Anyone Willing To Give A HUG? :C && I need advice ):

Deleted • 16 September 2011 at 6:37 PM

Never Mind. We're back Together Now❤️

I Think He's Learned His Lesson 😉


Wanna See What He Got Me For My Birthday?

http://i52.tinypic.com/2a0apug.jpg (:❤️

luvduv • 16 September 2011 at 6:42 PM

*HUG!*

Deleted • 16 September 2011 at 6:43 PM

@Luvduv Thanks.. I Really Need One.
*hands Cookie*

sky • 16 September 2011 at 6:44 PM

It depends on how bad the fights were, I mean, I would fight with my boyfriend only because one of us were in a bad mood, also because he wouldn't stop talking about this other girl which led to break-up.

I've been concentrating on my work more when we began going out, after the break up my grades dropped.

But in my opinion, in a way, I think it's best.
School is probably the main focus at this point, especially if your grades have not been going so well.
It's best not to focus too much on relationships.

So far I've made it TWO years without any relationships, and my grades have been going back to normal, as it should be.

Just tell him you need some distance from him for a while.

I'm not the best person to give advice but, I hope you'll feel better.

-Hugs-
😊

luvduv • 16 September 2011 at 6:44 PM

Okay: now for advice. *People say I pone at this*
Were you always fighting about little things or big things? (I can only help you after I know this 😋 )

Deleted • 16 September 2011 at 6:48 PM

@Luvduv Actually, Both.
@Sky Keeping Distance is gonna be hard. He won't give up, I KNOW he won't >__< doesn't help we have 5/7 classes together.. and my science teacher made us lab partners..

candy_girl_1298 • 16 September 2011 at 6:51 PM

@dawnfur did you tell him why?

Deleted • 16 September 2011 at 6:52 PM

@Candy_Girl_1298 Yeah I Told Him I Couldn't Fight With Him Anymore And He Was Beginning To Remind Me Of My Dad Too Much...

sky • 16 September 2011 at 6:57 PM

@Dawnfur

I know the feeling. Sort of.
One of my exes had broken up with me a long time ago, in school he would say hi to me but I'd try to ignore, at one point I found a new boyfriend but my ex had gone out and gotten himself a girlfriend only to try and make me jealous.

I know ignorance is not the best choice, but in this situation, maybe talking to him again? Maybe giving him some closure?

Sorry, it's really all I've got.
☹️

luvduv • 16 September 2011 at 7:00 PM

Okay look; he has to know that you can't fight any more. Tell him if he doesn't give you space, you can never really think about it. FORGET HIM! Do it for a few days, and see if you feel happier. If not, maybe you guys need to work some things out, because you guys may really be good together if you don't fight as much, and you can be back at ease either way.

Orderedchaos • 16 September 2011 at 7:03 PM

*hug* Breakups are hard and they only get harder as you get older. But if you were fighting all the time over everything. Then it was for the best. Perhaps tell your ex that you can still be friends? That might make him back off a bit, if you're still willing to be friends with him. But I definitely agree with sky, try to concentrate more on your classes than on him. It'll give you something to focus on and keep him off your mind.

Deleted • 16 September 2011 at 7:07 PM

@Sky Everytime I try to talk to him, I just CAN'T. I can't even like look at him, I have to walk away before I like cry.
@Luvduv But I Love him in a little high school girl way.
@OrderedChaos Not EVERYTHING..

He's like going the extra mile, and it's kinda making it worse..

evilyowling • 16 September 2011 at 7:09 PM

*Hugs*

☹️

luvduv • 16 September 2011 at 7:10 PM

@dawnfur : That wasn't like a "forever and always" thing. I just mean maybe it might be better to see if, you guys just ignored each other, it might get better. If not, then maybe try the relationship again.
Hard as it may seem, if he just won't go away and the retry thing didn't work, try to find a new guy. You'll be happy, and he'll learn to back off.

Orderedchaos • 16 September 2011 at 7:11 PM

@dawnfur Maybe write him a note or have a mutual friend pass along a message that you need for him to leave you alone for awhile? At least until you can talk to him yourself.

Deleted • 16 September 2011 at 7:12 PM

/hugs
Grades are what you should be focusing on right now.
I know you're not out of high school, so I'm pretty sure having a boyfriend right now isn't really the right thing.
Also, the fact that it ruins your concentration makes it a good thing that you broke up with him.
Tell him you still want to be friends, and you still like him (if you do, mate), but that you need to concentrate on your schoolwork or something.
Having a guy in your life all the time isn't really necessary. Not until you get to the age where you can start a family, get a job, stuff like that.

But these are my personal views. I just thought I might expose them to you.
I've never had a boyfriend, even when I've liked guys. </3
This is said from someone who's never had that guy in her life. (x
Except miomar. ;D ❤️

Deleted • 16 September 2011 at 7:17 PM

@Katniss He didn't distract me, but it's a distraction now that's he's gone ☹️
@evilyowling Thanks EvilCakes❤️

Deleted • 16 September 2011 at 7:19 PM

@dawnfur
He's not gone, he's in your classes! Just talk to him, be his friend, smile and stick to him.

luvduv • 16 September 2011 at 7:19 PM

@dawnfur : personal opinion ~ you really don't seem over this guy yet. But with all the fighting... Oh man you really do need a hug! *Gives another HUG!*

Deleted • 16 September 2011 at 7:20 PM

@Katniss Yeah, But...
It's Not The Same..☹️

Deleted • 16 September 2011 at 7:21 PM

YOU BROKE UP WITH JACOB?! AFTER ALL "THAT"?!

Deleted • 16 September 2011 at 7:22 PM

I DIDN'T EVEN REALIZE THAT WAS JACOB.
Wow. T_T

Deleted • 16 September 2011 at 7:24 PM

@Chloekins You're Seriously Gonna Bring "That" Up NOW?
@Katniss Nice...
@Luvduv I'm Not...☹️

mangyrawr • 16 September 2011 at 7:25 PM

@dawnfur you made wrong choice you guys would need each other so you should text him XD TEXT. Did you even want to brake up?

Deleted • 16 September 2011 at 7:26 PM

@Mangyrawr Well No.. But What Am I Supposed To Do?

luvduv • 16 September 2011 at 7:29 PM

@dawnfur : Dawnfur, there is an option. Try again. Make it YOUR job to end fights, instead of fight them. Example; "NO! I said that I got to choose tonight! Why watch a CHICK FLICK?!"
Instead of "My turn!" Say, "Okay, what do you want to watch? Just nothing TOO... gory (or whatever) you know I don't like that." Okay, that was a lame fake fight, but do you get my drift?

Deleted • 16 September 2011 at 7:31 PM

@Luvdu Yeah, I Get It.. He's Kinda Hard To get To Though...>.>

mangyrawr • 16 September 2011 at 7:32 PM

@dawnfur I have got the choice on msn 😃 do it I am happy like that

luvduv • 16 September 2011 at 7:33 PM

Okay.... Maybe, tell him something sappy like "I really like you, and want to stay with you, but if we keep fighting, I just can't do it." He may seem hard to get at, but I think he'll understand @dawnfur

candy_girl_1298 • 16 September 2011 at 8:44 PM

@dawnfur well if he keeps "stalking" you then maybe he really wants to get back together, but see if he ever says hes sorry for the fights.