Depressed :(

eternaleyes • 21 October 2011 at 5:23 PM

@briseis Don't feel down be happy. They are a lot of girls who don't look physcially appealing to me but they are nice sweet kind and try there hardest and that earns respect and to earn respect is something you will cherish

briseis • 21 October 2011 at 5:25 PM

@eternaleyes honestly respect isn't enough. It can't replace being in a relationship. Respect is something only you experience, you can't share it with anyone else. I'd rather not be respected but have a boyfriend than have the respect of every person in the world.

Deleted • 21 October 2011 at 5:26 PM

@p3lfteng in my school, that's not the case😋 just strutting down the hallway will most likely get somebody laughed at XP

p3flteng • 21 October 2011 at 5:26 PM

THAT'S THE THING!!!! Your'e never going to attract a guy when your moping around like that. Youv'e got to be confident, and let your inner beuaty shine through. But no offense, if I was a guy, I wouldn't date you. You are to0 depressed, get out there and play the game.
@ icicle??? haha 😋

briseis • 21 October 2011 at 5:27 PM

I don't understand why everyone thinks I'm moping or I'm depressed. I'm far from it. I'm friendly and I smile at everyone. It's simply that I'm not physically attractive that I'm not dating, and that bothers me. I'm not moping to my friends or complaining to people I see. I'm just not that type of person.

whitefall • 21 October 2011 at 5:29 PM

No offense, but most popular people are stuck up snobs who happen to think they're "all that".

eternaleyes • 21 October 2011 at 5:29 PM

@breseis Well.... I met the girl of my dreams but she is a grade higher and I want to ask her out but I'm totally freaked so I really do feel for you

briseis • 21 October 2011 at 5:33 PM

@eternaleyes you should just talk to her.

Your case is different from mine. You have a girl you like; I doubt there's a guy at school that likes me but is too afraid to tell me. That's just not realistic.

p3flteng • 21 October 2011 at 5:33 PM

Not at my school... they are people that are nice and caring and earn popularity by being RESPECTED because they belive in themselves.

@eternaleyes
You should, maybe she would go out with you.

whitefall • 21 October 2011 at 5:33 PM

If you really think you're a "nobody" then will it matter if you go alone? No. Go alone. If you really want to go.

We have a dance in school soon (I'm not going, my parents are definetely too awkward about these things). If I could go, I would just go with my friends. Half the people aren't even going with date.

briseis • 21 October 2011 at 5:35 PM

@whitefall I'd just be embarrassing myself by going. I want to go, but I'd only humiliate myself by going alone. At my school, going without a date is laughable, and people take notice for sure.

Deleted • 21 October 2011 at 5:35 PM

@briseis

Just to add, a lot of the reason people are popular are because they are confident in themselves. It's been scientifically proven that people who exude confidence attract the attention of other people. And popular people usually stay popular because they keep their confidence high, I guess sometimes with their fashion or whatever, but that's superficial.

You can be attractive in a confident way and not have to be that dreaded idiotic 'popular', yet still have friends and people who would like to go out with you. You don't have to be a superficial 'popular' to have guys like you.

Like @eternaleyes said, it's what's on the inside that counts. So if you think positively inside, it'll translate out positively.

And your school sounds awful if everyone judges you like that. I'm sorry you go to school with such an awful bunch of kids.

toy • 21 October 2011 at 5:36 PM

@briseis
You don't need someone else to be happy -.-
You can be independent.
You don't need to rely on someone else for your entire life.
Enjoy being single while you are,
believe me boys will just tie you down and there's always a chance of heartbreak.
It's not worth being depressed over.

briseis • 21 October 2011 at 5:40 PM

@qwerty732797 my school isn't awful. A lot of the people are selfish because they're rich and well-off, but these people are also just naturally beautiful and perfect. Although it's idealistic to believe that what's inside is what counts, I sincerely doubt that's really the case, especially with dating. Maybe it's just different in Arizona, but to be popular you have to be attractive, loud, and rich. I'm none of those things. So even though I am confident, people here only look at me scornfully, because I'm out of place.

@toy yeah, I hear that a lot, but to be honest, I don't believe a word of it. I've never dated so I have no idea how I'd feel if I was broken up with, but dating in itself wouldn't be bad at all. People seem to say things like "it's really not worth it" just to console others who aren't lucky enough to enjoy the dating scene...

I don't mean to be rude though. I'm sure you meant it sincerely.