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fairy_tail • 13 February 2017 at 6:39 AM
Okay guys. With Valentine's Day being tomorrow, I just wanna get this out.So I have this huge, crazy crush on this guy and the thing is that it's my first crush ever. Now, I'm not going into specifics on my age, but I will say that I am studying in university. Hopefully, that will give you guys an idea on how old I am.Back to the topic, this is the first crush I've ever had in my entire life and I have no idea what to do. At all. As cliche as it sounds, I can't talk to him because I get distracted by his eyes.I get so frustrated because I'm unable to even say a word, or if I do, I get no filter and start babbling nonsense. My heart rate spikes tenfold and I don't know what to do.I've managed to be able to wave and smile when I see him, but that's pretty much all I've been able to do.We were classmates before, so yes, he does know me. I'm just finding my feelings to be incredibly frustrating and difficult to deal with right now. I wanna talk, but I can't.I'm not sure if he likes me (even as just a friend), but then again, I have a wild imagination so I might be over-analyzing things.My friends have told me that he looks at me sometimes and he has a tendency to look away when I make eye contact or he stares intently back. I don't know what to make of this.I was planning to give a my friends and some acquaintances some chocolate tomorrow and I was planning to give him some too.Any other advice you guys could give?
april__ • 13 February 2017 at 1:45 PM
My brother's trying to bribe me with lunch to go pick him up. I can't decide if I'm hungry or not. 😋
flowerlynx • 13 February 2017 at 1:51 PM
@fairy_tail I think you should give him some chocolates. Just to be nice, and when he sees he's not the only one, he won't really suspect anything.I'd be happy to chat with you in a message, if you'd like it.@April__ If you can decide whether or not you're hungry, then... you're probably not hungry...Ask yourself: is it worth the trouble? Or would you rather just sit around? 😃 best thing I can tell you.
leafstarofskyclan • 13 February 2017 at 1:56 PM
@flowerlynx Rocks. Rocks rocks rocks!
flowerlynx • 13 February 2017 at 2:15 PM
@leafstarofskyclan Yep... if you like rocks...Rocks rock.
fairy_tail • 13 February 2017 at 2:24 PM
@flowerlynx I'd take you up on that offer. Hit me up with a PM, yeah? Thanks so much for this!
brad • 13 February 2017 at 2:25 PM
Uh, I've never actually posted here before so... hi everyone!@fairy_tail Speaking as a guy. Just go for it.Guys are rarely ever the ones that are "wanted." We're pretty much always the ones that have to do the asking out, we have to approach the girl, all that type of stuff.But the times that the girl shows the interest, it's amazing. It feels great to be the one that is wanted for a change. There could be a girl I never really thought about being together with before, that I all of a sudden find out is interested in me. She pretty much instantly becomes 10x more attractive. I'll find myself thinking about her and everything, just by finding out that she likes me.It's just so rare to be on that side of things for a guy, it feels great when it happens.
leafstarofskyclan • 13 February 2017 at 2:26 PM
@o_o Hai.@flowerlynx Rocks rock.
fairy_tail • 13 February 2017 at 2:29 PM
@o_o You really think so? That makes me feel so much better!I was just worried that maybe he'd find it kinda weird or something, to have a girl like him (so much).The thing is, we actually have a lot in common. But the problem is that we've never had a real conversation with each other outside of causal greetings. Won't it seem too sudden to learn that a girl he barely knows likes him?
