I think we should change our attitudes a bit ^^;

whispers • 27 June 2012 at 2:40 PM

I've been seeing people "pointing fingers" and ganging up on people for their opinions on topics.

On several suggestion topics, and topics where I have stated my opinion. Other people who have a differing opinion than mine gang up on me and act like I'm the jerk. Like I'm the stupid idiot that doesn't know a thing. It hurts my feelings a bit.

I'm not pointing anybody out. I'm just saying I've been seeing this lately. And I would ask kindly that people would stop and respect each others opinions, and not bash at them for it. ^^

akira • 27 June 2012 at 2:45 PM

Agreed❤️

seaangel • 27 June 2012 at 2:47 PM

Totally. This isn't supposed to be a horrible place!!

Ian • 27 June 2012 at 2:48 PM

All:

@whispers brings up a great point. The point of offering a suggestion is to put something out there and brainstorm. If you don't like a suggestion or disagree with it, it's important not to start an argument over it.

Great thought.

chibidarkness • 27 June 2012 at 2:50 PM

Yep. :>

cafe • 27 June 2012 at 2:51 PM

Agreed

There is debating
And then there is full blown arguing.

1992firebirdgirl • 27 June 2012 at 2:52 PM

@whispers i agree

qwaszx • 27 June 2012 at 2:55 PM

Woah Ian's on your side. O.O

I agree too.😋

whispers • 27 June 2012 at 2:56 PM

@qwaszx
I was shocked too o.o
I took a screenshot and everything to make sure I wasn't dreaming XD

cubexline • 27 June 2012 at 2:58 PM

I agree, I seen this on a few suggestions and it makes me a bit sad how it gets ☹️

mewlynnmagic • 27 June 2012 at 2:58 PM

@whispers

TOTALLY AGREE!

</3

chibidarkness • 27 June 2012 at 2:59 PM

@mewlynnmagic

What's with the </3 ? :?

mewlynnmagic • 27 June 2012 at 3:00 PM

@chibidarkness

No reason at all.

<_<

chibidarkness • 27 June 2012 at 3:03 PM

@mewlynnmagic

There must be one, looking at your status. I'm curious, so I'm going to PM you.

mewlynnmagic • 27 June 2012 at 3:03 PM

@chibidarkness

Okay xD

jillianjil • 27 June 2012 at 3:04 PM

Cool Ian saw! That must mean this topic is an awesome one! 😋 Of course I agree too. Sometimes I state my own opinion about something and the person/people I say it to get all offended. ☹️ I thought suggestions were supposed to be edited for the better!

whispers • 27 June 2012 at 3:06 PM

@jillianjil
I know! On several suggestions which wouldn't be good to the community, I stated my opinion. The suggester and people who agreed with him/her started bashing at me ☹️

jillianjil • 27 June 2012 at 3:07 PM

Lol see? This is an awesome topic! 😃 Hope no one starts clashing here. <.< >.> 😋

whispers • 27 June 2012 at 3:09 PM

@jillianjil
That would be sad is somebody started bashing here ☹️

chapus • 27 June 2012 at 3:11 PM

@whispers I totally agree! We need to learn to accept the thoughts of others. Like it says, "If you don't like something, don't say anything."

icymuffin • 27 June 2012 at 3:13 PM

@whispers
Yeah, we're kinda a 'family' here on Egg Cave. c:
I luff you guysss~


I don't think it would go over very well for them considering the subject matter.
Not that I'm saying anything.
It'd just be... saddening D:


@chapus2009
I think it would be more like, point it out if you'd like, but don't do it intentionally in a manner that would hurt other people.
Afterall, sometimes we need multiple views to a suggestion :]

whispers • 27 June 2012 at 3:14 PM

@chapus2009
Well, we have a right to state our opinions, but if we have nothing that the suggester can improve on, don't say it

1992firebirdgirl • 27 June 2012 at 3:14 PM

@whispers i got bashed today. I hate getting bashed for spending cc

whispers • 27 June 2012 at 3:16 PM

@icymuffin
I'm confused with the second part you said @_@
@1992firebirdgirl
What? o.O
Why bash you for spending your own CC >.<

jillianjil • 27 June 2012 at 3:17 PM

@1992firebirdgirl Aww that just stinks. -.- 😋 I really hope this topic will change that... ☹️

1992firebirdgirl • 27 June 2012 at 3:20 PM

@whispers because people think its stupid to spend so much money when you could buy other things. But i see it as buying art. And if I have the money to spend than why not. i allow my self to spend 1500cc a week and i hate when people make me feel bad for it . I contribute to the site by buying monthlies every month and i am purchasing other peoples art . what is so bad about that ....Sorry I am a little emotional about this subject

whispers • 27 June 2012 at 3:21 PM

@1992firebirdgirl
If I was allowed to get CC, I would do the same as you.
They shouldn't have bashed you.. You are supporting the best site ever ^^ And you can do you what you want to do, and they can't change it!

balletninja • 27 June 2012 at 3:23 PM

@1992firebirdgirl woa, I didn't even bash you. Bashing you would have been like "I CANNOT BELIEVE YOU SPENT THAT MUCH MONEY ON A DOOVOO! OMG. WHAT A WASTE!"

I just wanted you to realize that is a lot of money for an online game. That money could be used on car gas, food, electronics, Ect. In fact I told you that I wasn't going to govern your life, I just want you to understand for the future that it is a lot of money that is not being spent in moderation for a pixel.

1992firebirdgirl • 27 June 2012 at 3:24 PM

@whispers i agree..it just gets to me when people say "YOU ARE SPENDING THAT MUCH MONEY ON PIXLES" And act like i am a crazy person.

icymuffin • 27 June 2012 at 3:25 PM

@whispers
It was in response to your comment on how it would be sad if someone started bashing here ^^"



Don't you guys ever feel like Egg Cave sometimes needs to remember this was created because of community? D:
It has been such a long time since I've first heard it on the blog, but I still remember that :I