For the loners

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Deleted • 17 July 2011 at 1:53 PM

It has always bothered me that the funnest games to play online rely on you knowing 100 to a 1000 people to play it well or complete something in the game. Why can't there be something for the loners to do? I am not the best at making friends or keeping friends. And I don't want friends(no offense to anyone here). I am not good with people and I am socially inept. And I don't like having a bunch of strangers on my list as friends either. I hate this game of pointless socialism lol.

Deleted • 17 July 2011 at 1:54 PM

I dont get this>.<

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redstar-fireclan • 17 July 2011 at 1:57 PM

@chloekins
I don't eather.

Deleted • 17 July 2011 at 1:58 PM

There are a lot of things wrong with this topic.

its in the wrong catigory, it is pointless, and i dont understand a word.

Deleted • 17 July 2011 at 2:02 PM

I don't see what is so hard to understand about this. And if it's in the wrong place than I am sure it will be moved to the right place. Big deal.

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whitefall • 17 July 2011 at 3:39 PM

Well, loners like to lurk. xD

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solaris • 17 July 2011 at 5:23 PM

But, Egg Cave doesn't require you to have friends. You can still have plenty of fun by yourself! 😃

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cirrus • 17 July 2011 at 5:43 PM

So ur saying you don't like egg cave cuz u don't wanna b friends with a bunch of strangers. TOO BAD DON'T PLAY IF YOU DON'T LIKE IT!!!

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redfire77 • 17 July 2011 at 5:45 PM

loners ftw XD @siri i get you. just open up. i used to have almost NO friends and now look at my friends list 😋 just have fun

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carnatate • 17 July 2011 at 5:46 PM

MY BRAIN HURTS DX

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nvr4evr1 • 17 July 2011 at 5:46 PM

Wow people no need to get mad. @siri is saying that it's hard if you cannot make friends easily and Egg Cave is primarily based on having friends that will help you out and to trade.

It's not hard to understand and makes plenty of sense. It is not pointless at all.

@siri

Are you looking for more ways to get the creatures you want or make EC without having friends? Do you want to suggest something?

Deleted • 17 July 2011 at 6:13 PM

Thank you @nvr4evr1 for not overreacting. It's not like I have anything against people here or against making friends. I just wish I didn't have to rely on others to play.

And no, I am not looking for a new way to acquire eggs. But more like a different way to raise eggs independently.

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nvr4evr1 • 17 July 2011 at 6:14 PM

@siri

Well I do understand what the conflict is. You can use click exchange sites to help raise your eggs.

Deleted • 17 July 2011 at 6:17 PM

@solaris too hard on your own here
@skittlejg No that is not what I am saying at all. If I did, I didn't mean too.
@redfire77 lol I have been

@nvr4evr1 I don't know any.

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nvr4evr1 • 17 July 2011 at 6:20 PM

@siri

There's Yarold's or Hydra. Here are links -

Yarold's: http://swle.yarold.eu/login.php

Hydra: http://www.idarionis.com:9500/index.php?ak=Lin (I think this is it for Hydra 😋)

Deleted • 17 July 2011 at 6:24 PM

@nvr4evr1 Thanks. I will try them.

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nvr4evr1 • 17 July 2011 at 6:25 PM

@siri

No problem. 😊 They should help you evolve your pets. I use Yarold's. 😊

Deleted • 17 July 2011 at 6:30 PM

@nvr4evr1 Ok

Edit:
One more thing; to these people

@chloekins
@redstar-fireclan
@chloekins
@carnatate

Sorry for upsetting you all

Deleted • 17 July 2011 at 8:35 PM

@siri
I understand, completely. Most of the tine (omg I want one soooooooooo badly!) I throw myself into a society and get along with everyone. You could say I'm socially awesome. However, It wasn't always that way. In my old school, I used to be the girl who wandered around making flower charms. However, I made more friends next year,because the horrible rumors subsided. If you don't want friends, then just don't. If you want feeds, be active on the forums. Most of the tine, I get fed by people I don't even know. It's very easy, and you're almost absentmindedly fed.

