Anyone Willing To Give A HUG? :C && I need advice ):

masquerade • 16 September 2011 at 11:17 PM

@lizardfeather that's just it. No male likes me, because of how I look. I'm fat, ugly, and just plain strange in terms of body shape. Who'd like that?

@balletninja I doubt there's a single man in this world that would lower himself to my level. It just doesn't seem right. I'd feel bad for any man who did lower himself to my level, simply because he could he going for someone better, like @dawnfur.

balletninja • 16 September 2011 at 11:18 PM

@masquerade then try to approach them. Sometimes you have to find your prince charming.

lizardfeather • 16 September 2011 at 11:19 PM

@masquerade If they're judging you by how you look alone are they worth it anyway?

masquerade • 16 September 2011 at 11:19 PM

@balletninja, there's no way that'd change anything. Boys either laugh at me, smirk at me, ignore me or avoid me.

@lizardfeather that's what all boys do isn't it? So there's no way out.

Deleted • 16 September 2011 at 11:20 PM

@masquerade I'm not the skinniest person ever,, You don't need to be to find somebody.

masquerade • 16 September 2011 at 11:20 PM

@dawnfur it isn't just weight, it's beauty too. I have absolutely none, on top of being fat and overall misshapen.

Deleted • 16 September 2011 at 11:24 PM

@Masquerade I'm not beautiful either. People make fun of me for the same things,,

lizardfeather • 16 September 2011 at 11:25 PM

@masquerade 0_0 Seriously just accept who you are, you're a good person on the inside and I bet you look fine. You're not going to be perfect and you'll find someone who likes you. 😊 Well I have to go now so bye 😸

masquerade • 16 September 2011 at 11:26 PM

@dawnfur yet you've had 4 boyfriends. That doesn't really add up :<

glazzie • 16 September 2011 at 11:26 PM

HUG FOR YOU!
I think you did the right thing. I've been through this before also. If you kept fighting, you were obviously not made for each other. If he keeps texting, simply text back to him "Please stop texting." or "Look, I don't think we are made for eachother. Please do not reply."

If you still are not sure, don't text him, talk to him. If you can't do either, just leave it. He'll stop sooner or later and get the message.

masquerade • 16 September 2011 at 11:26 PM

@dawnfur yet you've had 4 boyfriends. That doesn't really add up :<

smilies • 16 September 2011 at 11:29 PM

I don't have to worry about being plain or anything, because the only males I ever see are my brother, dad, male teachers and ppl on tv X)
There are dances and stuff, but I'm just too shy and embarrassed to go to one. Anyway, I'm only 15 😋

@masquerade Everyone is beautiful :')

masquerade • 16 September 2011 at 11:32 PM

@smilies, that really isn't true. One look at me would tell you otherwise.

Deleted • 16 September 2011 at 11:33 PM

@Glazzie Thanks😊 Imma try to talk to him...
@Masquerade Cause I'm not afraid to be me.. I danced in the cafeteria yesterday at breakfast with my friends cuz I don't care what people think of me. And I made a new friend. And people LAUGHED. (Not really At me, but yeah..XD)

smilies • 16 September 2011 at 11:34 PM

@masquerade O_o I am sensing depression

glazzie • 16 September 2011 at 11:39 PM

@smilies Thats so true. Everyone is truly beautiful

masquerade • 16 September 2011 at 11:39 PM

@dawnfur I'm not afraid of who I am inside. It's what's on the outside that's bad. Terrible, actually.

@smilies you'd be depressed too if you looked like me. Trust me, it's not a good life.

lennyangel • 16 September 2011 at 11:59 PM

@masquerade since you are so determined to think you are ugly (and who am i to say otherwise?) and you think no boy will ever like you you should....
Become a lesbian!
Ahahahaha no, you can't just change your sexuality at the drop of a hat.
But you say beauty as though it's a physical thing. I know many girls who are drop dead gorgeous, and then they talk to you, or about you, and after a while something in my head changes and i no longer see them as beautiful. I recognize they are physically attractive but every thing they do repulses me. It's exactly the same with this so called "ugliness" that you say you possess to ridiculous degrees.
And, you should really consider accepting yourself more, confidence is attractive. If your a downer on yourself all the time, how can someone be confident enough that you'll like them?
If you still don't believe me, there are always the visually impaired. But i don't think you should date someone based on their lack of eyesight.
I think, that actually you aren't as bad as you think you are. And that you will find someone, or many someones. But you'll just have to be patient and perhaps perk up a little. K? 😊

masquerade • 17 September 2011 at 12:03 AM

@lennyangel I've been patient 17 years, I haven't dated once. It isn't my confidence that needs surgery, it's my face and body.

lennyangel • 17 September 2011 at 12:11 AM

@masquerade You're seventeen? (i'm guessing from the patient thing) If so, then you've wanted to date since you were born? Someone's keen.
Wait, your seventeen and haven't dated......get. a. grip! Woah, oh my goodness, seventeen and no boyfriend? Clearly, the whole world hates you and you should give up now. Or you could hang on a bit until your actually mature and in the proper world before coming to the conclusion that no one will ever like you for who you are. And i'm pretty sure if you consider you need surgery, then you don't have THAT much confidence.
HOWEVER, since you are going to all the effort of complaining and not saying "hey, thanks for trying to cheer me up!" seems like you WANT to call yourself ugly. Because that gets you attention and makes you "different". But that's me assuming to know you, which i don't. Perhaps you really do hate yourself? Ah, well, good old seventeen. You're hormonal and self concious. It's not a particularly fun age at times. I wish you luck in the wide world, and pray that you realise you are worth more than you think and that someone, at the very least one person, will love you. Just for you. No adjustments, no extras, just you. And i hope you find that person. And live happily with them. Because everyone deserves that. And i'll wish it 😊

balletninja • 17 September 2011 at 6:36 AM

@lennyangel //claps Beautiful.

cafe • 17 September 2011 at 6:45 AM

I'm 16 and have only ever dated online [Not like, online dating sites, but friends online, that stuff xD] and that was over a year, wait two I think, ago. I'm waiting for college before I actually date, the guys are more mature.


In middle/highschool [Short time I was there] I was always tea-bagged because I'm short -.-
If you don't know what that is, you shouldn't know what it is,roflrofl

Just because you don't have a boyfriend at 17 doesn't mean the world's ending.

lennyangel • 17 September 2011 at 7:31 PM

@balletninja
Oh, thank you 😊 When i saw you pinged me, i was prepared for you to tell me to stop being mean (even though i did not intend to be mean, and don't think it came across that way, but hey, the internet is full of people who may interpret me different) I was pleasantly surprised 😊 thanks

Deleted • 17 September 2011 at 7:32 PM

@dawnfur //Huggles so much.// You did da right ting if you tink you did in your heart.

linpug • 17 September 2011 at 7:32 PM

@dawnfur YAY back together ❤️ *Hands cookie*

Deleted • 17 September 2011 at 7:35 PM

@Linpug (: Thanks! 😃 Ahhh, I can't stop staring at the bracelet! So Pweettyyyy❤️!

Deleted • 17 September 2011 at 7:35 PM

@dawnfur Aww. Never mind. Thats so sweet! Hes the luckiest guy in the world. ❤️

Deleted • 17 September 2011 at 7:36 PM

@Bluegirl80 HeeHee. I'm the luckeh one❤️

Deleted • 17 September 2011 at 7:37 PM

@dawnfur Your Both Lucky!!!

Deleted • 17 September 2011 at 7:38 PM

@Bluegirl80 That's a good conclusion 😃 !
*Cuddles Pillow Pet*