Bullying Discussion Board

maiden • 10 February 2015 at 9:18 PM

I have made this because I to am being bullied. I'm the little kid and my whole class is the strongest and toughest. It isn't fair. I have thoughts of leaving this school and NEVER EVER COMING BACK! It makes me feel upset. I have maybe 3 friends in my class? This is for all others... Like a journal almost to keep your bullied activity here and most importantly to get great tips from all your friends. Thank you for supporting me and others that are angry, sad or even lonely.

Poem (Maybe?)

You should stop bullying. You know that girl you called fat? She's over-dosing diet pills. You know the boy you tripped? He gets enough abuse at home. You know that girl you called ugly? She only puts make up on so they can like her.
(This isn't about you but what the bully(ies) makes me feel like. Have a bully poem? Post it makes us all feel a bit better)

tetraethylammonium • 10 February 2015 at 9:43 PM

I hope things get better for you, I personally go to school where its just joking around and maybe occasionally my classmates go a little too far but never too serious, so I cannot pretend to relate. However, we recently had an assembly about bullying featuring a man whose son committed suicide due to the fact he was getting bullied. Even though I have no real personal experience with bullying, you deserve to know that I, and others care.

jirachiwishmaker • 10 February 2015 at 9:56 PM

@maiden

Try not to think about what they're doing, and if you can try to ignore them, or avoid them in class if that's possible. It's too bad you don't have that obsidian stone, when I saw that name I thought you should get one of those, it keeps negative energy away and they wouldn't bother you if you kept that stone in your pocket whenever your at school.

shelby • 10 February 2015 at 10:54 PM

@maiden
You should seek out an adult and tell them what is going on.
Don't just ignore it, that will only let it get worse and continue.
Talk to a school counselor about it.
Talk to someone who can try to make it stop.

maiden • 11 February 2015 at 5:08 AM

Thanks @shelby @chloelove @tetraethylammonium
These were all helpful... I ave been talking with my school counsler but everytime time they get suspended and come back...They worst than ever.(Focusing on two other people) They simply don't get it. If you get In-School Suspension, or just Suspension. They should realize what's best which is to leave me alone or they will get suspeneded. A few days ago like Friday, One of the two (Not telling names) called me two things g** and fa****. just wish I was home-schooled. Also I did have a Obsidian Charm (Really Expensive) It would be tucked in my shirt from my neck. That was unti this Monday. they were both tugging and pulling at i as if they were choking me then of them ripped the charm's braclet (Whatever hangs around your neck) It fell to the ground and they stomped on it... You know... One kid choking me 10 day suspension other was vandilism h had to buy a new one and 5 day suspension. Never got the charm back.

mastergemma • 11 February 2015 at 5:33 AM

@maiden
I really have low tolerance for bullies and to swearing constantly. They are the filth of the world, assuming they can abuse someone else.

Ahem... excuse me for that slight outrage. A person I knew died from it.

I would suggest to stop getting them into trouble, I think the bullies would see it as an insult to them (as they see it as perfectly fine) and seek revenge, making their bullying worse.

maiden • 11 February 2015 at 6:10 AM

@mastergemma I never told on them it would alway be the teachers or the bully who tells the teacher which leads to him being in trouble. Hey! If you want to bully me You can't do it over revenge T_T

zanabean • 14 February 2015 at 1:39 PM

I have never been bullied so I don't know exactly what your going through but I have had friends who have been or are bullied, the problem is they go to different schools. One of the reasons that I think I don't get bullied is that I send of a sort of vibe that tells people I don't care what they think. Now I know that telling you to just stop caring is both illogical and not very helpful so instead of actually stop caring just try not to let them see you care. If I ever was bullied I would probably give it all back verbally, if they did touch my then I would give them a smack down which many people can't. Here's a tip, if you can't win physically win verbally. I think that I have a fair chance at both because I have a quick wit and me and my sister will get into mock fights all the time. Many people can't win those ways but you can try. All I can do is give support and hope for the best oh and one other thing, whatever they say about you isn't true. Good luck hon. =)

alien • 14 February 2015 at 7:01 PM

I think I'm getting bullied cause I like trains... #ebolo

funyarinpa • 16 February 2015 at 11:38 AM

@maiden I really hope things get better for you soon. I don't have any recent experience with being bullied but, in primary school, people would gang up (about 8) on me and back me into corners or against walls and block me in to insult me or just yell at me until I was crying- I have also only been hit once or twice on purpose by anyone at school (at primary), at least from what I remember. This was from what has to be 7 years ago now.

You're school is being terrible in the way they are dealing with this. At my current school (secondary) there are people in year 7 self harming because they aren't getting help. I know one parent whose daughter wouldn't hurt a fly and gets it horribly- she reminds me a lot of myself. She is going to be withdrawn from the school, which I think is the best course of action if it has been going on for so long without the school removing the bullies from the place permanently or using more severe punishments.

I really feel for you, what they are saying is horrible and, if it were scaled to the adult world would be illegal. I hope this is fixed soon, when it happened to me I was very vulnerable (my dad was diagnosed with cancer and was in and out of hospital all the time, deaths in the family etc. - I can't really remember anything from those years) and I have counselling today for anxiety and depression- and still have issues with other aspects of school. No matter how small it is, it really can cause permanent damage, and that is one of the hardest things.