Does anyone have as much bad luck as me? -_-

harrypotter123698 • 13 February 2013 at 5:09 PM

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cupcakery13 • 13 February 2013 at 5:14 PM

I'm not having a great day either, but this quote always cheers me up....

"Be strong now because things will get better. It may be stormy now, but it can't rain forever.

@harrypotter123698

Deleted • 13 February 2013 at 5:14 PM

@harrypotter123698 Oh... bad luck. O_O
I used to like this guy in my class.....
But then, somebody already asked him out, so I just moved on... but since you really liked her.... I'm not sure of what to do...

rojoqueen • 13 February 2013 at 5:15 PM

@harrypotter123698

*pats shoulder* aww its okay its not bad luck, Some people are just like that sadly, (this has no relatation XD) A guy ditched me once, I went to his house the next day, when he wasn't there his mother let me in and I tore up his room. He called me later and he was shocked that I wrote my name and that I had been there on his ceiling. XD. Did she friend zone you??

harrypotter123698 • 13 February 2013 at 5:18 PM

@rojoqueen

What does that mean? 0.0 lol

@skylight

Yeah good thing I didn't ask her out. Then I would've been embarrassed 0_0

@cupcakery13

Yeah.

I guess I'll have to move on. Unless something happens.

cupcakery13 • 13 February 2013 at 5:20 PM

@harrypotter123698 most middle school/high school relationships don't last, you probably still have a chance 😊

harrypotter123698 • 13 February 2013 at 5:22 PM

@cupcakery13

True. I'm in middle school.

The kid that she's dating never stays in a relationship. His longest was 2 weeks I think.

But hopefully.

rojoqueen • 13 February 2013 at 5:22 PM

@harrypotter123698

XD It means some people are like always taken XD, I don't even know how I was able to write on his ceiling , but I was thinking when you look up at night your gonna see my name and be sorry XD. You should have asked her out XD, don't be shy girls don't like shy guys..when you see that she is single jump at it! XD

Deleted • 13 February 2013 at 5:23 PM

@harrypotter123698 Gack. Yeah, good thing you figured it out. ^ ^ I just broke up with my boyfriend... T.T He was So annoying!!

cupcakery13 • 13 February 2013 at 5:24 PM

@harrypotter123698

Stay friends with her. girls need a good guy friend. Trust me, I know.

fuzzykins412 • 13 February 2013 at 5:25 PM

@harrypotter123698

Aw, that's some tough luck. But don't worry, like the others said, middle school relationships don't last very long.


And friend zoning someone means that they consider you a good friend, rather than someone like a boyfriend. No love relationship in a friend zone.

harrypotter123698 • 13 February 2013 at 5:25 PM

@rojoqueen

XD thanks for the amusing advice xD

@skylight

Yeah. One of my friends told me. Cause she is best friends with her.

rojoqueen • 13 February 2013 at 5:27 PM

@harrypotter123698
Your welcome 😃 just remember when she is single jump at it don't waste anytime.

borgore • 13 February 2013 at 5:33 PM

@harrypotter123698

Aw, that sucks, I'm sorry to hear that. ☹️

But y'know, good things come to those who wait. 😃

The same thing happened to my friend, he liked this guy and it turns out he was taken all along. :/

stella-rosie • 13 February 2013 at 5:44 PM

@harrypotter123698

Welcome to my world...

There is this boy, Andrew, I am interested very much in him and would like to take him out and get to know him better. He barely knows me, im sure if he gave me a chance he would actually like me, what girl would play call of duty with him, plays football and does everything a guy does for fun. I make sure everybody is having fun and isn't the typical girly girlfriend. Well I try to talk to them, but the 3 girls that like him too, act like their in elementary school and embarrass the living heck out of me because they some how found out I liked him... So now he thinks Im some goth freak who drools over men.

dreamer • 13 February 2013 at 5:50 PM

@Harrypotter123698 Aww, man! DX I've never asked anyone out, and I'm not a guy, so I might not understand 100%... But I know enough to say that that's so rough.
[It's not necessarily true that girls don't like shy guys, btw. MOST girls don't like it, but I think shy boys are more approachable. I usually see the louder, more confident guys. They're the ones who will laugh and whisper to their friends if you mess up during a class presentation, and they're the ones who think all girls are just objects that they can toss around, and if they break one, then they get another to replace it. But I can see this is turning into a rant, so... I'll stop.]
There's nothing wrong with standing out and being an individual. But if your confidence turns into cockiness, then a guy is classified as what I say up above^^^^^^^^

Personally, I'm blaming the other guy for NOT asking her on Valentine's Day, and asking a few days before. XD No one likes guys who are anxious!

