I need help.

Deleted • 18 September 2012 at 2:06 PM

Im nine and I have a crush named Kayden in the other class. When I see him I keep on wanting to talk to him but I don't have the wits. This might be the last school we'll go to together. I need help over here!!!

ems • 18 September 2012 at 10:08 PM

@izzfred Kay. *rushes in, looking professional*

Have you ever talked to him before? If you haven't, when you see him, wave and say "Hi", every now and then, maybe he'll talk back sometime. Try and be friends first, but be cool and collected. Don't look nervous, it'll put him off.

Hope this helps. 😸

Deleted • 19 September 2012 at 10:49 AM

@ems I have a problem though. Hius best friend KIND OF knows I like him and they hang out in the mornings. If he saw me wave at Kayden or try to talk to him he'd tell every single boy in my class and the other class.

ems • 19 September 2012 at 11:13 AM

@izzfred Hmmm... that poses a problem.... :/
Maybe @wispers can help? I dunno... Do you care if everyone knows?

Deleted • 19 September 2012 at 11:17 AM

@ems you mean @whispers ? you pinged wrong XD

ems • 19 September 2012 at 11:18 AM

@julie Yuss. XD I know. I didn't realize it untill it was too late.

Deleted • 19 September 2012 at 11:24 AM

@ems my sickness is killing me and I hope I can make it to school for pictures tomorow.

@whispers help please!!!!! read the first post!!

whispers • 19 September 2012 at 4:46 PM

@izzfred
Ah, I experienced the same problem until a few days ago. (Well, not that my crush won't go to high school with me next year, but that I was gutless to talk to him)

But, what I did. Simply wave when you pass by him, and say hi. Just let him know that you aren't invisible. If you want some assurance, do it when you have a good friend around (That's how I felt comfortable doing it). Then once you feel a bit more comfortable around him, do small chit-chat. Like ask him questions about school, for a start. 😊

Then start talking to him about things besides school - hobbies, sports, the simple "What are you doing this weekend?". 😊

And if you want to keep in touch with him, and you don't go to the same school next year - get his e-mail. You can chit-chat with him after school.

I hope this helps! ;D

luv • 19 September 2012 at 5:25 PM

@Izzfred
Look at him in class, a lot. When you get his attention and he looks into your eyes, smile, than look away.
Once you have done that a dozen or so more times over the course of a few days, you'll find out that he's trying to meet your eyes, the same way you were doing with his, start talking to him, and try to be his friend. It WILL work out in the end.

Another thing:
You're 9! 😊 Take it slow if you have too, even if you have to make it work between schools.

Deleted • 19 September 2012 at 6:15 PM

@luv we're in different classes. @whispers it would just seem wrong since i'm only nine.

whispers • 19 September 2012 at 6:17 PM

@izzfred
I'm sorry, but that is the best advice I can give you >.< I never had these problems when I was your age, so I don't really know ☹️

Deleted • 19 September 2012 at 6:18 PM

@whispers i'll use it definitly when i'm in high school

jennifer • 19 September 2012 at 7:12 PM

@izzfred I'm 10 and I still has problems with my crush from last year.

iceyfira • 19 September 2012 at 7:17 PM

@izzfred

Your 9! XD Help me, I think people should start talking about dating at 13, and Im 12. My friends started talking about dating at 8! I really think you should wait awhile, to see if your feelings are really and truly true. ~Best help advice. EVER.~

himaja • 19 September 2012 at 7:17 PM

Just go up to him and friendly talk to him and it sort of good if the friend tells the whole class or your crush. Wai, do you you have long hair or short and is he shorter thany you, gimme details
@izzfred

lola622f • 19 September 2012 at 7:21 PM

@izzfred

My advice probably won't help....

1. Be different. If your class hangs out in groups (eg. All girls, all boys) hang out in his group.

2. Do something crazy, like wear your sweater backways and yell, "HAPPY BACKWARDS SWEATER DAY!" and run around in circles or around boys.

XD That's what I do

pebblestar-nightclan • 19 September 2012 at 7:27 PM

I agree with @iceyfira. You're a little too young to be thinking about this. 😊 Maybe you really do have feelings for him, I don't know. You should wait until your older to really be able to tell.

Besides that, dating at your young age could ruin your reputation, and could also affect your later life. You don't want to get caught up in this now, trust me. (; @izzfred

ems • 19 September 2012 at 7:28 PM

@izzfred >.< I sort of agree with @iceyfira, except I think a good age is 16. Call me a freak, but that's just my opinion. It's your life, so do whatevs. XD

^Eh. XD I'm an akward kitty.

Deleted • 19 September 2012 at 7:35 PM

@ems @pebble-starnightclan I agree because I think he might go to G.S lakiee like I am for middle school because all of the boys think it's awesome.

ems • 19 September 2012 at 7:37 PM

@izzfred Hermmmmm.... 😸 Coolio. Just take your time. 😉