I feel so stupid. Help

seaangel • 8 May 2012 at 4:50 PM

I just had my very first break up. I did the breaking up, and now I feel like my entire heart broke into a million pieces. All that's going through my head is I want him back.

Is this a normal. I mean I know it is, but I don't feel like it is. It doesn't help that my friend in RL came outside when I was leaving and said, "Hey! Don't you wanna talk to Michael (Boyfriend's name)" I didn't turn back and say something, mainly because I was crying.

Any advice. Also, I'm really sorry for bring you into my troubles, but I need support. None of my friends know what I'm going through.

zafeyry • 8 May 2012 at 4:52 PM

@seaangel
Why did you break up with him? This is Step 1 😋

seaangel • 8 May 2012 at 4:57 PM

@zafeyry

I broke up with him because he was ignoring. I mean I guess I being a little clingy and this was his heads up. Also, he was talking about how he was getting SUPER CLOSE with his EX. That's what pulled the trigger, I guess.

zafeyry • 8 May 2012 at 4:59 PM

@seaangel
Don't be jealous. My ex gf is now my best friend and my current gf is her other best friend. It's not even awkward xD If you really like him, get him back 😃

seaangel • 8 May 2012 at 5:02 PM

@zafeyry

Yeah, I have no problem with that, but...he talked about he so much. How she looked, how nice she was, how he should get back together if we ended. Why would that even come up in a discussion about a double date??

plushie • 8 May 2012 at 5:02 PM

@Seaangel If you love him try to get him back, if you don't set him free.

zafeyry • 8 May 2012 at 5:06 PM

@seaangel
Stay broken up. He was talking about getting together with her after you guys broke up during the relationship. That sucks...

seaangel • 8 May 2012 at 5:06 PM

@plushie

That's the problem... I didn't think I loved him. Now, I'm not sure. I'm fighting with myself and it's ending up in a big flood of tears.

plushie • 8 May 2012 at 5:08 PM

@SaAngle get back together and have a long talk and see if you would like to be with him or not. Tell him why you feel to brake up with him. (;

seaangel • 8 May 2012 at 5:11 PM

@zafeyry

I know...

@plushie

I'll try.

lola622f • 8 May 2012 at 5:25 PM

@seaangel

In my personal opinion, be happy that you broke up with him. He was getting annoying and he wasn't the boy that you wanted, right? Because of him talking about his ex-girlfriend.

Tell him that it was annoying, how he said that his ex was so pretty and everything.

It`s jealousy, isn`t it?

Deleted • 8 May 2012 at 5:28 PM

@seaangel ^^;;; my sister has gone through this like er... 6 times? .___.

She didn't want to leave her BF but because he had liked another person, she let him go. she was crying but soon, she got over it and found another person. *pokes the guy she's dating now* my parents won't allow it though :[

anyways... what happened? why did you break up? o.o

seaangel • 8 May 2012 at 5:36 PM

@belilalas_25

I can't really explain it. Although, now that I've broken up with him I want him back so bad. I...think I more then liked him. Ya know?

@lola622f

I think he was trying to make me jealous, because a couple days before he started I started to talk about a guy from my church that I was becoming really good friends with...CRUD! IT ALL MAKES SENSE NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Deleted • 8 May 2012 at 5:41 PM

@Zafeyry ROFL. Same here. x] My ex is my (second) best guy friend. And my current bf's best friend. x3

@seaangel you figure it out, already?
Not as clueless as I was.. xD
Good luck. Cx

seaangel • 8 May 2012 at 5:42 PM

@dawnfur Thanks. I just need to figure out what to say.

Deleted • 8 May 2012 at 5:49 PM

@seaangel O_o ooh... so you were talking about another guy in front of him... ^^;; well... GOOD LUCK o.o;; he's probably so jealous he brought up his ex. .___.

seaangel • 8 May 2012 at 5:53 PM

@belilalas_25

Yeah, stupid move on my part. Right?

Deleted • 8 May 2012 at 6:01 PM

@seaangel ^^;; i really don't want to offend you but... Yes. .__.

shelby • 8 May 2012 at 6:04 PM

@seaangel

My opinion:
You did the right thing about breaking up with him.
If he was talking about going back to her if you broke up, he isn't worth it.
That shows that he didn't have much faith in your relationship.
You never talk about "going back to your ex" if you are serious about the relationship.
It doesn't matter if you were talking about becoming friends with another guy.
He should have never said that he would go back to her.

If he was shallow enough to try and make you jealous just because he was jealous, he isn't good enough.
A man should be happy you're making new friends. Not get jealous and then try to pin bad feelings on you.

That's just my opinion.