Night ruined :(

Deleted • 27 October 2011 at 11:48 PM

@briseis what are you talking about? your a good person, you just need to realize that everyone is differnt, and use it to your advantage. there is someone for everyone, yours might just not be there yet,like mine isnt either.

balletninja • 27 October 2011 at 11:49 PM

@briseis

I am sorry,
I have done all I shall ever do.
I wish you could understand
but sometimes,
it takes time.

@plooke
To avoid the weight issue comments,
let that chocolate be a synonym for apple.
// le eats honeycrisp apple.

metaphor • 27 October 2011 at 11:49 PM

@plookle

Lol, I'd do that if I hadn't already indulged my hormones with a whole pizza.😋

briseis • 27 October 2011 at 11:50 PM

@ijilleh I'm not the type of person to vocalize my "issues". I may be more comfortable online, but I've never told anyone how I feel in person. Trust me, it isn't worth it.

Deleted • 27 October 2011 at 11:51 PM

@briseis
I honestly have trouble believing this.

"Actions speak louder than words."

briseis • 27 October 2011 at 11:52 PM

@ijilleh then don't believe me? I can't force you or prove to you physically that I don't vocalize my issues. You simply have to take my word for it. It's so much easier to talk about your problems when no one can see you. I'll admit that. I'm too self-aware to actually speak of them out loud. Most people would think my issues are worthless or stupid anyways. I might as well save myself the trouble and keep it to myself.

metaphor • 27 October 2011 at 11:52 PM

@briseis

I'm the same way.
I have a hard time speaking up for myself. And it's a lot easier to sit around and mope around about what you don't have, I know.
But there are so many things you can do that make you feel good. Exercise! Whether it's walking, running, or working out, it releases endorphins, which makes you feel happy and healthy both physically and mentally. Draw, write, listen to music, study. Put all of that self-hating energy into bettering yourself!

nkiay • 27 October 2011 at 11:53 PM

@briseis

Last time and I'm gone 😉


If that is how you feel you really should seek help. Trust me, you don't have a grasp on enough of the world yet to truly judge what the rest of your life will be like.

Deleted • 27 October 2011 at 11:54 PM

@briseis do i have to get scientific?because i can give you a scientific explanation for why you feel this way, if you want to know.
@plooke why not celery? nutritionally, they burn caloris while provideing you with nutritional elements you need, and if eaten with a high calorie food, can help balence the whole meal, helping you get to a desired weight.also, if eaten by thems elves between meals and at snacktimes,can work with your metabolism,tiding you over to your next meal.

briseis • 27 October 2011 at 11:54 PM

@Trust me, I do exercise. Running and biking, and dieting (around 1200-1400 calories a day). Strangely I haven't lost any weight. Go figure?

It's easy to forget my issues when I'm at school. It's when I get home that I have time to think about things.

Deleted • 27 October 2011 at 11:55 PM

@briseis
If you might as well keep it to yourself, then please do. Because whenever I see a thread like this on an Internet forum, it makes me mad.

briseis • 27 October 2011 at 11:56 PM

@ijilleh then don't read it? I'm not trying to be rude, I'm just curious as to why you'd respond to a thread that makes you mad instead of ignoring it.

metaphor • 27 October 2011 at 11:56 PM

@briseis

Just a hint: I find that exercising to enjoy it makes it seem a lot less like a chore you need to do be attractive and more like free time. Exercise is supposed to make you feel good physically and mentally. I feel that this is often forgotten when it's too closely associated with weight loss.

balletninja • 27 October 2011 at 11:58 PM

@briseis
Wait,
what is the point of this thread?

Deleted • 27 October 2011 at 11:58 PM

@briseis if your not losing weight, replace some of your higher caloire foods with something like cucumbers,pickles(these are high in sodium so not too much),broccolie(not cooked), and brussul sproughts (not too much of these either)

briseis • 27 October 2011 at 11:58 PM

@metaphor most people exercise to lose weight. I'm having lipo suction when I get a job though, so I won't have to worry about it. If I could afford plastic surgery of any type, I'd go for that too. It may sound pathetic, but think about how many women have it done.

@balletninja there is no "point". Most threads in the Chit Chat forum have no point. Does there need to be a realistic reason for why I created it?

plookle • 28 October 2011 at 12:01 AM

In other news, the Cards are down by two in the top of the tenth inning. I'm freaking out a little.

metaphor • 28 October 2011 at 12:02 AM

@briseis

See, that's the problem. No, not that people exercise to lose weight, but that that's what we've come to associate exercising with. The same mentality is involved with eating enough fruit and vegetables.

The point is, you're more likely to make a habit of these things if you enjoy them. If you don't like walking around the block, don't. Find a form of exercise you do like or a place you'd feel more comfortable walking.
Being healthy doesn't always have to link back to being thin and being healthy shouldn't be associated solely with beauty.

balletninja • 28 October 2011 at 12:04 AM

@brisies I think the point of it was us to make you feel better.
And we are trying, NOW WOULD YOU THINK OF SOME WAYS TO MAKE THIS WORK?! Meet us halfway.

