rant. read at your own wish, and no argueing or screaming!

Deleted • 24 April 2012 at 6:51 PM

the drama. i read a few older locked forums. people gang up/scream at people for nonsense. its really annoying to me, because it seems like no one really cares if maybe that person was having a horrible time, or was mentally unstable. do you see what i mean? it pissed me off. i wish people learned to be more open to other peoples opinons. when you gang up on someone, thats just wrong. your hurting someone emotionally, probably even mentally when you do it. keep it to yourself or do it somewhere else or in pms, but dont do it on a kids site. people read that, and they *if they have empathy* can feel how bad your making that person feel. ive had a bad day today with some bullys. can you tell? XD

1992firebirdgirl • 24 April 2012 at 6:53 PM

i agree

Deleted • 24 April 2012 at 6:54 PM

@1992firebirdgirl yeah. sometimes its for a good reason, and sometimes its for nonsense. even i relize this. why cant others?

whispers • 24 April 2012 at 6:54 PM

@growler
I can tell.
Let it out. I've dealt with it before.

april__ • 24 April 2012 at 6:56 PM

I agree and disagree.

It's OKAY to have different opinions from someone. And it's okay to debate them back and forth as long as one is respectful and does not insult the other person.

For example. I'm FOR Abortion.

If someone was against.... It'd be fine if we debated back and forth about our reasoning but it is not okay if we personally attack the other for an opinion we have.


I do find it sad when people's feelings get hurt though. On a different site, I just had my feelings hurt because someone got upset and mad at me for my opinion I had. It's not fair. Everyone is entitled to their opinion.

I'm entitled to mine. Just as much as you're entitled to yours.

So yes. People should be more respectful and happy to each other! =D We are all humans after all. And all feel emotion. Well unless you're a psychopath... but a psychopath probably wouldn't come here. XD

Deleted • 24 April 2012 at 6:56 PM

@whispers yeah. i mena COME ON! is it really nessacary to get rude, or yell at someone? in one, the person made a completly reasonable reqest, and they got insults hurled at them. is this really in human nature?!
@april__ i like your reasoning. im just annoyed because ive had a abd day and was looking for a topic and clicked the wrong page and read a few VERY offensive stuff.

1992firebirdgirl • 24 April 2012 at 6:57 PM

@april__ i agree too btw im against abortion lol

piucca • 24 April 2012 at 6:58 PM

@growler
*Shrugs*
We are just human 😋
I guess it is just what people do to each other.

Deleted • 24 April 2012 at 6:58 PM

@1993firebird im for it if the baby hasnt taken a shape, or its in the first month of the pregnacy.

april__ • 24 April 2012 at 6:58 PM

@1992firebirdgirl

Lol. I'm completely for. For many reasons, but that was just an example of how two people can disagree but still get along, while debating in a polite manner.

I was on the debate team at school. /isanerd/

Deleted • 24 April 2012 at 6:59 PM

@piucca i wish people didnt. it might really hurt someone, you know? i mean, i probably wouldnt be able to handle it mentally. i already taking meds for control obsession and depression, and ive nearly commited suicide before. so it upsets me.

piucca • 24 April 2012 at 7:10 PM

@growler

You have to try to put your emotions to the side.
Laugh it off.
If someone bothers someone on a forum... walk away 😃
That is what is so awesome about the net, you can just go somewhere else ^.~

Deleted • 24 April 2012 at 7:14 PM

@piucca unless you love the site. then it spills over into other things, like how i got practally ran off wajas the first time i joined for asking why people seemed so angry all the time. its better now, the mean people where kicked, but back then a year ago some people were very mean.

piucca • 24 April 2012 at 7:38 PM

@growler
Who care what these people think?
If you let them get to you... they win.
Might not be fair or whatever you want to
call it, but in the end who really cares what jerks think?

Deleted • 24 April 2012 at 7:40 PM

@piucca i lot of people really. not very many people have a thick skin for this stuff, even more so with kids.

piucca • 24 April 2012 at 7:52 PM

@growler

good life lesson then.
People are a-holes, kids need to learn that ^.~

balletninja • 24 April 2012 at 7:52 PM

@april__ Just saying, I read your post. YES ABORT ALL BABIES. xD I am kidding, say pro-choice so people don't get the wrong idea.