flowerlynx • 13 February 2017 at 2:43 PM
@leafstarofskyclan It's true, rocks rock. I have a funny story about rocks...In P.E., we're doing a health unit on vitamins, and healthy stuff (you don't want to hear about it). There's a poster with rocks on it near where I sit, and my table and I were all talking about it. The teacher turned to us, and gave my table group the nickname, "the Rock Girls". It's really weird...But awesome at the same time. 😸
brad • 13 February 2017 at 2:46 PM
@leafstarofskyclan lol, hi. Long time no talk. 😋@fairy_tail I'm not real sure, honestly. You might just have to use your own judgement a little bit?In one case, it was a girl that was in a class that I was in twice a week, and that's all I saw of her.While we were waiting around for different things, she would just come up and start casually talking to me. After just a couple times of talking to her, she some how found me on facebook and added me. (Still no idea how she found me. lol) She started the conversations first, but it got to the point where we would both start talking to each other all the time on there... and it just kinda escalated from there.I'm sure it's going to be a case-by-case thing, but yeah.. I don't know.But I mean, hey, Valentine's day gives you a great excuse, haha.Whatever you do though, good luck! 😊
flowerlynx • 13 February 2017 at 2:48 PM
@o_o Hello there. Never really talked with you before... 😊
leafstarofskyclan • 13 February 2017 at 2:52 PM
@flowerlynx Lmao that's hilarious. I sit at a table next to four different volcano posters.@o_o I know right. Definitely wasn't just talking to you 😋
flowerlynx • 13 February 2017 at 2:53 PM
@leafstarofskyclan Volcano, you say?You can't be Volcano Girl, then. XD
leafstarofskyclan • 13 February 2017 at 2:57 PM
@flowerlynx Lmao There is only one boy at our table of three. Another girl occasionally joins us, and right now I have a massive headache and just want her and her emo comments GONE.
flowerlynx • 13 February 2017 at 3:01 PM
@leafstarofskyclan Oh, okay. At least I'm not emo, then...I don't ever plan on becoming emo...
leafstarofskyclan • 13 February 2017 at 3:02 PM
@flowerlynx Please don't be emo. I would never forgive you lmao I don't plan on it either...She's so annoying.Anyways. Lunch in five minutes!
flowerlynx • 13 February 2017 at 3:07 PM
No, lunch is at 12:35...Only joking, I know your schedule is different.Hope your lunch ends up tasting good. 😸
fairy_tail • 13 February 2017 at 3:07 PM
@o_o Wow! That girl must've had a lot of courage.I'm rendered completely unable to speak to the guy. I want to, so very much, but (and I'm not kidding when I say this) it's like staring at the sun. I can't look too long without having to look away. Then I start babbling nonsense if I ever even manage to get something out.I'm working my way to starting a conversation though. Gearing myself. Getting ready. Hopefully, soon.Actually, I added him on facebook too. Problem is, he hasn't even accepted my friend request. I don't know what to make of that...It's true though, that I can use Valentine's Day as an excuse. And hopefully it turns out okay.
april__ • 13 February 2017 at 3:08 PM
@flowerlynx Eh, I went to pick him up. I'm a good sister 😉
flowerlynx • 13 February 2017 at 3:10 PM
@April__ How nice of you.I wouldn't have picked my brother up... it's not like I could, 'cause I can't even drive.Did he get you lunch, at least?
april__ • 13 February 2017 at 3:11 PM
@flowerlynx He offered, but I didn't want anything. I just wanted to get home. I'm tired, haha.
flowerlynx • 13 February 2017 at 3:13 PM
@April__ You need a nap? Of course you do. Who doesn't?I wish I could have one right now, but it'd be a little odd to fall asleep during class...
april__ • 13 February 2017 at 3:13 PM
@flowerlynx I don't have work today. It's a stat where I am.So happy about that.
flowerlynx • 13 February 2017 at 3:16 PM
@April__ Lucky... I'm just mostly hungry, and I wish I could be home eating food and being lazy.Although, that won't happen.Lunch is in 10 minutes anyhow.Why is there no work? If it's personal, you don't have to answer.
april__ • 13 February 2017 at 3:16 PM
@flowerlynx It's a stat. 😉 Meaning that no one in the province has work or school today.
flowerlynx • 13 February 2017 at 3:18 PM
@April__ Totally missed that...You're in Canada, I believe. Well, I'm in America, so I had no clue what you were talking about...We just have holidays, and snow days. Nothing like the stat you talked about.
april__ • 13 February 2017 at 3:20 PM
@flowerlynx Today is 'family day'. Which is apparently a stat holiday. I think it's just an excuse to get a day off in February.
flowerlynx • 13 February 2017 at 3:21 PM
@April__ It probably is...Are you having a fun day?
april__ • 13 February 2017 at 3:26 PM
@flowerlynx Besides being woken up by my brother messaging me to pick him up, haha yeah.How about you?