Eh...Need some advice from some girls.

Deleted • 16 June 2012 at 8:00 PM

I'm in middle school and well...I like this guy but he doesn't like me back. He does not even notice me actually. I really like him so I was wondering...Any advice on how to get him to like me back? :-/

I feel weird posting this here.

Deleted • 16 June 2012 at 8:02 PM

@Storage

Have you actually like, asked him if he likes you?
Because if you're just assuming, you never really know. 😊 Not until you try.

chibidarkness • 16 June 2012 at 8:05 PM

@storge

Be honest and tell him, or else he'll never notice you. 😊

Deleted • 16 June 2012 at 8:07 PM

@dawnfur
@chibidarkness

Its easier said than done to just go up to him and say "Hey, I'm in love with you" Or something like that.

chibidarkness • 16 June 2012 at 8:08 PM

@storge

I know, but that's the only way. Get to know him well after that. :>

Courage~

trish • 16 June 2012 at 8:08 PM

@storge Your paths may cross one day and you'll be friends. True, some things are easier said then done.

Deleted • 16 June 2012 at 8:10 PM

@Storage

Well, maybe ask your friend to?
Honestly you really do never know.
I had a crush on the like... hottest guy in my grade.. xD
I didn't ask him out,
but he asked me out.
And we're still dating.
Honestly, I dunno why he ever liked me.
But like I said, YOU NEVER KNOW. 😉

Deleted • 16 June 2012 at 8:11 PM

@chibidarkness
Well what if he doesn't like me and things get awkward and he never talks to me again!

chibidarkness • 16 June 2012 at 9:02 PM

@storge

That's the thing! People who has their relationships failed are because of them being afraid of rejection. NEVER be afraid he says no, and if he does, don't cry or hate him; in other words, don't "force" him to love you, or it will get worse! You can do it, don't be afraid. 😊

zafeyry • 16 June 2012 at 9:08 PM

@storge
I'm kind of confused why you're asking girls for advice about the stuff that goes on inside guys' brains. Why not ask the guys?

I'm a male specimen so I shall help you. Just text him (if you have a phone) and start a conversation and ease yourself into telling him you like him. Or, at school, pull him over in the hallway to tell him. This should probably be done towards the end of the day 😊 The worst he can say is no 😊

Deleted • 16 June 2012 at 9:11 PM

@Zafeyry

Lol, that's kinda true. xD

chibidarkness • 16 June 2012 at 9:18 PM

@zafeyry

Male specimen haha. XD
You know, maybe she just feels more comfortable with girls. :U

zafeyry • 16 June 2012 at 9:19 PM

@chibidarkness
That's true, but I'm not that scary 😋

chibidarkness • 16 June 2012 at 9:20 PM

@zafeyry

Didn't say you were. 😉
It's a little girl talk though. o3o

Deleted • 16 June 2012 at 9:21 PM

@chibidarkness
Eh...I am not going to cry or hate him, just be sadish. I just dont want to make him hate me! X(

@zafeyry
You have a point...but not many guys play this game. And I have a phone and so does he but I don't know how to get/ask for his phone number. And he doesn't have a facebook so I cant message him there.

chibidarkness • 16 June 2012 at 9:24 PM

@storge

He's not going to hate you. Where did you get THAT idea? :I
If he rejects you, he doesn't necessarily hates you. Again, GIVE HIM TIME and don't force him.

Deleted • 16 June 2012 at 9:27 PM

@chibidarkness
Hmm... Okay. But I am bad at talking to guys, thats why I dont want to ask him...What if I look stupid or something?

lindseyroth • 16 June 2012 at 9:29 PM

@storge
Don't be afraid of making him hate you! I was the same way, and I regret not being more open with people! If telling him you like him scares you, just talk to him and get to know him at first! Go up and say hi. If you have classes together, then you could maybe sit beside him! Or if you have mutual friends, ask them to introduce you. 😊

I had the biggest problem talking to guys and I always worried that they would think I was weird for randomly talking to them. That's not the case though, so just don't worry about it!

shadowgirl • 16 June 2012 at 9:31 PM

@storage you can start off by just talking to him. Don't tell him you like him right away. You can start hanging out with him if he lets you. And some day, he might like you back.

I hang out with guys mostly in middle school (currently just for friendship) and if you can get his attention he could be one of your good friends (possibly a bit more than just friends).

When getting his attention, just be yourself. I hope this helps you at least a little bit. 😊

Deleted • 16 June 2012 at 9:33 PM

@lindseyroth
We have 0 classes together, sadly. So I only see him in the hall ways and once a week at church. It kinda sux, it makes it hard to get to know him.

sarahzafirah • 16 June 2012 at 9:34 PM

@storge You just need to let him know you first. Then you can ease your way into friendship, and then it'll be a little easier.

chibidarkness • 16 June 2012 at 9:34 PM

@storge

You would look even more stupid if you were not shy and not yourself. It's completely normal to be shy and nervous asking a guy out, but that's what many (trust me I know) guys like in a girl, their courage and honesty. Just casually tell him how you feel. 😃

Deleted • 16 June 2012 at 9:34 PM

@sarahzafirah
True...

lindseyroth • 16 June 2012 at 9:37 PM

@storge
Ooh, I see! That makes it a little difficult, but not impossible! But since you see him at church, you could always approach him there! Get to know him a little better and ask for his number! 😊

Deleted • 16 June 2012 at 9:40 PM

@lindseyroth
Maybee...Ill try.

lindseyroth • 16 June 2012 at 9:45 PM

@storge
😊
My friends gave me the same advice when I was too terrified to talk to a guy I liked!

zafeyry • 16 June 2012 at 9:52 PM

@storge
Make it look casual 😋 Take your phone out in the hallway at the end of the day and ask him to put his number in. Or do the same thing at church 😊

mandyluvsmilo • 17 June 2012 at 12:33 AM

@storage Just say Hello to him when you see him, he'll end up saying hello to you too when he sees you , and you guys can go from there. :-D keep it simple

eggtrainer • 17 June 2012 at 12:57 AM

@storge: Have you talked to him before?
I'd suggest just talking to him at first and becoming friends. To be honest, I think it would be odd if someone just randomly came up to me and said "I like you" to me 😋

novrain62 • 17 June 2012 at 1:51 AM

You could leave him anonymous notes on his locker.
You could ask one of his friends about him.
You could watch 16 Candles (movie) and see what
she did hahaha
You could join in some activities that he participates in so that you'd get to know each other naturally.