I feel like a jerk. >.<

taffy789 • 19 February 2012 at 7:51 PM

Because sometimes, I complain about the problems I had as a kid. ><
And then I see and hear about all the more drastic problems and troubles people have/had here, and in school, and even my friend's...
And it makes me feel cruddy.
It's like... I wish I could relate better, so I could help people, and give them advice... But my problems seem so small(And they are) compared to theirs, so I can't help. D:
And if it's two things I hate are:
1. Being helpless.
2. Not being able to help others.
And even TRYING to give advice makes me feel bad, because I'm saying I can relate, when I really can't. ><
I WISH I could help people... I might be considering being a depression counselor, because I DO REALLY want to help people out... To help, save someone, to be a guiding light.
To live for others, and support people.
But how am I supposed to do that when I can't even relate/ give advice? D: //doom//

(PS: I don't care if anyone posts after me or not, I just wanted to be heard. >~< Feel free to post anything though. )

Deleted • 19 February 2012 at 7:52 PM

@taffy789 No you have done nothing wrong dont feel that way!!

cafe • 19 February 2012 at 7:55 PM

@taffy789


A problem is a problem, no matter how small. Just because you haven't lead a horrible life, doesn't mean you don't have the right to complain. You //can// complain.

There is a difference between complaining, and being selfish {IE I GOT A BLACK IPHONE FOR CHRISTMAS, I WANTED A WHITE ONE. MY MOM DOESN'T LOVE ME] compared to I got a old hand me down phone. I like it, but I sure wish I could have gotten something new instead of used.

balletninja • 19 February 2012 at 7:56 PM

Other people have done bad things....
I wonder who impersonated me today?
And called me ugly?

@taffy789
Just do the best you can do,
all you can do is try and I think you do a fine job at whatever you do!
Someday you will accept yourself, and be happy with trying 😊

lily- • 19 February 2012 at 7:56 PM

@taffy789
😱
Aww. Don't feel that way. It's nice to see someone wanting to help out and you don't need to relate in order to help someone.

cafe • 19 February 2012 at 7:58 PM

@Balletninja

You gotta name?

They gotta facebook?

crescentfeather • 19 February 2012 at 8:00 PM

@taffy789 You cheer people up with your stories 😸

cynt5100 • 19 February 2012 at 8:00 PM

You can still help if you can't relate. You can stand up to bullies or be a shoulder to cry on

balletninja • 19 February 2012 at 8:01 PM

@cafe

It was in a chat room with my eggcave friends.

It was one of the users on this forum that impersonated me...

No one would do that to me in real life.

Deleted • 19 February 2012 at 8:02 PM

@Balletninja Well they shouldn't do it to you on EC either.

Whoever did is either a no life

or jealous.

Deleted • 19 February 2012 at 8:04 PM

@Balletninja
Did they do it again?
Or are you talking about the time they called you a ugly troll?

balletninja • 19 February 2012 at 8:05 PM

@dawnfur
Both? 😊

Hahaha!
I should be the bigger person but sometimes it is too easy not to me xD

Deleted • 19 February 2012 at 8:08 PM

@Balletninja That works too.

Whoever did is a no-life jealous troll.

Lol ;D

taffy789 • 19 February 2012 at 8:09 PM

@ everyone

Yeah, I understand that, my friend tells me it's okay if I don't relate when she's telling me her problems, but I feel horrible I can't give her any advice. >< My experiences were nothing like hers. All I can relate to is how terrible it feels. D:


And I still don't like to complain about the problems. >.> I never even told anyone very deeply about anything intill recently. So... Yeah. 😋
And complaining about my problems to people who might've went through more crud than me? I don't like that idea. 😋
(Besides, all my problems are pretty much gone now. .-. )

balletninja • 19 February 2012 at 8:09 PM

@dawnfur
I bet you can guy who.
The hater of the night.
Anyways it was stupid.
They should have known,
that I would blow it up xD
I have too many friends
to let this fly 😃

bunnyshadow • 19 February 2012 at 8:12 PM

@taffy789 A problem is a problem, and helping someone is helping😊

Deleted • 19 February 2012 at 8:13 PM

@Balletninja If my suspicions are correct, it's not even worth worrying about. It's pretty pathetic actually; people these days.

And you know who you are, you remind me of the people who sent Jordan over the edge. You won't get sympathy from me. Ever.

lily- • 19 February 2012 at 8:16 PM

@taffy789
Nice to hear your problems a gone, which is a good thing if you want to help someone because it gives you more strength to share. And mainly when someone needs help they want someone to talk to and be there for them, not always advice, so you just being there is more than enough 😸

cafe • 19 February 2012 at 8:18 PM

@Balletninja


//Twirls -Gale- around on cane//

phoenixfox • 19 February 2012 at 8:18 PM

@taffy789 You can always offer advice, whether or not you've been in the same type situation. It helps just to know someone actually cares. If you don't know what to say, then offering support is the next best thing. ^.^

@balletninja How can someone impersonate you if you are the only person able to access your account? Did you get hacked?

balletninja • 19 February 2012 at 8:18 PM

@dawnfur Oh I know.

Just let them feel the consequences later.

Even if nothing happens online, in real life if they keep acting like this, things will come flying back at them.

Deleted • 19 February 2012 at 8:19 PM

@Balletninja Just leave it to the one person who knocks some sense into them. Literally. xD

balletninja • 19 February 2012 at 8:20 PM

@phoenixfox No, no, no.
A chat site.
Where I communicate with friends on here,
you can use any username you want and they used mine.
Makes it too easy to impersonate.

phoenixfox • 19 February 2012 at 8:22 PM

@balletninja

Oh, not good. Not good at all ☹️

rawrcookies08 • 19 February 2012 at 8:29 PM

@balletninja Do you know who it really was?