Do you know the guy who asked her out? Is he obnoxious, or smart, or nice... What kind of person is he? And how about the girl? Is she outgoing, or outspoken? Is she popular, or is she the one with a little gang of friends?

C'mon man, it's seventh grade. She'll be single pretty soon, believe me. 😉 Then if you're still up to it, you could sweep her right back.

If you want a better chance with her when she's available: Don't stop talking to her (if you do talk to her) just because she's dating someone. That's an obvious sign that you like her, and surprisingly enough, that scares girls away. Try to act as natural as you can now.

Remember, tomorrow IS Valentine's Day! Just like guys, girls use that day as an opportunity. You may start talking to another girl who's interested in you and start to like her even more. I spend my Valentine's Days alone, but knowing who you are, I know it's not the same way for you. 😊 So just don't sweat it, and everything will turn out fine in the end.

harrypotter123698 • 13 February 2013 at 5:58 PM

@dreamer

I don't really know that other guy as much. Never really talked to him.

About the girl, she's...she has a group of friends. She's kind of popular I guess? But she's not mean or nasty. She's really sweet and stuff.

I guess I'll just wait.

Last year this girl gave me a rose on Valentines Day. She was sweet but not really my type. 😸

But I'll just see what happens. Ill probably move on.

#foreveralone lol

jemmie • 13 February 2013 at 6:02 PM

@harrypotter123698
Oh, too bad. Well, early relationships don't last very long anyway. XD
I remember really liking this guy...but he asked the most popular girl in my grade out. X_X

If you really like them, well, how we'll do you know the girl? Let me rephrase that. How well does she know YOU? Do you guys talk to eachother?

harrypotter123698 • 13 February 2013 at 6:06 PM

@jemmie

We hung out.. I brought her to this little candy boutique and had her pick out some things.


That day we didn't really know each other. We started texting and talking to each other.

Then it kinda stopped in the summer because I lost contact of her.

Then we started talking slowly in English class when we had the time.

dawnfur • 13 February 2013 at 6:06 PM

@harrypotter123698

I have pretty bad luck too. Don't worry, they won't last. ;D
(Holy crap I'm mean... Lol...)

And then........ BAAMMMM!
You make your move.
Bulletproof.
But what would I know.
I've never really asked anyone out.
o_o

jemmie • 13 February 2013 at 6:07 PM

@harrypotter123698
Okay, because I don't really like it when someone random just comes up to me and asks me out. 😉

mastermepp • 13 February 2013 at 6:30 PM

@harrypotter123698
*hugs* I've never been in a relationship but I hope your luck will get better.

Have some leftover birthday cake and listen to some music. 😊
http://fortissimohall.bandcamp.com/album/a-troubled-past

^-^

harrypotter123698 • 14 February 2013 at 3:48 PM

@cupcakery13 @jemmie @dreamer @rojoqueen @fuzzykins412

The guy just broke up with her. On valentines day. She's so sad. I tried texting her to cheer her up.

Ill give it a couple days before..you know.

rojoqueen • 14 February 2013 at 3:58 PM

@harrypotter123698
Keep trying to cheer her up , and don't mention the jerk who did that . Good luck! I mean seriously on valentines day! what a jerk!

borgore • 14 February 2013 at 4:16 PM

@harrypotter123698

Wow. That guy sounds like a complete douche.

jemmie • 14 February 2013 at 4:25 PM

@harrypotter123698
Wow...if you want advice, well, lets put me into the situation.
--
So say my boyfriend just broke up with me. (Oh please xD) Obviously I would be sad. So...here's my advice.

1.) DONT MENTION THE JERKY LOSER! It will remind her of who did it, and she'll be upset.
2.) If you know some of her hobbies, try suggesting one even if its not your *ahem* strong spot. Get her mind off it.
3.) Patience. It takes time to mend a heart. Give the girl some time.
4.) Space. Don't be too clingy. It may sound sweet to always be around her, but trust me. It gets annoying eventually.
5.) Trying to comfort a person isn't easy. I wouldn't just say stuff like, "Are you okay?" Someone broke up with her. She's not okay.
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Sorry if these are dumb, it's just from my experience.

dreamer • 14 February 2013 at 5:52 PM

@Harrypotter123698 Wow. Douchey Mc. Douche got bored with her, huh? XD
I told you it wouldn't last long. Trying to cheer her up when she's sad will make you look great in her eyes. 😊
Keep talking to her if she's upset, and give her time before you ask. Just don't mention the boy. If she looks upset, don't tell her she seems upset. Drives girls crazy. O_O