Deleted • 17 July 2011 at 9:01 PM

@pendmxc Yes, I know. But I don't like forums. People are nuts on these things lol. And since I have a temper issue, I prefer not setting myself up for disaster. Like I said, I have no social skills. This is my problem.

Deleted • 17 July 2011 at 9:03 PM

@siri
Lol I have temperament problems (I would feel sad. All of a sudden and reclusive for almost no reason) Just post in the forum games. It's fun and plenty of people post there. You can't stuff up there.

Deleted • 17 July 2011 at 9:19 PM

@pendmxc I have seen them. But I am too shy to join in for most of them.

Deleted • 17 July 2011 at 9:24 PM

@siri
I was too, but they'll all warm up to you. I made many friends and got many feeds there! 😊 You post on one, any one, and that'll be fine.

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mellyottl • 17 July 2011 at 9:49 PM

[heh heh. socialism 😸]

Deleted • 17 July 2011 at 9:58 PM

Guys @ top - That was uncalled for and and a little rude. You can't judge something as pointless, because it's not to everyone.


@siri

It's fine if you don't like to be social - Online I'm one of the move social people I know. in r.l, If I'm thrown into a room without someone I know with about 5 other people I get panic attacks.

Up until the beginning of this year - I was so terrified of social gatherings, it was becoming a hassle. I'd make someone walk with me to a buffet to get food because I thought people would laugh at me, I thought everyone was talking back about me. If a boy looked at me and smiled with his friends, I'd think he was teasing me to them.

[Though, once in the mall boys oinked at me asking for candy when I was with my really, really pretty friend >-<]


Though, you should try to branch out a little, even if it's not a lot. As you are doing now [You said you don't like to post in forums, and yet you are, so you're branching out] That will help your social phobias [If that's what you have, Iunno.]

Since I have started to push myself out of my boundaries I've been doing things that may be small to others, but big to me - I can walk to the buffet on me own. I'm still nervous when I do it, and feel scared, but I can do it. So can you [:

Deleted • 18 July 2011 at 10:44 AM

@pendmxc Let me rephrase that; I am too afraid of people to join in. But point made. Anyways, I still prefer to avoid.

@victoria_egg_storage

I am glad you can relate.

And yes, I posted here in the forums and the first thing that happened was bad lol. So, this immediately makes me less likely to continue to post in the forums outside my own threads. No promises on that.

And yes, I do have a sort of social phobia. It's not sever, but it's there and bad enough to cause problems.

And I would like to think I can push these barriers down but after 12 years and even ending up in the mental hospital for it, I don't think I can.

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cirrus • 18 July 2011 at 10:51 AM

Sorry I wasn't trying to get mad but all I'm saying is that it's fun to get to know people. I think you'll like it and it's fun, why don't you try to know people. I know a lot of people, I know everyone on this forum but mellyottl

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rawrcookies08 • 18 July 2011 at 11:00 AM

This isn't pointless socialism. It's fun.

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petpet55 • 18 July 2011 at 11:10 AM

@siri

I feel for you.. I have very few RL friends and I have big trusting/getting-along-with-people-I-don't-quite-know issues. I also thought about quitting this thing until I found few people who talked to me and stuff.. It's easy getting into this community after you make a few acquaintances 😊 I mostly stick to people with common interests and keep the distance from people who I don't agree with and stuff.

I also use both yarold's and Hydra, they are pretty useful 😊

Deleted • 18 July 2011 at 11:25 AM

@rawrcookies08 a matter of opinion that I don't entirely share with you. sorry.

@skittlejg I am sorry, but I don't want to get to know so many people when I don't have to. I am not cut out for that.


@petpet55 Well, I haven't met anybody yet that I am completely on the level with. As for Hydra, the link given to me previously didn't work. Do you have one that will? As for yarold, I am still trying to figure the place out.

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