Crying right now, need some advice.

daffyduck3500 • 21 September 2012 at 5:15 PM

Okay, so if your younger than 12, don't post please.

Today I broke up with my boyfriend, because he was cheating on me! I was with him for 2 years, and I just don't know what to do now!!! Please give some advice...

spirithawk • 21 September 2012 at 5:21 PM

@luv
@karamel

@daffyduck3500 Sorry, I'm younger than 12. >_o

nkiay • 21 September 2012 at 5:25 PM

@daffyduck3500

Aw honey I'm sorry! It wasn't with one of your friends was it?

chowchow2012 • 21 September 2012 at 5:27 PM

@daffyduck3500
.... I'm not sure, what to do but... slap him on the face if it makes you feel better
being aggressive helps me... sometimes (not kidding)

Deleted • 21 September 2012 at 5:32 PM

@daffyduck3500
Eat. Ice cream, whatever. Always helps me(:
And listen to Stronger by Kelly Clarkson.

iceyfira • 21 September 2012 at 5:34 PM

@daffyduck3500

Listen. Just relax, and do things that you like, like drawing, listening to music, reading, anything that calms you down. Just forget about him, you will find someone much better later in your life. 😸

daffyduck3500 • 21 September 2012 at 5:34 PM

@nkiay , i wish i could say it wasn't. my bff actually

@iceyfira , okay, i'll try that

@cstarswirl , sounds like that might work for a little while

@chowchow2012 , i really want to smack both of them

iceyfira • 21 September 2012 at 5:44 PM

@daffyduck3500

OR get kickbooxing lessons and beat their arses. ~Not helping~

daffyduck3500 • 21 September 2012 at 5:45 PM

@iceyfira , idk, that's VERY helpful.....hehe *runs to ex-boyfriend's house*

fakeworld • 21 September 2012 at 5:46 PM

@daffyduck3500 Have you guys tried to talk about the issue? 2 years is a long time, so it must have been a healthy relationship. I wouldn't suggest going back with him if there was ever a chance to, because he might repeat what he did in the previous. It'll take awhile for it to get off your daily mind, so just take your time, make sure you guide yourself in a correct path and put a lot of positivity into your thoughts. Think twice before doing something crazy, because at the end you'll face a consequence.

iceyfira • 21 September 2012 at 5:47 PM

@daffyduck3500

~Laughs~ Take a pic of his face for me~

daffyduck3500 • 21 September 2012 at 5:48 PM

@fakeworld , i'm scared to talk to him right now. I mean, c'mon, he was cheating on me with my now ex-BFF. I don't know how long this has been going on, and what was actually real about our relationship.

@iceyfira , will do.

blueclaw • 21 September 2012 at 5:51 PM

I'm younger than 12, but here's what I'd do. EAT ALL THE REESEES IN MY HOUSE AND FORGET ABOUT EVERYTHING. But that's just me. Either that, or buy a cat. If you have one already, pet it. ALOT.

Deleted • 21 September 2012 at 5:52 PM

@daffyduck3500

Best thing to do now is to keep busy and not think about it anymore life goes on. You can't dwell on the sadness becuz if you're not together it just means that you weren't meant to be. It was like that for me with my high school boyfriend it only lasted while I was in high school after that it was over. And I realized that if you want something meaningful you can alwayz wait for the right person to come along. And that relationships are just that if it doesn't work out you'll have a few more, until you can find the right one for you. There's no use crying too much becuz he's prob not doing the same over you especially if he's the one who cheated. And any guy who cheats on you is so not worth it. You'll learn that as you get older.

fakeworld • 21 September 2012 at 5:53 PM

@daffyduck3500 I understand. But, being afraid to make positive statements does not resolves a issue. Personally, I would be kind of afraid, well let's say out of zone to talk to him too. But that's one of the best solutions, working out the problem with words instead of action does the job for the most part. If you seriously don't want to be bothered with him no more, move on.

daffyduck3500 • 21 September 2012 at 5:54 PM

@ladyrhea , i still just don't understand why he did it! He told me he loved me....

@fakeworld , why would he do this??

fakeworld • 21 September 2012 at 5:59 PM

@daffyduck3500 There is a lot of reasons to cheat on someone, and by me not being sure; I can't give you a accurate reason on why. That's why I said "talking to him, would be best.".

Deleted • 21 September 2012 at 5:59 PM

@daffyduck3500

I don't know why anyone would do such a thing if they really cared about you, they'd not even look at another person let alone do anything with your best friend either. I think that's the worst case as she's your ex best friend. Oh I can say I did have that rival a bit with my friend we liked the same guy and I didn't know she liked him and then she got mad and said I liked him too, but it was too late he was already going out with me. Later, we stayed friends, but I wasn't as close to her anymore becuz I don't like to think that any person should come in between good friends no matter who they are, I never picked him over her when I didn't even know that she liked him in the first place. But she moved away and we've lost touch.

daffyduck3500 • 21 September 2012 at 6:03 PM

@ladyrhea , @fakeworld , *crying* this sucks

Deleted • 21 September 2012 at 6:08 PM

@daffyduck3500

You'll feel better soon if you don't think about it, hands the tissue. You're gonna be ok I promise😊 And then someone special should come into your life that will keep you smiling alwayz. That's the way love goes!

daffyduck3500 • 21 September 2012 at 6:09 PM

@ladyrhea , thanks *hugglez* *kicks Dylan in the butt* "I don't need you Dylan!"

Deleted • 21 September 2012 at 6:18 PM

@ daffyduck3500

Sure I know you're starting to feel better already. Memories are just that memories and when you're unattached to those memories becuz you're letting it go you won't even think about it anymore.

rosaline_kaye • 21 September 2012 at 6:20 PM

@daffyduck3500

Im under 12. ._.

But I will break the rules, and give you advice.

Forget it. Eat cake, go places. You don't need a 'boyfriend' to live happy.

I feel like I'm not helping. I'll stop now.

nkiay • 21 September 2012 at 6:26 PM

@daffyduck3500

That really sucks! I'm sorry. I was say just try to move on(if that's what you want to do), I feel like everyone here is pushing to ditch the bff and bf. I mean what they did was wrong but maybe it was a mistake for them and they regret it. We all do stupid things you don't have to cut them out of your life completely. You might be able to forgive them. I don't know its up to you.

All I know it in my group of friends in high school (I'm assuming your in middle-high school) we all had a lot of bf in common, often without 'permission'. Granted none of us cheated with someone's bf, but there was a lot of questions about if it did happen. I dunno we are all still friends and I'm in college now. It all depends on if you can forgive them. You have to decide if you care about them enough to forgive them, and if they are worth keeping in your life with the possibility that they might do it again at some point.

daffyduck3500 • 21 September 2012 at 7:15 PM

@nkiay , i sent him an email, and he wants to start over. what should i do?

iceyfira • 21 September 2012 at 7:35 PM

@daffyduck3500

I dont know about that. If he cheated on you, its strange that he would want to start over since he cheated on you. :/ Its your call, though.

daffyduck3500 • 21 September 2012 at 7:37 PM

@iceyfira , i think i'll give him another chance. i've had ALOT of boyfriends, and i've never felt this way about any of them before.

nroosangel • 21 September 2012 at 7:38 PM

@daffyduck3500

Did u say something that could have hurt him?

daffyduck3500 • 21 September 2012 at 7:39 PM

@nroosangel , WHAT??? No!

iceyfira • 21 September 2012 at 7:40 PM

@daffyduck3500

Like I said, its your call. But I will just say tha if he does something like that again, hes not worth it.