@metaphor You are being so helpful 😊
I wish I had a medal to give you.

Deleted • 28 October 2011 at 12:06 AM

@briseis they are right about that, so you really should think about what there saying.

briseis • 28 October 2011 at 12:06 AM

@balletninja I'm not asking anyone for anything. I don't know what I want, as I said before. It was just a whim. But we might as well shut this thread down or let it be submerged by other threads and be at the bottom of the list to be forgotten. Let's just stop posting. I'm tired of being an emotional wreck.

balletninja • 28 October 2011 at 12:09 AM

@plookle I also wish I had a medal for you xD
I SHALL MAKE ONE WITH MY ALCHEMIST POWERS!
Oh wait, my powers are still shipping from ebay.
(Ebay has everything)

Deleted • 28 October 2011 at 12:10 AM

@briseis
The reason why I had to respond was it makes me angry that there are people in the world that just sit around and whine about their problems instead of doing something.

Why should I care? It's annoying.

My advice:
Take everyone else's advice about losing weight. In my opinion, both physical and mental attractiveness matter if you're looking for someone to meet. If you're trying to win the affection of someone you know, then it's mental mainly. But yeah.

Next; Try getting involved in something. Find something you like and do it. For me, what I like to do is paint ceramic pottery. Admittedly not a great way to meet guys, but that's what I like to do. Find something you like that is not completely antisocial and do it.

After that; Actually talk to people. Start with like, one person you are forced to sit next to or something. If that doesn't work, try again. And keep doing that.

I've been single all my life, so I don't know if this would work or not. But this would be what I would think would work.

Ugh, sorry about late posting. But that took a while to type and Egg Cave deleted my first rant.

plookle • 28 October 2011 at 12:12 AM

I've gotta say I agree with Briseis. Not because her feelings and the opinions about them are meaningless, but because no one is benefiting from this thread at the moment and it is simply exacerbating the original problem. I would really appreciate it if everyone could let this drop.

Deleted • 28 October 2011 at 12:13 AM

okay! everyone LET IT DROP!

musicgurl333 • 28 October 2011 at 12:16 AM

@metaphoor I agree about the exercising thing. I don't need to lose weight, but I exercise because I'm happier when I do. It's a great way to destress...especially walking. I get really moody if I go too many days without exercising. lol

armageddondoll • 28 October 2011 at 1:04 AM

@briseis
Okay,there are a few things I would like to say.
Your in 12th grade you said?Great, just because no guys like you or find you attractive,doesn't mean that's how it's going to be forever.There is life after highschool you know. high school is just one big popularity contest,that loses all merit once it's over.Superficial beauty, like the "airbrushed models"? Meaningless.Guys aren't going to stay with a girl longterm only because of looks.In real life personality counts for everything.You may be a wallflower now,but after all of this ridiculousness, your going to find that person who matches you.Who loves you because your you.And you know what, they're going to tell you everyday exactly what you refuse to believe right now.That your pretty, & beautiful. He's going to think you the most gorgeous girl on the planet, & you won't believe it, but he truly means it.
I speak from experience.I hated myself all throughout highschool.I thought I was ugly, and awkward, & ignored the people who tried to tell me different.Guys never noticed me,& all of my friends WERE guys.They like the pretty popular girls.Then highschool was over. Real life happened, & I met my fianc?e.I thought he was too perfect for someone like me. Now? I'm engaged to him,he sees me for me, the awkward wallflower,sci fi nerd,bookworm; & loves me for all of those reasons & more.
So you choose to dwell & be miserable,or you can get over it because it's not the end of the world.

james-bond • 28 October 2011 at 3:10 AM

@balletninja
comment number 16 on page one was nice BN. 😊

ayuzawa • 28 October 2011 at 3:21 AM

@briseis

dude, seriously. Don't mope over it. It's nothing to be sad about. I'd doubt I'd get asked to the year 6 Farewell by a guy who actually WANTS to ask me =)_(=

If you care so much about your love life, why don't you make sure you have a good future first? =_=

no offence, I don't mean to that harsh (and I HATE ALGEBRA) but I've seen like 5 topics of yours saying how much you fail. If you really fail that much, get over it.

and people who complain too much... can end up being really annoying. trust me. i've see it before. plus, there are a billion people trying to cheer you up and then you just depressed all over again. Do you think that's fair?> People try their best to cheer you up, and you make them do it AGAIN AND AGAIN.

No offence. And don't think I'm being mean. I'm just stating my opinion... in a really harsh way, but dude, I'm 5 years younger than you.

Deleted • 28 October 2011 at 4:32 AM

@armageddondoll @ayuzawa
I love you both. 😃