And it freaks me out even MORE when I get really hyper after that. O_o
Like, how can I be depressed then happy (Like I was today and yesterday, but I feel better now) like that! DX

People say I over anazyle, but to be truthful, I want to get tested because I HATE being in the dark about things. >< I want to know what's happening around me, with other people, and especially IN MY OWN BRAIN 24/7. 😋

takaedakumi • 24 April 2012 at 8:23 PM

@taffy789 I'm just a total pessimist. 😋

taffy789 • 24 April 2012 at 8:26 PM

@takatheeducatedkid

...
According to one of my fav songs, I must run from you. XD
*Takes off, flails arms and singing very badly*

"I RUNNNN from hate. I run from prejudice, I run from pessimists, but I run too late. DA DA DA DA!"

XD XD XD (Jk. 😉 )

Deleted • 24 April 2012 at 8:27 PM

@taffy789 *runs after you* you will never escape! *monkeys the fly attack you*

takaedakumi • 24 April 2012 at 8:29 PM

@taffy789 I try to look at thinks in a better perspective, but then I usually do the old "but then again, I bet..." thing. xD

Deleted • 24 April 2012 at 8:34 PM

@takatheeducatedkid
Right, I am JUST like you, I try to look at life at a better perspective, the only problem is that I can't, I may sound SO messed up, but the world stinks! ☹️

taffy789 • 24 April 2012 at 8:37 PM

@takatheeducatedkid

At least you're trying. X3

This is me trying to look from a bad prespective:

Me: *Sigh* "Nobody likes me! D:" //pity party///
Other Me: *Cough your friends, family, dog, ect?*
Me: "....Those don't count. >.>"
Other Me: "They TOTALLY do." 😋
Me: "Yeah but, the other people in school-"
Other Me: "Shouldn't or don't matter." 😋
Me: "But-but, WHY CAN'T YOU LET ME HAVE ONE PITY PARTY?"
OM: "Cause i'm you."
Me: "And?"
OM: "That means i'm a total jerk." 😈
Me: >.>
OM: *Trollface* "Problem?"

Then I go eat Sherbert. 😊
TEH ORANGE KIND! ❤️

(That other me is a total jerkface. >.> I hate her. D:<)

takaedakumi • 24 April 2012 at 8:38 PM

@skibunny9 Yeppers. The world hates me. It's just how it is. Nothin' goes my way.

But that's just what makes simple things in life seem better. ^^

@taffy789 The pessimistic part of me seems to keep me from listening to the optimistic part. xD

snow_angel618 • 24 April 2012 at 8:40 PM

@taffy789 You should eat the rainbow kind. It will take your mind off your other you xD

piucca • 24 April 2012 at 9:35 PM

@growler
Ignorance is bliss then.
The person is more then capable to walk away.
If they are unable to walk away from a forum they
have an addiction issue and need to seek help for that.

If more then one person is going after a single person,
then that single person has done something to start them up.

If I walked in to a neighborhood with white people and screamed a racal word because someone told me they would like it, but I was mistaken... they all gang up on me, right? I stay calm, apologize, walk away.

If anything, these kids can report, walk away, come
back the next day and those people will be gone.

Even when I was younger, I was able to learn how to deal with people as issues came up. Hiding kids from real problems is just going to make them like most kids now a days, dependent on others. Incapable of sorting out their own life. 😋

Deleted • 24 April 2012 at 10:37 PM

@piucca i had a response to that, but it exxeded 1500 charaters in length. heres a shortened version, summarized.
One, it doesnt matter if they can walk away. people shouldnt DO IT in the FIRST PLACE.
Two, the person might not have known that the audience would be offended at all. it might be quite resonable or even normal for them to do or say depending on how they were raised and where they were raised.
three, people arent you. you might have been able to shrug it off, many people are really sensative to those things.
Four, what if they only got a warning? then they would have to speak to those people every day, and others opinons about them will be bias by what those other told them. it happens way more than you would belive.]
five what if the person had a honest mental problem, and ended up doing something to harm themselves or others because of that incadent?
six, most kids can solve there problems just fine thank you, its those that cant because they are complelty INCAPABLE because either a mental problem or physical one, that we need to care about. and yeah, there really arent that few online, anyone could be it.

Deleted • 24 April 2012 at 10:44 PM

@piucca Growler has a point. There is lots of people in the world who may be sensitive to insults, or may have a mental problem that those insults may make worse. No one, even normal people, are compleltly indifferent to what others think of them. Its in human nature to care about what others think.

Aimez ceux qui aiment, et aimer ceux qui ne le font pas, mais nous sommes tout de meme d'une facon fondamentale. Nous avons tous les soins.

briseis • 25 April 2012 at 7:02 PM

The best way to avoid an argument is to avoid mentioning them.

dreamer • 25 April 2012 at 7:22 PM

@Growler Wow. I totally know where you're coming from.

If I can admit this, I tend to get into little squabbles here in there on the forums. It starts with me posting in a rant topic, then someone replies harshly to me, I do the same back to them, and so on. Also, I've cried while reading several of the things people say to me.

I am EXTREMELY sensitive, but on top of that, I don't let anyone step on me or move me around like a worthless old doll. When I disagree with someone's opinion, I will either respect it, or if it makes me angry, I will *fight* to prove my point. Besides, I'm pretty much NEVER in a good mood. But when I'm PMSing, I'm like a living heck on the forums. X'D Tough times. So when I'm in a crappy mood I don't like getting a ton of notifications in the forums and seeing people tell me what I can and can't do right. It angers me, AND upsets me.

Deleted • 25 April 2012 at 7:58 PM

From a phycological point of view, there are two types of people: Introverts (ppl who tend to internalize their emotions), and Extroverts (ppl who don't internalize emotions).

Most of the ppl who have difficulty dealing with bullying, or just plain old 'mean' ppl are Introverts (myself being one of them).

'Growing thicker skin' is a basically a gruff way of saying that we just need to learn to deal with the insanity of the world in a healthy way. Such ways could be meditation, screaming into a pillow, ripping fabric (fabric has a much more satisfying feel that paper ^^), or writing. Writing was my way of 'healthy' dealing. I wrote down EVERYTHING I wanted to do to the person and then burned it so no one would find it and put me in jail XD.

If anyone needs to talk just PM me and I'll listen to you rant all night if I have to 😉