What I think of it?
Grow a thicker skin if you can't take it.
It is part of our society to argue and be awful.
You can't just live your life helpless, you have to learn how to grow up and represent yourself.

april__ • 24 April 2012 at 7:53 PM

@balletninja

Meh. If they get the wrong idea because I say for abortion, then they need to get their brains checked. When I've been in debates, it's referred to as for abortion or against. *shrugs* So they can get brains! XD

Deleted • 24 April 2012 at 7:55 PM

Some people need abortions. If you were 15 years old and you were pregnant, wouldn't you want an abortion? Sure I would feel guilty... but having a baby is just too much sometimes!

balletninja • 24 April 2012 at 7:56 PM

@april__ I am pro-choice.... Pro-abortion just sounds wrong, even though it has a different meaning. Sorry, every time my brain sees a word and pro I think that automatically meaning to always do something. Pro-choice sounds less brutal to me xD

stellalunagirl • 24 April 2012 at 7:59 PM

@growler
Its hard to read what you say because you don't put capitals at the start of your sentences and your first post was just a big block of text.

And what's with the Abortion topic all of a sudden?

taffy789 • 24 April 2012 at 8:00 PM

Grow a thicker skin?

Some people can't do that. ><
Mentally.
That, or they make their own ways of dealng with it.
( Antisocial disorder, self mutalation, depression, ect, ect. )

I'm saying this because, as a super hypersensitive person, it's extremely hard to just, "laugh it off".
I know people can be horrible, but I know how hard it is for people like me to deal with it.

(Actually, I just need a hug when I get flustered and angered, but if anyone like my parents see me crying, they'll do the prefect thing you do when someone is crying, and yell at them to stop. >.> )

april__ • 24 April 2012 at 8:03 PM

@stellalunagirl

I was giving an example of a friendly debate. And it actually got talked about. XD


@taffy789

I agree.

I suffer from Anxiety, Depression, ADD and other disorders. Growing a thicker skin isn't the easiest thing.

I can't laugh it off. Many people just think that depression is just a bad mood, or being sad for a day. It's an illness. I've suffered from it for a couple years. It's not just a bad day. It makes you feel helpless. Scared. And you can't just turn it off. It's something in the brain.

I wish I could turn it off and it's not me being weak. It's a chemical inbalance in my brain I can't help.

balletninja • 24 April 2012 at 8:04 PM

@taffy789 I think growing a tougher skin in the best way to deal with the issue at hand. No solution will be perfect.

I get flustered, and I get on the verge of tears at times but as I get older I grow out of it slowly. There isn't always going to be a person there to help, you don't have to be independent totally but you do need to know how to handle yourself.

stellalunagirl • 24 April 2012 at 8:07 PM

@april__

My friend suffers from medical depression as well and I can relate a little to how you feel, thought I'll never really know how it feels to really have depression and not just be "depressed" about something.

april__ • 24 April 2012 at 8:08 PM

@stellalunagirl

It's not fun. There are some days I can't ge tout of bed.

I think I forgot to make my point in my last post. O.O

My POINT was that not everyone can just grow a thicker skin like that. It's not that easy for everyone. Though, I don't get upset by other's easily. But others may.

takaedakumi • 24 April 2012 at 8:10 PM

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Deleted • 24 April 2012 at 8:10 PM

@piucca so, its okay for kids to get ganged up on and screamed at, because there learning soemthing? i would prefer to be stupid all my life. XD

taffy789 • 24 April 2012 at 8:11 PM

@april__
I serious want to get myself tested.
I THINK I have bipolar disorder. ><
OR SOMETHING.
My Mom says: "Oh, you're just growing up!" 😃
...Yeah. 😋
'Cause fearing you're going insane is part of "Growing up". 😋
Then again, who knows? 😋
She might be right.
I might grow out of it.
But if I feel like i'm freaking out right now, what does it matter?
(BTW: I'm neither for or against abortion. It's their choice, but if the person choose to be a totally...yeah... and get pregenant at 14, it should their punishment to at least deliver the baby. 😋 Maybe that'll teach them! XD But being...yeah...is a totally different story. D: )

@balletninja
Maybe I will grow out of it.
But right now, I can't.
I've tried to not let it bother me, but it still bothers me mentally.
Badly. 😋

april__ • 24 April 2012 at 8:12 PM

@takatheeducatedkid

... This isn't an abortion debate topic. I was just making an example. /facepalm/

And it's killing me to force myself not to rebut your post with my reasoning.

But this topic isn't about abortion... So...

@taffy789

Forcing them to deliver the baby? At 14? For punishment? Absolutely not. /mustresistdebatingoverthis/




And guysssss, I was just posting an example. I didn't want to actually start a debate...