What is with some people.....>.<

panda-chan • 14 October 2012 at 12:34 AM

Me just ranting on what people have told me. Feel free to comment or rant too.

Ok so I was visited by my parents friend that is an adopted grandmother to me. She asks if I'm dating or have a boyfriend yet. I say no and that I need to focus on homework and grades so I can get into college as this is my senior year. She then proceeds to tell me I need a boyfriend to go to dances with and go out to places with. My mom then tells her I scare all the boys away by acting weird.

Ok....first what the Fickle man. I do not need to date every minute of my life, plus I can go to dances with a group of friends. Second I'm myself and dont act weird just to scare off guys. If they dont like my personality then that's their problem. End of story. Period. //End rant//

iceyfira • 14 October 2012 at 12:56 AM

@panda-chan .-. I feel ya.

A recent convo with a friend of mine (a girl)


Me: ~Talking about videogames~
"Friend": Why dont you have a boyfriend?
Me: Whu? .-.
Her: Well, so many of yoir friends are guys, so I figured...
Me: Dummy. =.= I dont cause it would be weird.
Her: Then can you hook me up with ~Name of a guy~
Me: No, hes a really close friend.
Her: So do you like him?
Me: GAHH!!!
~~~
So thats actually a convo I have a LOT.

My mom acts kinda the same way, asking if a guy friend of mine is my boy friend. =.=

92firebirdgirl • 14 October 2012 at 1:22 AM

@panda-chan you are very mature and i admire you for putting yourself and your school ahead of a boyfriend . Its weird because i always here parents preach to their kids that thats what they should be doing. not the other way around.

balletninja • 14 October 2012 at 1:33 AM

@panda-chan I agree, I don't really have time over school.

I would probably be too relaxed of a girlfriend. I probably wouldn't spend enough time with him. It would be more like a close friendship than love.

Besides, none of the guys in my grade currently interest me. Or any grade really.

panda-chan • 14 October 2012 at 9:58 AM

@iceyfira
Yea my dad always makes corny jokes and my mom kinda pushes it sometimes. I had a fried to ask me that. I introduced her to my guy friend but did not do anything else. To me they have to decide themselves if they want to go out.

@92firebirdgirl
Oh I'm sure if I dated a different boy every week like my friend does I would be hearing the other side of the conversation. If a girl doesn't date a lot it's weird and people push her to date, but if she dates to much then it gets her the parent talk. But I would tell my children the same thing about dating a lot.

Plus I need good grades to get scholorships b/c my dad already said he was not paying for college and I am not staying at home all my life.

@balletninja
Same here. I would not spend enough time with him and would need my own space. I'm not interested at anyone in my school either.

meta_knight_lover • 24 October 2012 at 2:40 AM

@panda-chan

Good for you!! Just trust me on this, girl, you don't need a boyfriend to have fun. I'm glad to see you're getting yourself well-prepared for life before all that can happen. So in time maybe you'll get one, but right now you don't have to worry. As long as you're happy with yourself, you'll do just fine. X3

panda-chan • 24 October 2012 at 7:20 PM

@meta_knight_lover
YES!!!!!! *hugs* You are the first person to give me a very good answer besides "You just dont need a boyfriend".

jennifer • 24 October 2012 at 11:38 PM

@panda-chan @iceyfira I'm good at love problems (even though I'm only 10 XD). When I was at my old school, I had the same problem:
M: Hey guys.
F: *looks up* Hi... (talking in a weird tone)
M: Wassup? (XD)
F: You know...
M: Yeah?... (is there anything in that tiny brain? =.=)
F: We all know that you have a crush on ~insert name here~
M: Gah! (of course, I said that in my mind)
F: ...
M: What? No!
F: *looking at me*
M: I do not like insert name here!
F: Everyone in the school know that you like him. -_-
M: I do not! *looks at friends for support*
OF: It's obvious, Jennifer. -_-
M: What?! (How dare you betray me!!!) *hates her*
XD

meta_knight_lover • 25 October 2012 at 3:43 AM

@panda-chan

LOL Well the way I figure it, you gotta give support to what you say. XP I find it's a bit more fun knowing the cute guy from a distance. Then you can make imaginary relationships in your mind, which would probably be better than the real person would anyway. XD Though that's really just to hold you over until you get to know the guy. Us girls' hearts go nuts when we see someone we like so we gotta control it somehow. LOL

mastergemma • 25 October 2012 at 4:04 AM

I decided a long time ago that love is something I can go without
The only problem now is that it's not up to me to decide, hearing that my friend has a major crush on me freak me out so badly.
I bet the only reason I found out was because everyone thought that I was looking for one because my twin had a boyfriend.

@panda-chan