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chatial • 9 August 2011 at 6:07 PM

So I'm really upset.
I broke up with my boyfriend two nights ago.
He's 17 and I'm 15.
We were really close and I didnt want to do it.
But I'm moving in the next few months and I'm very stressed out.
My dad went to texas without my sister, my mom, and I.
I won't see him in months
And I do not get along with my mother at all.
And my diabetes is our of control today.
Its bad.
I've had headaches on and off for about two weeks.
Well, my ex is like some gangster.
Haha, dont ask. He's not too bad...
But he's been crying he says.
And that makes me feel worse.
And he says all this other stuff and compares me to his ex that cheated on him before.
I just need someone I dont know to tell me everything will be alright.
I'm not looking for sympathy or new eggs, so please dont offer or think I'm making stuff up for attention.

Also, if you feed my five I well feed back later.
I just, dont feel good..
And i'm on my phone.
sorry

Deleted • 9 August 2011 at 6:12 PM

@chatial *Huggles* I'm sorry.

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sotheavey • 9 August 2011 at 6:15 PM

@chatial

aw ☹️ I'm sorry....
break ups are so complicated ;-;

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chatial • 9 August 2011 at 9:39 PM

@bluegirl80
@sotheavey

Thankyou (:

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dewpaw • 9 August 2011 at 10:00 PM

@chatial

I'm not going to pretend to know what that feels like, but my Dad was gone from Monday to Friday every week until I was 10. My best friend is in love with a guy who is in love with me. My best friend from preschool to 7th grade got into drugs, and has been sent to court 3 times in the last 2 years.
But you have to tell yourself it will get better! Look at the positives, and not the negatives! *huggles* Don't feel alone!

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chatial • 9 August 2011 at 11:27 PM

@dewpaw
I went to this Catholic church retreat once...
Even though I'm Agnostic.
We had small groups, and my group leader was a guy that used to do /crazy/ drugs and who now sings in the church choir.
He told me something that I'll always hold on to.
That if everyone put their problems out on a table, you'd be reaching for yours back because nothing is as bad as it seems.
I keep trying to think of that, but it's not working.
Listening to you helped though.
Thanks so much...

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dewpaw • 9 August 2011 at 11:31 PM

@chatial

I'm glad I could help! You just have to look at the bright side! 😃

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lynntrade • 9 August 2011 at 11:45 PM

@chatial

Chin up. I just had a horrible day. After my issue I ate, mom gave me advil, and I took a long nap. I felt a little bit better when I woke up. You could do the same. If you do and it's still bad I suggest crying for a bit...sometimes it helps. ^^

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chatial • 9 August 2011 at 11:50 PM

@lynntrade
I fell asleep for a few hours earlier.
talked to my friend Tim,
who's out of it >.>
So that annoyed me.
And then my ex called.
And then we fought.
But its getting better.

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lynntrade • 9 August 2011 at 11:53 PM

@chatial well thats good that you're feeling a bit better ^^...hopefully you feel better quicker than i do XD

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chatial • 9 August 2011 at 11:56 PM

@lynntrade
I'm sorry /:
I hope you take your advice and chin up(;

Like I said in the above post,
"If everyone put their problems out on a table, you'd be reaching for yours back because nothing is as bad as it seems."

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lynntrade • 9 August 2011 at 11:58 PM

@chatial
thx ^^ ...i know im a hipocrite but im having trouble letting go of mine -_- it was a pretty bad day ☹️...but nevermind that ^^ you keep looking up XD

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dewpaw • 10 August 2011 at 12:02 AM

@chatial

I have a friend named Tim too! I spilled sprite on his pants the other day! xD

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pipkitten • 10 August 2011 at 12:12 AM

@Chatial: I can't say that I know exactly how you're feeling, but it'll all be okay. Years ago, when my parents got divorced, it felt like the end of the world to me, and I was distraught. But now that I look back on it, it's actually made me a stronger person... Everyone has to go through some hardships in their lives, but time heals all wounds. You're going to come out of this a better person than when you went in. ❤️

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chatial • 10 August 2011 at 12:18 AM

@pipkitten
I understand hard divorces.
It destroys the child.
My best friend...
She went completely and utterly emo.
She cut herself and started drinking and stuff.
I tried to help her, but I couldn't and gave up.
I miss her and regret ever abandoning her even though she wouldn't even try to help herself.

And, I agree completely about what you just said.
My Diabetes has transformed me in insane ways and me the person I am today.
I've had it since I was four.
Now I have an insulin pump, and it's like a part of me,
ehehe. (:

Thankyou for your kind words, they mean a lot.
It reminds me of knowledge I already know.
I needed that.

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pipkitten • 10 August 2011 at 12:21 AM

@Chatial: You're welcome~ 😊 I'm glad I could help.

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lynntrade • 10 August 2011 at 12:25 AM

rawr ...just a bit of randomness XD

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chatial • 10 August 2011 at 12:27 AM

@lynntrade
(x Sorry.
My friend Tim is a dork.

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lynntrade • 10 August 2011 at 12:28 AM

@chatial XD i was just being random...a bit bored and upset so im eating junk XD

...i have a dorky friend XD everyone needs one XD ...his name is Joe but i call him Toby XD

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chatial • 10 August 2011 at 12:33 AM

@lynntrade
I love the name Tobi.
On Okami one of my favorite characters was Tobi.
You have to go through this obstacle course with this piece of evil paper.
And then you defeat him and he dies.
But he thanks for for being such a worthy opponent.
(x

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lynntrade • 10 August 2011 at 12:35 AM

@chatial XD wow XD...*sigh* i have nothing to do *thinks* i think im gonna stay on and try to draw so i stop moping XD

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zebra101 • 10 August 2011 at 12:39 AM

@chatial


sooo sorry 😃 hope everything gets better *huggles*

Deleted • 10 August 2011 at 12:41 AM

"We were really close and I didnt want to do it."

What does that mean??

@Chatial

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chatial • 10 August 2011 at 12:42 AM

@chloekins
Break up with him. (x

@zebra101
Mmm, yay. Hugs❤️

@lynntrade
I wanna see!
I love looking at art.

Deleted • 10 August 2011 at 12:43 AM

@Chatial

Oh, whew. Good, i took that sentence another way.... XD @Dawnfur might understand what i thought XD

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lynntrade • 10 August 2011 at 12:43 AM

@chatial XD ...do you by any chance like dragons 😸

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chatial • 10 August 2011 at 12:44 AM

@chloekins
Don't be dirty minded! 😱
But hmmm.
I wanted to do it.
You can take that any way you want.
xD

@lynntrade
In 5th grade I was obsessed.

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lynntrade • 10 August 2011 at 12:48 AM

@Chatial well i have some of my drawings on
http://lynncrow.deviantart.com/
if you want to see some of them ...i also do a little photography ^^ ...im still trying to decide if i want to draw a dragon or try and make a new creature XD

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redfire77 • 10 August 2011 at 1:04 AM

@chatial aw... ;n; *huggles* im sure it will be fine, just go to sleep 😋

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mangyrawr • 10 August 2011 at 4:30 AM

poor you ☹️ *hugs* it will be okay I KNOW 😃

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